Is it a safe environment ???? - Page 2

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Lmao. Arohi changed because she became a mother. Ruhi changed Arohi. Not the Birlas.

@bold is it well the changed arohi being a mother in her jealousy apparently sent abhimanyu away from checking his patient abhir.

@red ruhi changed arohi well who changed ruhi , because a couple of days ago at camp she was supposed to be a problematic child breaking things out of anger ..

all this transformations as a mother and changing as a person happened in birla house ,

for ak too birla house was happy house till white day..

Originally posted by: SAOkr

@bold is it well the changed arohi being a mother in her jealousy apparently sent abhimanyu away from checking his patient abhir.

@red ruhi changed arohi well who changed ruhi , because a couple of days ago at camp she was supposed to be a problematic child breaking things out of anger ..

all this transformations as a mother and changing as a person happened in birla house ,

for ak too birla house was happy house till white day..

In her jealousy? The makers literally told you she wanted to tell him but she was so disturbed by the revelation,and Ruhi's entire life falling apart cause her Poppy will never be her Papa that she did out of 'darr'. It was all about Ruhi. She wasn't jealous. She was insecure for her daughter. And she has definitely changed. She is the reason Abhimanyu did Abhir's surgery. She made that happen.

Who changed Ruhi? Abhimanyu did. She did all of that to show her frustation. He ignored her for Abhir. Didn't talk to her about sharing his time. Didn't bother or notice the change in her till Arohi, the mother showed him the mirror and threatened to leave with Ruhi. That's when he gives her the sibling speech.

Ruhi changed Arohi. Being a mother changed her perspective. And Manjiri, matriarch of Birla House where she spent 6 years with her daughter bypassed her status as Abhimanyu's fiancee and Ruhi's status as future legal daughter to propose marriage of her married sister to her fiance. That's how much Birlas changed for Arohi though. How much she means to them.

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

In her jealousy? The makers literally told you she wanted to tell him but she was so disturbed by the revelation,and Ruhi's entire life falling apart cause her Poppy will never be her Papa that she did out of 'darr'. It was all about Ruhi. She wasn't jealous. She was insecure for her daughter. And she has definitely changed. She is the reason Abhimanyu did Abhir's surgery. She made that happen.

Who changed Ruhi? Abhimanyu did. She did all of that to show her frustation. He ignored her for Abhir. Didn't talk to her about sharing his time. Didn't bother or notice the change in her till Arohi, the mother showed him the mirror and threatened to leave with Ruhi. That's when he gives her the sibling speech.

Ruhi changed Arohi. Being a mother changed her perspective. And Manjiri, matriarch of Birla House where she spent 6 years with her daughter bypassed her status as Abhimanyu's fiancee and Ruhi's status as future legal daughter to propose marriage of her married sister to her fiance. That's how much Birlas changed for Arohi though. How much she means to them.

@bold oh her "darr " as a mother entitles her to behave in whichever way she wants.

then knowing the importance given by manjari to her . why she is still staying there with ruhi. isnt birla house toxic. where is now changed arohi as a mother who should fear for ruhi staying in birla . why as a most dedicated mother she is still staying there , because abhi is in the engagement only for ruhis happiness .

and pls dont tell me abhi brainwashed her or something from the very first day till now abhi clearly mentioned only for ruhi.

@ red .is it 🤣 i suppose it was ak s bajan , or his soul connect with gods , or abhirs card, or navs pleading

Originally posted by: SAOkr

well abhir will come in terms in birla house eventually. because for ak whom it was umarkaid was happy enough to conceive abhir in this hell as people claim , because no mother will be happy to have a child in BH.

and true why just abhir is under custody in birla house , even arohi the most sane one nowadys along with ruhi too ak should save them too .

but then again ar became most sane one as shown after living with birlas . and she has had no problems raising ruhi there for six years. this in itself was something birlas achieved they were able to change arohi despite being toxic , which goenkas and ak never were able to do in half of life time.

Its a totally different scenario. Akshara was an adult when she married Abhimanyu. Even if the house was hell , it ws her decision to marry into that. As adults , we learn to compromise on certain aspects of marriage , if we are happy wid the other more important aspects of it. So Akshara did. She adjusted . And she conceived not bcz she was sure of Birla house.....its bcz she was sure of herself . She knew she was capable of raising a child and give him or her a better life.

Honestly dts when most responsible adults conceive.....When they are sure about themselves.

And I beg to differ wid Arohi too. Arohi changed bcz of her situations and because of motherhood. Her life changed drastically . So she adapted and probably in all of that she changed herself. And there is no denying how much motherhood changes a woman. Both Arohi and Akshara have grown up and become mature adults. I personally dont believe Birla house had anything to do wid Arohi's growth.

Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

Its a totally different scenario. Akshara was an adult when she married Abhimanyu. Even if the house was hell , it ws her decision to marry into that. As adults , we learn to compromise on certain aspects of marriage , if we are happy wid the other more important aspects of it. So Akshara did. She adjusted . And she conceived not bcz she was sure of Birla house.....its bcz she was sure of herself . She knew she was capable of raising a child and give him or her a better life.

Honestly dts when most responsible adults conceive.....When they are sure about themselves.

And I beg to differ wid Arohi too. Arohi changed bcz of her situations and because of motherhood. Her life changed drastically . So she adapted and probably in all of that she changed herself. And there is no denying how much motherhood changes a woman. Both Arohi and Akshara have grown up and become mature adults. I personally dont believe Birla house had anything to do wid Arohi's growth.

they conceive when they are not only sure about themselves , but their partner , their financial condition,and many more nuances , ak was sure of all these despite in BH because she deemed not only herself capable of raising her child but she deemed abhi worthy of being father and BH a space good enough for her child to be raised ,

it was only after white day that she considered otherwise.

also arohi is matured and grown as a mother , ok now after manjaris negligence why is she letting ruhi stay in BH ,does she not fear for ruhis future or , she doesnt consider BH as toxic as ak claims it to be,

because as of now only ruhi seems to be supporting abhir ,who was raised in birlas.

Originally posted by: SAOkr

they conceive when they are not only sure about themselves , but their partner , their financial condition,and many more nuances , ak was sure of all these despite in BH because she deemed not only herself capable of raising her child but she deemed abhi worthy of being father and BH a space good enough for her child to be raised ,

it was only after white day that she considered otherwise.

also arohi is matured and grown as a mother , ok now after manjaris negligence why is she letting ruhi stay in BH ,does she not fear for ruhis future or , she doesnt consider BH as toxic as ak claims it to be,

because as of now only ruhi seems to be supporting abhir ,who was raised in birlas.

I will agree on d part dt Akshara was sure of AbhiM and their financial status.

But I will still not agree dt she thought of Birla house as a proper environment. Her opinion was never shown. Dt was a compromise. Her values would hv let her separate AbhiM frm his family. So she stuck to it. You may differ on this. But dts my pov .

I hv said before too.....I think Arohi should move out too. Probably she is scared of raising Ruhi on her own. Or probably she somewhere still hopes Ruhi has a father figure in AbhiM. Dts whats stopping her.

And yes Ruhi is good now. She wasnt alwys. She has changed . Also Ruhi is not a full grown adult yet. If brought up in this environment. .....she will never be a well adjusted adult ever..

Originally posted by: OnTheBlock

Lmao. Arohi changed because she became a mother. Ruhi changed Arohi. Not the Birlas.

Arey!! It's Neil ryt who made her mother....So credit goes to birlas

Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

Birla house ......is it a normal environment for a child to grow up in ???

Not just Abhir .....are any of kids safe der ?

The adults of the house are in a constant state of fights and arguments. Every adult in that house has conflicts wid one or the other. Adults are giving police ki dhamki to kids , raising their hands on kids and believe in punishing kids in the name of discipline.

Not just physical. Every other day in that house is a mental turmoil for a kid. Everyone is shouting or screaming at other. Arguing over what they think is ryt .

And worst part is ....in all of this....noone has time to look after the kids . Only two people look a bit sane in dt household and dts Arohi and Shefali. But even those two hardly have time. Arohi is a doctor and Shefali has her own issues and when she doesnt she is busy telling others not to fight.

How is a child supposed to grow up to a normal adult in such a household ?? All 3 kids will grow to become adults wid lots of mental health issues and emotional baggages in future.

If AbhiM wants his kid to have a normal life unlike himself , like he claims to have dreamed off ......maybe he should move out of that house wid Abhir . But then his Mom trumps overs everything else....even his kid's betterment. So he wont.

I wish atleast Arohi does at some point.

In real life doctors families have no time for such ridiculous drama.