Is it a safe environment ????

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Birla house ......is it a normal environment for a child to grow up in ???


Not just Abhir .....are any of kids safe der ?

The adults of the house are in a constant state of fights and arguments. Every adult in that house has conflicts wid one or the other. Adults are giving police ki dhamki to kids , raising their hands on kids and believe in punishing kids in the name of discipline.


Not just physical. Every other day in that house is a mental turmoil for a kid. Everyone is shouting or screaming at other. Arguing over what they think is ryt .


And worst part is ....in all of this....noone has time to look after the kids . Only two people look a bit sane in dt household and dts Arohi and Shefali. But even those two hardly have time. Arohi is a doctor and Shefali has her own issues and when she doesnt she is busy telling others not to fight.


How is a child supposed to grow up to a normal adult in such a household ?? All 3 kids will grow to become adults wid lots of mental health issues and emotional baggages in future.


If AbhiM wants his kid to have a normal life unlike himself , like he claims to have dreamed off ......maybe he should move out of that house wid Abhir . But then his Mom trumps overs everything else....even his kid's betterment. So he wont.


I wish atleast Arohi does at some point.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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A morning at Birla house for abhir

-He is made to feel alone

-Shivu bullies him

-Mahima calls him a problematic kid

-Parth raises hand on him

- abhimanyu and manjari didn't even ask his side of story


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pls someone get abhir out of this house ASAP smiley38



I thought Shivu will make him feel better no now makers made him complete opposite



Only ruhi is with abhir ❤️

Edited by Cookermaichane - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

Birla house ......is it a normal environment for a child to grow up in ???


Not just Abhir .....are any of kids safe der ?

The adults of the house are in a constant state of fights and arguments. Every adult in that house has conflicts wid one or the other. Adults are giving police ki dhamki to kids , raising their hands on kids and believe in punishing kids in the name of discipline.


Not just physical. Every other day in that house is a mental turmoil for a kid. Everyone is shouting or screaming at other. Arguing over what they think is ryt .


And worst part is ....in all of this....noone has time to look after the kids . Only two people look a bit sane in dt household and dts Arohi and Shefali. But even those two hardly have time. Arohi is a doctor and Shefali has her own issues and when she doesnt she is busy telling others not to fight.


How is a child supposed to grow up to a normal adult in such a household ?? All 3 kids will grow to become adults wid lots of mental health issues and emotional baggages in future.


If AbhiM wants his kid to have a normal life unlike himself , like he claims to have dreamed off ......maybe he should move out of that house wid Abhir . But then his Mom trumps overs everything else....even his kid's betterment. So he wont.


I wish atleast Arohi does at some point.

They don't. The reason why all Birla adults are like this. Some were ignored, some developed severe anger issues, some were made to feel less.


Usually all ITV households are toxic. But it's mostly the whole house torturing the FL. There is unity in that lol. But Birla house is another ballgame. Nobody actually likes each other but for some reason they all have to live together and constantly fight. This is true for Shah house too in Anupamaa but atleast they have the middle class excuse.


There's a literal domestic abuse perpetrator amongst children and he's talking about beating kids to discipline them. He threatens kids with police but nobody is threatening him back with the same.


Basically the makers want to show exactly that. Kasauli was heaven, Birla House is hell. Abhir will go back.

Posted: 2 years ago
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No environment is safe for a child on ITV because makers use kids for drama

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Posted: 2 years ago
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This topic has been discussed multiple times. Multiple polls were created to show how bad birlas are.

Please refer below thread for all the points. Thanks

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai/5332627/is-bh-safe-for-abhir

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: WhtsinAname

Birla house ......is it a normal environment for a child to grow up in ???


Not just Abhir .....are any of kids safe der ?

The adults of the house are in a constant state of fights and arguments. Every adult in that house has conflicts wid one or the other. Adults are giving police ki dhamki to kids , raising their hands on kids and believe in punishing kids in the name of discipline.


Not just physical. Every other day in that house is a mental turmoil for a kid. Everyone is shouting or screaming at other. Arguing over what they think is ryt .


And worst part is ....in all of this....noone has time to look after the kids . Only two people look a bit sane in dt household and dts Arohi and Shefali. But even those two hardly have time. Arohi is a doctor and Shefali has her own issues and when she doesnt she is busy telling others not to fight.


How is a child supposed to grow up to a normal adult in such a household ?? All 3 kids will grow to become adults wid lots of mental health issues and emotional baggages in future.


If AbhiM wants his kid to have a normal life unlike himself , like he claims to have dreamed off ......maybe he should move out of that house wid Abhir . But then his Mom trumps overs everything else....even his kid's betterment. So he wont.


I wish atleast Arohi does at some point.


No it's not it's not even safe for Shivu as the child will continue to b bully and his grandmother and father will continue to neglect it.. What will it result in? Shivu will be exactly like his dad or worst. He too deserves good environment to know the difference between right or wrong

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I believe that the contrast is shown so well....abhir was a happy child in sharma house....with happiness all around...

yeh birla house real mein kaid khaana hai...akshu ne sahi kaha...uski shaadi abhi se umer kaid thi...and manjari ne abhir ko kaid kar ke rakha hua hai....

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: firewings_diya

This topic has been discussed multiple times. Multiple polls were created to show how bad birlas are.

Please refer below thread for all the points. Thanks

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishta-kya-kehlata-hai/5332627/is-bh-safe-for-abhir

Thank you.

Wow. Only 9 days between these threads and now we can add threatening children with police, bullying and almost child beating/abuse to the list. What a splendid house for a child to grow up in.


Curious what horrors next week and the new 'Birla House' thread may bring.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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well abhir will come in terms in birla house eventually. because for ak whom it was umarkaid was happy enough to conceive abhir in this hell as people claim , because no mother will be happy to have a child in BH.

and true why just abhir is under custody in birla house , even arohi the most sane one nowadys along with ruhi too ak should save them too .

but then again ar became most sane one as shown after living with birlas . and she has had no problems raising ruhi there for six years. this in itself was something birlas achieved they were able to change arohi despite being toxic , which goenkas and ak never were able to do in half of life time.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: SAOkr

well abhir will come in terms in birla house eventually. because for ak whom it was umarkaid was happy enough to conceive abhir in this hell as people claim , because no mother will be happy to have a child in BH.

and true why just abhir is under custody in birla house , even arohi the most sane one nowadys along with ruhi too ak should save them too .

but then again ar became most sane one as shown after living with birlas . and she has had no problems raising ruhi there for six years. this in itself was something birlas achieved they were able to change arohi despite being toxic , which goenkas and ak never were able to do in half of life time.

Lmao. Arohi changed because she became a mother. Ruhi changed Arohi. Not the Birlas.

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