Abhir's Home

These episodes are really very sad but aadat se majboor I watch them anyways..I seriously feel so worst for Abhir.. I genuinely wish if this track was handled more maturely.. This track hit me more then the young naira left home because of her misunderstanding with Akshara..

Coming to home, what exactly is it? Why neither Akshara nor Abhir felt at home in Goenka Or birla? They tried and Abhir will try too..i genuinely hope for his happiness he atleast gets adjusted too. They literally are mansions with all the richness, but these two have always found a family, home and calmness at Kasauli's small sharma house. That's their safe space, why? Because Abhinav has made they feel that way and they literally have built this home of theirs.

What is the meaning if home if one doesn't feel love, peace or happiness?

I find this track the saddest of any or rather all.. Till date a small kid has never suffered in this show.. Abhir is sad and visible but still it's rubbed under the carpet with sab thik ho jaayega...

All this small kid utters and thinks mujhe mumma papa ki yaad aa rahi hai

Mujhe apne ghar jaana hai mumma papa ke paas

I feel for this kid...He deserves only happiness. He is suffering because of someone else mistake

Originally posted by: BlissfulDays

They say Home is where Heart is

And Abhir heart is with his parents , his real actual parents not someone who randomly cropped up when Abhir is 6 and is now claiming rights

Akshnav ka dil will return to them. Abhimanyu will never find the same space in Abhir heart, even little Ruhi gets it

Abhimanyu is also a parent. Just because he had his ex wife who don't respect his place in abhir's life we can't nullfiy his role in abhir's life.

And kids can not stay with parents forever. Toh ghar badhlega hi and they adjust also. Many kids stay in grandmas house.

Toh abhi will get adjusted to birla's. 😇

Originally posted by: BlissfulDays

@bold

Ohh respect and Abhimanyu in the same line 👏, the same respect he showed divorcing her and leaving her to die

Akshara has shown him enough respect by allowing him to be part of Abhir life , she got panic attacks due to his presence , Abhinav was uncomfortable yet they gave him roof, only for his mother to act like a homewrecker she is, couldn't save her relationship so goes on destroying all beautiful family

@red

What role has he in Abhir life , where was he for 6 years. The child could've died in Labour , if it wasn't for Abhinav taking him to hospital or if Abhinav hadn't hugged him for days. A person becomes a parent through love and care , from nurturing , not blood

@green

Kids part from parents when they're old enough to take care of themselves for example when they leave for college not at 6 but abhir will have to leave home soon if he lives with birlas like shivu coz that's their parenting

@blue

You uproot a tree and then expect it to grow, the tree would only wilt. Same with Abhir look how silent he's and Abhir was a lively child. Ruhi who's a kid got that easily. I know these little babies will plot together and bring Abhir back to his parents like Ruhi promised , he'll run away soon with Ruhi help. Akshnav love will be his calling. Abhimanyu destroyed 3 lives in his ego

With that logic even akshu doesn't deserve abhir.

1. She put herself in risk in jungle where she went and she could have died along with abhir in her womb.

2. She put herself in risk infront of gunde.

3. She again put herself into risk by deciding to be a burden on stranger than using her parents money to give better treatment for abhir.

Dying out of labour was her choice where was goenkas. If a divorce happens maternal family are the first one whom girl relies on but akshu prefers anyone and everyone.

If she had used her money she could have got better treatment.

When plant grows if we know pot is really small we prefer moving the plant to a different pot when plant is small as it would be easy to grow. Once it's grown it's difficult to uproot and shift.

I want Abhir to soon ask all 3 parents - “you each fought to keep me with you but why didnt anybody ask what i want? where i want to live? do i want anyone out of my life? you all were fighting for what you want - you have been selfish!! i asked all of you about RWP but you all lied! ” even in his dream where abhinav-akshara were stopping him from leaving - his expectations were that they value his wishes and not court’s orders.

I am not talking about legality or practicality but only about Abhir’s state of mind!!

Originally posted by: BlissfulDays

I mean what are you even talking about. Are you for real equating saving children to what happened on Neil's death day. She saved lives , now not everybody can be selfish and apathetic like Dr Birla. I mean women who're going through difficult pregnancy or miscarriage require utmost care and care toh ki nhi gayi instead they threw her out. Was that because she may not be able to serve as a baby making machine anymore. He broke her spirit so much she didn't even know where she was headed , then ended up listening to Manish parroting Abhimanyu she should have gone back so she would miscarry due to trauma with all the accusations being hurled at her.

She got treatment regardless Abhinav a stranger helped her not her maternal family

You uproot the small plant where it won't survive in that pot not before and 6 is not that age. That would cause such a identity crisis for a child

Sorry let me correct you police saved those kids life. It was highlighted again and again that police would arrive in 10 minutes. If they would have just kept informed police by following them silently she would have saved her one more kid.

But yeah right fl hai toh brain hoga nahi. Sirf sacrifice se bhara dil hoga 😂

So do you mean ppl who adopt kids at the age of 6 will not be able to raise them. Or ppl who loose their parents at the age of 6 can not be raised by other ppl.

Kids just look for love. They will eventually start loving ppl if they get love in return.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

With that logic even akshu doesn't deserve abhir.

1. She put herself in risk in jungle where she went and she could have died along with abhir in her womb.

2. She put herself in risk infront of gunde.

3. She again put herself into risk by deciding to be a burden on stranger than using her parents money to give better treatment for abhir.

Dying out of labour was her choice where was goenkas. If a divorce happens maternal family are the first one whom girl relies on but akshu prefers anyone and everyone.

If she had used her money she could have got better treatment.

When plant grows if we know pot is really small we prefer moving the plant to a different pot when plant is small as it would be easy to grow. Once it's grown it's difficult to uproot and shift.

cant blame u for ur pov coz society is like that blame woman or specifically mother or all wrong in life or family…need to break stereotypes though

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Sorry let me correct you police saved those kids life. It was highlighted again and again that police would arrive in 10 minutes. If they would have just kept informed police by following them silently she would have saved her one more kid.

But yeah right fl hai toh brain hoga nahi. Sirf sacrifice se bhara dil hoga 😂

So do you mean ppl who adopt kids at the age of 6 will not be able to raise them. Or ppl who loose their parents at the age of 6 can not be raised by other ppl.

Kids just look for love. They will eventually start loving ppl if they get love in return.

but do u mean kids should for 6 years of love for parents or adopted one because they find new ones….doesn’t make sense…y find love when u already have it

Originally posted by: Annabethhoney

but do u mean kids should for 6 years of love for parents or adopted one because they find new ones….doesn’t make sense…y find love when u already have it

That's why we have court for such ppl who try to lie and betray society with their evil thoughts to the extent that they will take away the rights of the father.

Akshu lost custody case for forging documents which is illegal.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

abhir is not officially adopted. Akshu ensured to forge document to make it look like abhir is abhinav's son.

That's why we have court for such ppl who try to lie and betray society with their evil thoughts to the extent that they will take away the rights of the father.

Akshu lost custody case for forging documents which is illegal.

main cause she lost is financial condition….and judge said we also had that certificate issue which needs to be corrected…..she didn’t lost for forging