Like always [DT Note: pg-11] - Page 4

Originally posted by: Cookermaichane

Father of the year kya isko tooh father of the decade ka trophy milna chahiye

🤣🤣🤣

Doc abhimanyu Birla 🍺🍻

Bilkul, best father of the century milni chaiye 🏆. He did what even the so called Acha Aadmi couldn’t do, keep his son’s happiness before his!!

I am waiting for Akshara’s suffering and realization… But not very hopeful regarding her realization - theres hardly any brains in her to process things.

Originally posted by: NomadicWonders

@red Taking care & following blindly are two diff things. First is what every child (boy or girl) must do for their parents. Second is what one shouldn't do for anyone!

If a mother decides who the son should marry (when AB proposed AR but did dola re dola with AK) ; who the son should engage the second time (get married for Ruhi's sake) ; if custody should be fought.... and the son nods to everything despite his heart being not there.. just bcos mother will faint or bcos she has a huge backlog of pain... is defo unhealthy codependency.

Lastly, AB is a bad husband due to his negative traits. No denying AK has her weaknesses as well and has made fair share of mistakes.

But unlike AB, if AK outwardly stated that their marriage felt like life imprisonment to her, then she actually moved on & chose another man.. Which isn't the case with AB..

If AK is so bad then he should be glad to get rid of her, but he keeps on running after her despite her being as you mentioned impulsive, unthoughtful and uncaring.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

By the way, after rejecting Abhimanyu and his role as father - why is Akshara planning picnics to make him happy? Earlier she was fine letting him die without knowing about Abhir! What type of rejection is this that she can’t stay happy if he is sad? 🤔

Akshara is cool like that. She is like tumko tang kiye bina mujhe neend na aaye mujhe chain na aaye yeh kaisi mushkil haaye 🤣

Next level chal rha hai uska. I wonder ke as Character Akshara k dimag mein kya hai exactly. Khud k thoughts k saath kaise rehti hai 🤣

Today's episode just reiterated what I have always said about Abhimanyu in all my posts and threads about him. That Abhimanyu himself is the greatest villain of his life and every suffering of his has always been the direct consequence of his own impulsive,intentional and ridiculously thoughtless actions.

How does one 40 year old think his 6 year old could live without his mother when he cannot at his age, how does a 40 year old think his 6 year would choose him over the parents who raised him. To thoughtlessly keep a child separate from his parents.. ofcourse he would be taught a lesson. Ofcourse his biological son would reject these notions and wake him up from these delusions. This was Abhimanyu's lesson : Even with LEGAL HAQ you cannot force your biological son to consider you a father.

All his HAQ went to the dumps.

This is also his punishment for listening and going with every single one of his mother's vile plans to keep Abhir as a prize for show in the Birla House when it was crystal clear,with literally the rest of members of the house telling him every other day, that Abhir was unhappy staying in Birla House and he was yearning for his mother, his parents. A lesson for despicable Manjiri as well : You cannot consider a human being, a little kid a land to conquer, a land you can forcefully stomp your feet on, KABZA on.

Abhir rejected the HAQ and KABZA and freed himself from these two's clutches and thats essentially why Abhimanyu today is off his rockers,intoxicated and hallucinating on the streets.

When he is stumbling and wobbling on the street he says 'I failed to become a good Dadda to you, Abhir'.. if I am paraphrasing this correct, he is absolutely RIGHT. And that is where he loses any semblance of sympathy from me.

If he was a good father, he wouldnt have separated Abhir from his parents when he KNEW how much his parents meant to him.

If he was a good father, he wouldnt have waited till Abhir literally had to run away from BH and from him for his mother and then say ' I am unhappy and I wanna go to my parents' to let go of him. He was so blindsided by his own selfish needs to be a father that he simply ignored what was right infront of him for weeks : An unhappy Abhir missing his parents. His own needs blinded him to take care of sons's.

So ofcourse he has to suffer now. Because he made his biological son suffer from seperation from his parents.

In the past Abhimanyu has conveniently blamed Akshara, Shivji, Kanhaji and now its suddenly QISMAT.. when all along it was ALL HIM. White day and whatever ensued as a consequence, separating Abhir from his parents, Abhir running away from BH and now Abhir rejecting him for his parents and taking back the faux father epithet Dadda respectively... ALL OF IT was and is ABHIMANYU's fault alone.

The day he finally accepts his faults without instant whitewashing and playing the victim card is the day he would be actually deserving of some sympathy. Because how does one with even sympathize now when all he's getting back is KARMA, which its completely deserving.

How exactly did Abhi make them feel guilty?
When Akshara tried comforting him yesterday, he said I will be fine, I just need time, and told her to leave him alone and go enjoy with her family, Funny thing is Akshara came outside, Abhi didn’t show her his pain-he got a call and went outside to grieve on his own- he didn’t show it to anyone.

He quietly dropped off Abhir’s things, he didn’t come inside the house and disturb their family time.

Today he was drunk and dealing with the pain on his own, he was sleeping the hospital and minding his own business, he didn’t bother anyone- it was Manjiri over stressing.

Again, he didn’t know they were coming over - even after they came - he thought he was imagining things and he didn’t saying anything hurtful.
Victim blaming would be him constantly showing to them how much pain they gave him- but here Abhi is keeping his distance and dealing with it on his own. He hasn’t gonna to Goenka house and accused anyone of anything.

I don’t think any parent would accept rejection from their own kid well.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

All of this you have written has been addressed by so many of us since season 3 started and again after the leap. About Abhimanyu's core issues and how he never improved. It is not even about rejecting Abhimanyu as Abhir's father. It's like his tantrum throwing dramatic behaviour when he doesn't get what he wants. He still has so many reasons to live. Like his mom, like his daughter samaan Roohi. For 6 years, she was the sole reason for his living. Think about Akshara who had to give up Abhir. The only kid she has. And it's not like they said he can never meet Abhir.

I didn't know for parents who have more than one children, they just wash their hands off responsibility to the other children because one wants to live with his mom

Also, no one has any issues with a man crying. Everyone should cry. But when you cry and get your sadness out, you are supposed to become a better human being. Not to keep playing victim card and make others feel guilty. That is what Manjari does all the freaking time and also Abhimanyu.

It's like ma-beta duo has separate rules.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

When Abhi cries for Abhir, he’s in pain because he’s the best father and is wronged by everyone.

When Akshara cries for Abhir, it’s karma hitting for hiding Abhir’s truth and she deserves it.

When Abhinav cries for Abhir, it’s OTT he’s not even the real father, he’s the fake father who stole Abhir from Abhi and for selfish reasons manipulated Akshara and Abhir to be with him all these years.

Can someone tell my why Abhi was crying in the episode? I’m thinking because he got rejected and he can’t take rejection but please let me know if it was for something else.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

I’m sorry what?!😂. I don’t know if this comment is sarcastic or not. Abhi is intoxicated- how is he supposed to be composed, he is hallucinating because he is overly intoxicated. He was drunk in his house, not theirs.

Wo Abhi hai, usko nashe me bhi dhyan rakhna chahiye ki Akshu madam apne pati aur bache ke sath uske Ghar kabhi bhi tapak sakti hai so be ready all decked up to welcome them.

Originally posted by: Cookermaichane

Yesterday abhimanyu also visited goenka house

Did he gave notice 🤔

and Main question is it’s not only abhir

Roohi and Shivu also staying in birla house

But Ruhi and Shivu’s parents were wise enough to keep them away from the drama!

Abhir’s parents on seeing Abhimanyu’s state found it best to let the child witness Abhimanyu breaking down for him. But yeah it’s Abhimanyu’s fault that he was hallucinating when drunk and should have thought of how it would impact Abhir because the Sharmas even when sober are incapable of doing that!! 🤔

Originally posted by: SwatiSingh79

Did he approach them? He left Abhir's bags and left, Abhi wasn't drinking in the house, he was drinking in a restaurant then was taken to the house and responsible adults of that house didn't allow kids near him unlike Sharma couple who let Abhir witness everything. When Abhinav got drunk with Abhi, he had a son at home too, I don't think anyone complained about it

Oh how did we forget!!! The great goenka sisters got drunk at Kairav's bachelor party!!! Even then there were kids at home. 🤣😂🤣

Baaki kare toh raas leela, abhi kare toh character dheela!!!

Hypocrisy to another level!!!