Should Akshara be blamed (Clips Added) ... Poll conclusion Pg. 17 - Page 11

Originally posted by: Krinya

As of now 72% think akshara is NOT responsible while 50% think she should apologize guilty or not👏

I see it as 50% who thinks she should apologize and 50% don't think that.. But I genuinely want to know logic of people selecting 2nd number 😭

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Well there you go. Akshara asked neil for his opinion what would he do and she said she will do whatever he says as she was clearly in a dilemma.

Neil immediately without much thought said on humanitarian grounds that they both are going to be parents themselves so how can they leave another person's child alone in such a situation.

So on what basis are people terming akshara as neil's killer and that she should apologise when it is quite clear it was equally neil's decision as he too didn't think it was right to leave the children and akshara asked his opinion on what they should do and she also went forward with the plan to save the children after consulting neil.

Neither akshara or neil did anything wrong that day and akshara especially did nothing wrong and she clearly never forced her opinion on neil leading to his death, so how is she to blame? Funny thing is we know if instead of neil if akshara died that day none of the family members would have blamed or punished neil like what they did to akshara even though neil and akshara equally made the decision to help those children that day and endanger themselves in the process.

Everyone acts like neil had no part in any decision making that day and was forced by akshara to endanger his life.

Then when neil was stopping akshara to go out of the car to save the children, he just didn't want akshara to go but he himself wanted to go, so like topic maker said his decisions were independent of akshara's, only difference was he wanted to minimise akshara's involvement, but he had full intention of wanting to save those girls.

👏 well said...

I too don't think she is responsible for KILLING Neil or her baby...

Just too much of blame on her for ber carelessness.

Originally posted by: chaipaani

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Neil us jagah pahucha kaise?

Call toh Neil ko nahi aayi thi?

In case Neil lekar hi nahi gya hota ya cramps nahi aate toh bhi call toh aati Akshara ko unlogo ki and obviously woh jaati.

Neil saath tha isliye wahan tha.

Jab apki wajah se koi kisi problem mein involve ho jata hai toh ap sorry bolte ho.

Yahan toh woh mar gya.

Agar main kisi k saath jaun gaadi mein aur bolun k yaar zra bus 5 min ka kaam hai wahan lena aur gaadi puncture hojaye tab bhi muh se niklta hai k sorry yaar meri wajh se kaam bigad gya. Bht kaam bigad jaaye toh kaafi dino tak normal insan sochta hai k arey yaar isse toh jaate hi nahi. Jab dubara milte hain tb bhi muh se nikalta hai k sorry yaar us din meri wjh se apnbht late hogye hope jyada kuch na hua ho.

Koi yeh nahi keh rha k Akshara ne chaku lekar maar diya Neil ko.

But ek basic tarika hota hai to deal with situations like this jo chalo us din kaafi ajeeb hi mahol tha but Ab toh theek hai, maa maa maa kar skte ho us maa ko sorry nahi bol skte 🤣

But chaipaani yaar... In whatever condition she was... She apologized... She said sorry... And if Manjiri wasn't in her senses nor was she... But she had that guilt feeling it seems. I don't like watching Traumatic things to watch those scenes got verify claims (though I am told it wasn't Traumatic but comedy.. But rona dhona chikna chilana isn't my cup of tea)... But seems she had some realization.... Everyone suffered but seems like she suffered the most. She constantly heard everyone blaming her, including MG, whom btw... She called... Uss insaan ne ek baar Akshu ko nai bola that dude.. Don't go.. We will manage...

But wanting her to feel guilty till date or reflect on what happened till the date isn't something I find too logical. She can learn some lessons but for that matter everyone needs to learn and talk.

What does she need to reflect? Was she stupid.. Yes but does stupid person understand they are Stupid - I don't Think so... They will continue doing everything... But she Did learn her lesson to not risk her life while being pregnant... She kept saying that after she found out her child one was alive... Woh baat alag hai actions didn't match but that realization seemed to be there...

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

But chaipaani yaar... In whatever condition she was... She apologized... She said sorry... And if Manjiri wasn't in her senses nor was she... But she had that guilt feeling it seems. I don't like watching Traumatic things to watch those scenes got verify claims (though I am told it wasn't Traumatic but comedy.. But rona dhona chikna chilana isn't my cup of tea)... But seems she had some realization.... Everyone suffered but seems like she suffered the most. She constantly heard everyone blaming her, including MG, whom btw... She called... Uss insaan ne ek baar Akshu ko nai bola that dude.. Don't go.. We will manage...

But wanting her to feel guilty till date or reflect on what happened till the date isn't something I find too logical. She can learn some lessons but for that matter everyone needs to learn and talk.

What does she need to reflect? Was she stupid.. Yes but does stupid person understand they are Stupid - I don't Think so... They will continue doing everything... But she Did learn her lesson to not risk her life while being pregnant... She kept saying that after she found out her child one was alive... Woh baat alag hai actions didn't match but that realization seemed to be there...

I am not denying that she suffered. What follows after Neil's cremation was worse for her.

I even understand that when she took the bus she had no idea what she is doing that was level of shock.

But what I am talking here is of a basic apology. Now.

Things have changed she is in a better place. According to even Manjari she has grown up so as someone who is grownup you realise that others are still stuck there. Abhir is living in BH now & to think about it she has an idea that Manjari still blames her so have this conversation na k bhai maine mara nahi hai tab apne ne meri baat nahi suni i understand but ab suno. And top of that she still calls her Ma toh obviously soft corner is still there.

About AbhiM too she was never angry with him for the divorce exactly tbh she is more angry after that last phone call & what she heard BP saying coz as soon as she got to know about baby she was like main smjhti hun tumhra gussa. Tum gussa krna, jo bolna hai bolna par saath rehna and AbhiM saath nahi rha yeh mudda tha.

We have had like 4-5 incidents in recent times where she jumped to conclusions and blamed AbhiM and then said sorry. Precap is going to another such incidents.

For me that's not a sign of a healed person.

When i said she needs to apologise more than others

I meant for herself.

I am 50+% inclined that whenever makers bring this again and if Akshara will apologise it will be like she held herself guilty so much for so long. I think that's why she didn't respond to AbhiM when he brought that topic otherwise she could have said sorry for what j didn't kill Neil.

Too long response hogya. I guess hum dono toh apne points smjha hi chuke hain ab 😆

Still no conclusion sejal? 😅

Akshara is not responsible that’s what majority of voters believe and if she is made to apologise despite this, it would be against the course of natural justice.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

But chaipaani yaar... In whatever condition she was... She apologized... She said sorry... And if Manjiri wasn't in her senses nor was she... But she had that guilt feeling it seems. I don't like watching Traumatic things to watch those scenes got verify claims (though I am told it wasn't Traumatic but comedy.. But rona dhona chikna chilana isn't my cup of tea)... But seems she had some realization.... Everyone suffered but seems like she suffered the most. She constantly heard everyone blaming her, including MG, whom btw... She called... Uss insaan ne ek baar Akshu ko nai bola that dude.. Don't go.. We will manage...

But wanting her to feel guilty till date or reflect on what happened till the date isn't something I find too logical. She can learn some lessons but for that matter everyone needs to learn and talk.

What does she need to reflect? Was she stupid.. Yes but does stupid person understand they are Stupid - I don't Think so... They will continue doing everything... But she Did learn her lesson to not risk her life while being pregnant... She kept saying that after she found out her child one was alive... Woh baat alag hai actions didn't match but that realization seemed to be there...

Whatever it was..I don't think manjari is waiting for aksharas apology .

If so , why was manajri acting so hunky dory in kasauli? Ye kaisa behavior hai ?

She was hopeful, seeing their living condition, that Akshara was ready to jump ship at the slightest provocation but her hopes were dashed by both husband and wife. So, she is back to her vengeful mode.

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Still no conclusion sejal? 😅

Nai nai re nai...

I have stopped following the poll... Ab bore ho gaya😂🤣

@Mods can this poll be closed... I don't wanna read anymore logic here.

Originally posted by: Sherlockian

She was hopeful, seeing their living condition, that Akshara was ready to jump ship at the slightest provocation but her hopes were dashed by both husband and wife. So, she is back to her vengeful mode.

agar use pata chal jaaye ki bete ne pehle hi try kiya hai and REJECT ho gaya hai....yen vengeance kis lievel ki hogi...😂