Abhir's Home - Page 2

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

main cause she lost is financial condition….and judge said we also had that certificate issue which needs to be corrected…..she didn’t lost for forging

Forging document can tell a lot of things about a person

1. She is not ready for co parenting as she wanted to hide abhir's truth.

2. She chose a father without actually following legal formalities.

3. She is depriving kids right to take property share which is his rights. As abhir has to fight alot in future.

This is the main reason for her to loose.

Forget abhir home is where the heart is even for elders

We go to vacation enjoy lavish hotels but we miss our home abhir is a little kid he always say mera Kasauli ka ghar and abhir asked docman aap Kasauli mein ake raho some parents will do that as well abhi is a doc and he can practice anywhere so why not kasauli everything can be sorted out if you want to make some adjustment. But if it is always me and myself then obvious others have to adjust in foreign countries children can divorce their parents if I would have been in abhirs place I would have said no to all 3

Originally posted by: Sonali1968

Forget abhir home is where the heart is even for elders

We go to vacation enjoy lavish hotels but we miss our home abhir is a little kid he always say mera Kasauli ka ghar and abhir asked docman aap Kasauli mein ake raho some parents will do that as well abhi is a doc and he can practice anywhere so why not kasauli everything can be sorted out if you want to make some adjustment. But if it is always me and myself then obvious others have to adjust in foreign countries children can divorce their parents if I would have been in abhirs place I would have said no to all 3

Y tagging me in this….I opposed when people r blaming everything on ak and told they it’s not their fault society is like this typical stereotype blame women for everything….I didn’t get the point u tagging in your reply…but i do get ur point

With that logic even akshu doesn't deserve abhir.

1. She put herself in risk in jungle where she went and she could have died along with abhir in her womb.

Abhimanyu put her at risk after abandoning her giving her divorce at her lowest possible. What if she had a panic induced nervous breakdown after losing her children losing her husband too.. What if the trauma she faced led her have severe mental breakdown. Losing children being blamed for someone's death after having history of panic disorder. It's too harmful for a human with or without child in the womb. The mother carrying the child in the womb isn't less precious than child. Mother's health and wellbeing isn't of secondary importance. Someone who went through trauma & her mental health being put at risk and jeopardized by her inlaws is expected to make a rational, logical decision after losing her mind seeing her entire life upside down.

What exatly is the option she left infront of him. He asked her to go and rest as he knew the situation can go out of control.but she still came down and manjari got panic attack and she would have got stroke too. Akshu ne khud apna unborn babies khoya tha. Manju ki kya galthi thi that she had to loose her 30 year old son just because akshu wanted to save those kids. I am not saying akshu pushed neil but she neither stopped him too which a normal human does.

Manjari and harsh lost her son

Arohi lost her husband

Abhi lost his brother and kids

Will akshu ever regret her decision of not using her brain and going with her heart.

If some one does not want to listen and likes to put herself in risk even after insisting her multiple the only choice left with the other person is to protect what he has. For abhi it was his mom who would have died that day.

I am not justifying abhimanyu letting akshu go in her state is correct but he was very well was not in his right state of mind to think about all those things. He must have assumed she has gone to goenka house.

2. She put herself in risk infront of gunde.

That I would agree she shouldn't have risked her life.

3. She again put herself into risk by deciding to be a burden on stranger than using her parents money to give better treatment for abhir.

Stranger who saved her & her child's life. Wasn't Abhimanyu also a stranger in her life at some point? Abhimanyu the stranger she met fell in love at first sight with Akshara, proposed her & later after rejection was willing to get married to her sister for his mother's wish. Why can't she confide in stranger who saved her life. Goenkas are as shallow and toxic as Birlas infact even more. Living with her family's money or not was her choice. I guess every individual makes choices of their own. Money, lavish comfortable life isn't everything when u are dying inside. Love, care & affection is.

Abhimanyu is a stranger but his family knows who he is. If some thing would have happened to akshara they can very well file police complaint about abhimanyu.

But akshu went with the stranger whom no one knows. Will we ever recommend a girl in real life taking such decisions in life against her family wishes ? There are so many cases in real world where girls are trapped in fake love and then they get into many horrifying things. Just because this is a story i am not speaking much but in real no girl should do or take this step in life.

Nobody is talking about money here. Ppl are only talking about her decisions which could have been better.

Irrespective of what ppl say in today's world money is equally important. Without money we can pretend to be happy but we will realize when kids demand something genuinely but we could not afford it.

When plant grows if we know pot is really small we prefer moving the plant to a different pot when plant is small as it would be easy to grow. Once it's grown it's difficult to uproot and shift.

We shift them for their own betterment but sometimes when we r shift and planting in other pots plants do die due to lack of soil support or no proper shifting or no proper care or due to change in soil….and shifting of plant for their growth varies for different plants so will die if we shift them…

https://www.fnp.com/blog/how-to-avoid-plant-shock-while-repotting#:~:text=Plants%20are%20not%20designed%20to,or%20it%20might%20die%20altogether.

Plants are not designed to move from one place to another. If we try to move them around to a new home or uproot them, it is bound to cause some problems. A plant which is newly dug up and shifted to another place may show signs of wilting leaves, dying branches or it might die altogether. It is called transplant shock

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

When plant grows if we know pot is really small we prefer moving the plant to a different pot when plant is small as it would be easy to grow. Once it's grown it's difficult to uproot and shift.

We shift them for their own betterment but sometimes when we r shift and planting in other pots plants do die due to lack of soil support or no proper shifting or no proper care or due to change in soil….and shifting of plant for their growth varies for different plants so will die if we shift them…

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

but here it will not die abhi is a better parent who will not break abhir's heart like how akshnav did.

he already did it dude….custody remember abhir never wanted to separate from his parents and don’t want to go with abhim

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

With that logic even akshu doesn't deserve abhir.

1. She put herself in risk in jungle where she went and she could have died along with abhir in her womb.

Abhimanyu put her at risk after abandoning her giving her divorce at her lowest possible. What if she had a panic induced nervous breakdown after losing her children losing her husband too.. What if the trauma she faced led her have severe mental breakdown. Losing children being blamed for someone's death after having history of panic disorder. It's too harmful for a human with or without child in the womb. The mother carrying the child in the womb isn't less precious than child. Mother's health and wellbeing isn't of secondary importance. Someone who went through trauma & her mental health being put at risk and jeopardized by her inlaws is expected to make a rational, logical decision after losing her mind seeing her entire life upside down.

What exatly is the option she left infront of him. He asked her to go and rest as he knew the situation can go out of control.but she still came down and manjari got panic attack and she would have got stroke too. Akshu ne khud apna unborn babies khoya tha. Manju ki kya galthi thi that she had to loose her 30 year old son just because akshu wanted to save those kids. I am not saying akshu pushed neil but she neither stopped him too which a normal human does.

Manjari and harsh lost her son

Arohi lost her husband

Abhi lost his brother and kids

Will akshu ever regret her decision of not using her brain and going with her heart.

If some one does not want to listen and likes to put herself in risk even after insisting her multiple the only choice left with the other person is to protect what he has. For abhi it was his mom who would have died that day.

I am not justifying abhimanyu letting akshu go in her state is correct but he was very well was not in his right state of mind to think about all those things. He must have assumed she has gone to goenka house.

2. She put herself in risk infront of gunde.

That I would agree she shouldn't have risked her life.

3. She again put herself into risk by deciding to be a burden on stranger than using her parents money to give better treatment for abhir.

Stranger who saved her & her child's life. Wasn't Abhimanyu also a stranger in her life at some point? Abhimanyu the stranger she met fell in love at first sight with Akshara, proposed her & later after rejection was willing to get married to her sister for his mother's wish. Why can't she confide in stranger who saved her life. Goenkas are as shallow and toxic as Birlas infact even more. Living with her family's money or not was her choice. I guess every individual makes choices of their own. Money, lavish comfortable life isn't everything when u are dying inside. Love, care & affection is.

Abhimanyu is a stranger but his family knows who he is. If some thing would have happened to akshara they can very well file police complaint about abhimanyu.

But akshu went with the stranger whom no one knows. Will we ever recommend a girl in real life taking such decisions in life against her family wishes ? There are so many cases in real world where girls are trapped in fake love and then they get into many horrifying things. Just because this is a story i am not speaking much but in real no girl should do or take this step in life.

Nobody is talking about money here. Ppl are only talking about her decisions which could have been better.

Irrespective of what ppl say in today's world money is equally important. Without money we can pretend to be happy but we will realize when kids demand something genuinely but we could not afford it.

Red- doesn’t mean we will leave our parents if any rich family comes for adoption

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

With that logic even akshu doesn't deserve abhir.

1. She put herself in risk in jungle where she went and she could have died along with abhir in her womb.

Abhimanyu put her at risk after abandoning her giving her divorce at her lowest possible. What if she had a panic induced nervous breakdown after losing her children losing her husband too.. What if the trauma she faced led her have severe mental breakdown. Losing children being blamed for someone's death after having history of panic disorder. It's too harmful for a human with or without child in the womb. The mother carrying the child in the womb isn't less precious than child. Mother's health and wellbeing isn't of secondary importance. Someone who went through trauma & her mental health being put at risk and jeopardized by her inlaws is expected to make a rational, logical decision after losing her mind seeing her entire life upside down.

What exatly is the option she left infront of him. He asked her to go and rest as he knew the situation can go out of control.but she still came down and manjari got panic attack and she would have got stroke too. Akshu ne khud apna unborn babies khoya tha. Manju ki kya galthi thi that she had to loose her 30 year old son just because akshu wanted to save those kids. I am not saying akshu pushed neil but she neither stopped him too which a normal human does.

Manjari and harsh lost her son

Arohi lost her husband

Abhi lost his brother and kids

Will akshu ever regret her decision of not using her brain and going with her heart.

If some one does not want to listen and likes to put herself in risk even after insisting her multiple the only choice left with the other person is to protect what he has. For abhi it was his mom who would have died that day.

I am not justifying abhimanyu letting akshu go in her state is correct but he was very well was not in his right state of mind to think about all those things. He must have assumed she has gone to goenka house.

2. She put herself in risk infront of gunde.

That I would agree she shouldn't have risked her life.

3. She again put herself into risk by deciding to be a burden on stranger than using her parents money to give better treatment for abhir.

Stranger who saved her & her child's life. Wasn't Abhimanyu also a stranger in her life at some point? Abhimanyu the stranger she met fell in love at first sight with Akshara, proposed her & later after rejection was willing to get married to her sister for his mother's wish. Why can't she confide in stranger who saved her life. Goenkas are as shallow and toxic as Birlas infact even more. Living with her family's money or not was her choice. I guess every individual makes choices of their own. Money, lavish comfortable life isn't everything when u are dying inside. Love, care & affection is.

Abhimanyu is a stranger but his family knows who he is. If some thing would have happened to akshara they can very well file police complaint about abhimanyu.

But akshu went with the stranger whom no one knows. Will we ever recommend a girl in real life taking such decisions in life against her family wishes ? There are so many cases in real world where girls are trapped in fake love and then they get into many horrifying things. Just because this is a story i am not speaking much but in real no girl should do or take this step in life.

Nobody is talking about money here. Ppl are only talking about her decisions which could have been better.

Irrespective of what ppl say in today's world money is equally important. Without money we can pretend to be happy but we will realize when kids demand something genuinely but we could not afford it.

@bold there are families who themselves abandon their girl child. There are families who fix their marriage alliance against their wish but girls definitely have choice to be independent than being in abusive relationships instead of relying on anyone be it a stranger or person they already know. If we consider ifs there are too many ifs whatif Akshara lost the other child too because of stress given by Abhimanyu and Manjiri but that didn't happen. If that "if" didn't conceptualized in story than the "if" stranger trapped her also didn't. Assumptions not always turn true. Akshara didn't straightaway married stranger. She has seen stranger saving her life, caring for her. What if we consider about story swapping characters of Abhinav and Abhimanyu. Abhinav Birla and Abhimanyu Sharma. Abhinav Birla (Jay) divorced Akshara he and his mother Manjiri blamed Akshara for Neil's death where Abhimanyu Sharma (Harshad) being the stranger who saved her life, her child's life gave them a happy and normal life without blame game & toxicity. Would people react same way? There are so many fictional characters/stories involving girl running away from home and relying on stranger which shouldn't be glorified but same way grieving or non-grieving MIL and husband blaming, hurling insults, harassing and throwing DILs out of their lives in their lowest possible mental and physical state shouldn't also be glorified.

Originally posted by: ShadowImbue

@bold there are families who themselves abandon their girl child. There are families who fix their marriage alliance against their wish but girls definitely have choice to be independent than being in abusive relationships instead of relying on anyone be it a stranger or person they already know. If we consider ifs there are too many ifs whatif Akshara lost the other child too because of stress given by Abhimanyu and Manjiri but that didn't happen. If that "if" didn't conceptualized in story than the "if" stranger trapped her also didn't. Assumptions not always turn true. Akshara didn't straightaway married stranger. She has seen stranger saving her life, caring for her. What if we consider about story swapping characters of Abhinav and Abhimanyu. Abhinav Birla and Abhimanyu Sharma. Abhinav Birla (Jay) divorced Akshara he and his mother Manjiri blamed Akshara for Neil's death where Abhimanyu Sharma (Harshad) being the stranger who saved her life, her child's life gave them a happy and normal life without blame game & toxicity. Would people react same way? There are so many fictional characters/stories involving girl running away from home and relying on stranger which shouldn't be glorified but same way grieving or non-grieving MIL and husband blaming, hurling insults, harassing and throwing DILs out of their lives in their lowest possible mental and physical state shouldn't also be glorified.

I don't watch many itv shows. The only reason i decided to try this was for hc. I agree indian serials are toxic and we have to keep logic aside.

That's why i am finding hard to understand why Abhimanyu's behaviour is glorified as if no one did this in entire history of itv.

Let me give you recent example. In n6 prathna was blamed of her child's death and her husband shesh naag takes the other kid with him. But no one reacted the way ppl reacting for abhi. The only reason why abhi divorced akshu was it is illegal to show on itv that fl is married without divorcing her first husband.

Other than that whatever abhi did was normal considering itv standards.

If we are not questioning akshu's choices saying it's a fictional show then why to use words like abuse , toxic for a character who was loved by many and was ruined over night to bring a leap and show a new character.

In the end either we have to treat it's a fiction and stop using big words to justify characters action or we have to condemn characters action by considering real life scenarion.

I choose to avoid mixing fiction and reality but i have seen many ppl just defending their love for a character by bring real life. Which i also did but i personally don't take preleap scenes seriously.

You are free to disagree on this.