How parents affect kids...

Separation and custody drama is nightmare for parents but kids suffer the most, in this situation the best thing a parent can do is make things as easy as they can for their kids

But sadly, Akshara and Abhinav chose to break Abhir's heart, broke his confidence and his will.

The kid was told that his medical condition was a financial burden on his parents, they are broke because they had to pay for his bills. The child who wanted toys and his room, has stopped asking for things and confiding in people close to him because he doesn't want to be a burden on them as he was to his parents

Akshara and Abhinav's lies just made things easier for them like it always did, they never think about Abhir. If he was told the truth like Ruhi since childhood, he wouldn't be going through this mess

Akshara was preparing for Abhir's custody, she knew one day Abhimanyu will know the truth and she'll have to fight for Abhir, then there's no excuse for not preparing Abhir for the things to come

Abhir was in similar situation in Kasauli, when he had health issues, he had to hide and live in pain because he didn't want to bother his parents, at least he confided in Abhimanyu before but now, he can't even do that as he has been told that he is a burden on his family 💔

Akshara and Abhinav's lies didn't result in Abhir not hating Abhimanyu, it resulted in Abhir loathing himself, he still loves parents, they get his love but he has to cope up with the heartbreak alone

Abhimanyu being a doctor should see that the child is going through extensive mental strain and should take him to a psychiatrist.

Note - Discussion based on episodes in the show YRKKH which airs on Hotstar and Star Plus

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Kids are always the collateral in custody cases.

It's horrible that abhir has to go through this ..he lost his innocence , his confidence , his everything ..na akshara ka rahega , na abhimanyu ka. And the way its going in Birla house , it'll turn worse.

This!!! Like for 6 years she was preparing to legally fight with Abhimanyu for Abhir, so why didn’t she prepare her son also?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Akshara was preparing for Abhir's custody, she knew one day Abhimanyu will know the truth and she'll have to fight for Abhir, then there's no excuse for not preparing Abhir for the things to come

Not even a single person other than Arohi and Ruhi actually care about Abhir (didn’t know I’d say this about Arohi one day lol). All of them are tossing the poor child around. Do the Sharmas know what Abhir wants? Birlas? Goenkas? None. Abhir lives with Abhimanyu yet he has no idea. You can’t just pray to God and not do anything about it. That’s literally all Abhimanyu is doing.

They can’t change what they’ve done in the past but at least make sensible decisions moving forward but noooo!!!

No parent is perfect!!! And parenting is the most difficult job in the world!!!

All 3 parents are trying to do everything for their kids, be it abhir or ruhi.

However, I'm angry and disappointed with Akshara for mainly 2 reasons

1. She kept abhir from Abhi for 6 yrs and she has no regrets. She used her son as a tool to avenge her ex. To compensate that, she made some random person, his father. She failed as a mother there.

2. To hide abhir from Abhi, she deprived abhir from all his relations and love for 6 yrs!!! Until now he never saw a full family with grannies, uncle's aunts, siblings. According to abhir, his parents are his only world!!! Which is making his life in BH difficult for him!!!

And instead of helping abhir to settle there, she is making it worse!!!

Because now it's about Haq!!!

And surprisingly, Abhinav jo abhi ka haq maar ke baitha tha 6 saal tak aur custody case ke liye bhi Maan Gaya tha, which could have resulted in abhi losing all his rights over abhir, Aaj abhi ki tarif kar raha hai ke " bhaiji hamara haq nahi cheenege".

Kya hypocrisy hai yeh!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

But Abhi has been shown talking to Abhir and trying to get him to talk. Even today, he was like you can tell me anything, I’m ready to listen.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Not even a single person other than Arohi and Ruhi actually care about Abhir (didn’t know I’d say this about Arohi one day lol). All of them are tossing the poor child around. Do the Sharmas know what Abhir wants? Birlas? Goenkas? None. Abhir lives with Abhimanyu yet he has no idea. You can’t just pray to God and not do anything about it. That’s literally all Abhimanyu is doing.

They can’t change what they’ve done in the past but at least make sensible decisions moving forward but noooo!!!

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

But Abhi has been shown talking to Abhir and trying to get him to talk. Even today, he was like you can tell me anything, I’m ready to listen.

Even Sharmas are shown asking Abhir but how are they implementing that is the main question.

Akshara makes everyone life miserable. She doesn’t like to listen others point of view and just starts yelling on Birla.

Today’s episode How calmly Abhi was explaining to Abhir that anger takes you nowhere and destroys everything. While Akshara was trying to hide everything and never ready to kid let know about his real father.

No matter what happens between husband and wife she should not have let kid hide from father.

Please I don’t want to listen about WD anymore. She had a many chances after Kasauli Milan to told him about it.

Instead of hiding and lying to Abhir as Abhi told she should have explained to him that parents are no longer together for their own reason but Abhi is your real dad and he would have different impact on him.

Even in precap she is saying that she will not keep him with Birla as atmosphere is not good there so why she is telling Abhi that take care of Ruhi and Papa to Ruhi.

Doesn’t she has a double face?

in this whole current scenario only Abhi is the one who is behaving properly.

Thank God Abhi started pen his mouth and show her reality that she runs away from problem and never face it (precap).

She is forgetting that she was raised by family who was favoring only one child throughout and never care for her and never look for her after she ran away two times. She forget when she was missing her mom it was KM who helped her

She should start thinking about that if she is behaving like just seeing her son in trouble what KM has gone when she found out that her son and grandkids were dead because of her negligence.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

No parent is perfect!!! And parenting is the most difficult job in the world!!!

All 3 parents are trying to do everything for their kids, be it abhir or ruhi.

However, I'm angry and disappointed with Akshara for mainly 2 reasons

1. She kept abhir from Abhi for 6 yrs and she has no regrets. She used her son as a tool to avenge her ex. To compensate that, she made some random person, his father. She failed as a mother there.

2. To hide abhir from Abhi, she deprived abhir from all his relations and love for 6 yrs!!! Until now he never saw a full family with grannies, uncle's aunts, siblings. According to abhir, his parents are his only world!!! Which is making his life in BH difficult for him!!!

And instead of helping abhir to settle there, she is making it worse!!!

Because now it's about Haq!!!

And surprisingly, Abhinav jo abhi ka haq maar ke baitha tha 6 saal tak aur custody case ke liye bhi Maan Gaya tha, which could have resulted in abhi losing all his rights over abhir, Aaj abhi ki tarif kar raha hai ke " bhaiji hamara haq nahi cheenege".

Kya hypocrisy hai yeh!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

It's really really high time they recognise that since cat is now out of bag..Abhir finally knows truth..neither Abhir nor Abhi can be totally out of each other lives..even Abhir will feel conflicted if Abhi is forced out of his life .they should all make it easy for kid and tell him he is lucky to have not 2 but now three loving parents in his life...and all of them should...co parenting is the ONLY solution now. It's high time everyone stops using Abhir as a tool to fullfill their personal agendas..revenge..haq or whatever name they have to give it...and focus only and only on Abhir his mental state...help him adjust through whatever storm they ALL have brought in his life not just Abhi..as far as a clip I saw ...Abhi realises Sharma couples role in Abhirs life..will they recognise Abhi