Like always [DT Note: pg-11] - Page 20

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

If, if you take Abhimnayu Birla and place him in reality, he is the classic example of an gaslighting abuser and probably ranks second after Harsh in toxicity.

But Harsh showed the decency to apologise and get better. This dude doesn't even do that. Just keep crying, I am the victim, I am the victim!

Any one should take charge of their life ,do it is better for AbhiM to fo so at least now!

we should not expect any thing back from our children

About " gas lighting" I really agree now his behaviour gas lighting his child !

I am the victim ... roll and cry

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

She also manhandled abhi physically. But just because she is FL ,she should be forgiven. If she screams ,it's her right and if abhi does he is monster. Furthermore what happened in past is past. Let's talk about present,as far as I see abhi don't scream ,shout he changed. Now what else??

Nah manhandling and getting physical is not acceptable male or female. I didn't see that part but yeah that's messed up.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Nah manhandling and getting physical is not acceptable male or female. I didn't see that part but yeah that's messed up.

During there marriage also ,she threw bricks around abhi,even now also she you can she ,she was coming every time and grabbing his collar. These all were her emotional outlets and abhi is monster just for one wd and that too he has faced the consequences of that wd and even is facing now. What else is needed?? Should he die to get out that one mistake.

Let me tell you,I hated abhi during 1st divorce. I didn't wanted ak to come back to him. I hated him even on the second divorce and after that divorce also. But now, i definitely don't hate him. This character has suffered so much and still a lot of people can't even see his pain. His pain is tagged as over reaction. I just wished him to get Cliffed because if someone is going through this much in life, it's better to die. Manjiri is also vile. If I would be in her place,i would have forced abhi to leave that city,that place or even the country. I would have taken him to other country and there i would have tried to just renew is life, away from the past. Gosh.. what even i am saying.

I just want someone to give a tight hug to abhi and say that it's ok. This will too pass.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

@bold - when convenient- following Akshara’s request. Otherwise no issues in going against her to get Abhimanyu for the puja! No consistency! He too was selfish!

Regarding the surgery - Abhimanyu offered them before the US trip or truth reveal and later too when Arohi brought recommendation for US - she mentioned that the expenses will be taken care of by the Birla Hospital! Kairav probably just booked the tickets - he is anyways useless!

I have said it before and I will repeat - I do not find Abhimanyu abusive - including the white day - not justifying his outburst- but wouldn’t label him an abuser after considering his actions and emotional state on that day!

We will keep disagreeing here but I find Akshara the most toxic and annoying character of this season! But to each his own. I respect your views but disagree.

@blue - And Akshara said that Abhimanyu is a better person than her!

Goenka’s r as rich Birla’s when he can book the tickets he can pay for the surgery too, and I feel kv is the only person among Goenka’s who makes sense many times though he have his flaws.

@ Green , I respect ur view but cannot agree , I can understand his pain on that day though I didn’t like the way he reacted but I never liked the way he behaved n treated Ak before too. And he never bothered about her whereabouts for her for next 7mnths too .. a person who truly loved his wife can never do that .He didn’t even realise his mistakes yet or apologised for what he did but proposed her in the temple to come back.

@ Bold I have nothing so say here LOL !am not Akshara’s fan.

@ Blue , in one of my yesterday’s post I said that too . She also accepted that so why should we fight and not agree with her . so we r on the same page here 😆

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

Bold: That was another height after what she made her go through. And also Manjumatas dialogues shows how she will continue her ill treatment when AK will eventually be back in BH.

Then abhir is not gonna like her anymore.

Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

And Akshara could have refused! Her family obviously didn’t agree to the match initially so she could have easily found a way to break up with him if she wanted.

She was blinded with love….love makes people do stupid things

Well she said Bade Papa saw you push him 😅. While the promo shows Abhinav letting go of Abhi’s hand while Abhi is trying to save him. I also didn’t like the fact they showed Abhir being around an alcoholic Abhi. I expected Akshara to tell Abhinav to take him into the car.
Everyone agrees Manjiri is hypocritical and has crazy behaviors and that she is part of the reason for Abhi’s situation.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

I don’t know if he is manipulating or not but definitely the situation is quite ironic. Manjari did not like Akshara visiting her son post winning the custody and Abhimanyu too said that because Akshara comes back again and again it is increasing Manjari’s insecurity Vs the Sharmas trying to be the ones bringing Abhir to Abhimanyu because they are aware of his pain and understand it. What I didn’t like in today’s episode though is a child getting exposed to alcoholism like that. Also, Manjari continues to be a hypocrite as always.

Now I am also intrigued to see if Abhinav dies by the hands of an alcoholic Abhimanyu? Is that why Akshara is shown blaming him of pushing and still not him shown going to jail? I mean if they think Abhinav died accidentally so it makes sense ki Goenkas kuch na kare against Abhimanyu, but if they are under the impression that he purposely pushed Abhinav they will at least file an FIR or something?🤔

Originally posted by: verve

Custody was a doing of all the parents in one way or the other, and am not blaming Abhimanyu for that. In fact, I didn't even criticize him much for going fwd with it. As a bio parent he had a right to fight for kid's custody.

My issue with him started after he won custody. Saying stuff like "I went to court to let Akshnav win" or questioning god "Why are you doing this?"... doesn't sit right with a man who knows exactly why those things are happening.

This is the same thing he did after WD.. He chose his mum which is ok but then he played the wronged party for 6 long yrs even in front of the family of his ex-wife...

This just shows a pattern where one feels their pain is above everyone else's.

Manju and Abhimanyu have suffered there's no denying that & expressing that isn't wrong.. But the way they always emerge as the most wronged party despite being equally or more wrong is unnerving.

Originally posted by: verve

Custody was a doing of all the parents in one way or the other, and am not blaming Abhimanyu for that. In fact, I didn't even criticize him much for going fwd with it. As a bio parent he had a right to fight for kid's custody.

My issue with him started after he won custody. Saying stuff like "I went to court to let Akshnav win" or questioning god "Why are you doing this?"... doesn't sit right with a man who knows exactly why those things are happening.

This is the same thing he did after WD.. He chose his mum which is ok but then he played the wronged party for 6 long yrs even in front of the family of his ex-wife...

This just shows a pattern where one feels their pain is above everyone else's.

Manju and Abhimanyu have suffered there's no denying that & expressing that isn't wrong.. But the way they always emerge as the most wronged party despite being equally or more wrong is unnerving.

the bold part- how do they end up emerging as the most wronged party- like I need an example.

How did he guilt trip them? He was drunk in his own house, didn’t know they were coming. In his drunk mode thought he was their imagination. Didn’t even say anything hurtful. So you can’t use a world like guilt trip- that would be done intentionally.

Originally posted by: Indira1211