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Posted: 2 years ago
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Also, I don't understand, why the 6 yr old should know his parents financial struggle and truth about WD, just to prove whatever Akshara did was right!!!

How is it fair for abhir??? Why should he go through emotional trauma, pain, losing trust and confidence on people??

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jenakt17

I don’t know if you watched the show from the beginning or not but Manjiri never badmouthed Harsh in front of Abhi. She always tried explaining to Abhi that Harsh is his father and he should respect him. Abhi himself saw his parents fight and he mentioned that he saw Harsh hitting his mother. Even during the show, Abhi had to stop Harsh from smacking Manjiri. Abhi grew up watching his dad abuse his mother, that’s why he hates his father.

Also, Abhi did go to Goenkas house to find out Akshara’s whereabouts. Manish then called him and told him where she is staying and that Akshara doesn’t want to come back, she has also realized their relationship will never work.
By the way, I am not defending Abhi for white day, what he did was cruel. I am telling you the scenes that were shown.


I have very well watched all the episodes and don’t find a reason why some make it point to know if someone watched the from start or not!

Harsh a worst husband but he always loved his son and craved for his love! But instead of mending their relationship she always made herself a becahri infront of the whole family which effected father son relationship .Even after all this she is not ready to divorce him! Ak is the only person who genuinely cared for her feelings and convinced her to get divorced!

Ak should reveal how her ex treated her on WD so Abhir will decide how to treat his bio dad too!

Never ever in 7mnths he went to look for her proving he never cared for her whereabouts!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I asked if you watched the show from start because you claimed that Abhi hates his father because of Manjiri and that if Manjiri was in Akshu’s place she would have told Abhir everything about Abhi’s horrible treatment on white day- which isn’t entirely true. Abhi lived through the abuse, he saw it with his own eyes - that’s why he hates his father. Manjiri didn’t have to act helpless in front of anyone, Harsh treated her horribly in front of everyone- he picked on her for everything- her cooking, singing passion, the way she was emotional, her being nice.

I don’t think Abhir should know about white day. There is so much that went wrong that day. The kid is going through enough trauma already, I don’t think he should also know about that traumatic event. Both of his parents were wrong that day.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Also, I don't understand, why the 6 yr old should know his parents financial struggle and truth about WD, just to prove whatever Akshara did was right!!!

How is it fair for abhir??? Why should he go through emotional trauma, pain, losing trust and confidence on people??

Every child must know financial struggles. Do that they grow up to be a better human not measure people according to their money!

Read finance expert articles , not to torture them but to value people over money

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Every child must know financial struggles. Do that they grow up to be a better human not measure people according to their money!

Read finance expert articles , not to torture them but to value people over money

A 6 yr old child should never know parents financial struggle!!!

The child should be taught to value money, and not how his/her parent is being taken advantage of by the tourists. Should not be taught to sell jams in school. Should not be told what burden the child is to parents financially. Should not mock the child's health condition to cry about their gareebi!!!!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Abhir because of his parents financial struggles attacked Abhi’s with a ball and then sprayed his face and threw a brick at a car and almost got arrested but Abhi helped him and instead Abhi got arrested.
Also, cause of financial struggles and not to burden his parents, he hid his health issues which turned out about to be life threatening.
Them sharing their financial struggles turned out to be harmful for Abhir and taught him that he should handle things on his own.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Every child must know financial struggles. Do that they grow up to be a better human not measure people according to their money!

Read finance expert articles , not to torture them but to value people over money

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Greed of getting the sole custody of the child!!! If she feared and prepared for this day from last 6 years, she should have definitely known that this was not possible given that she hid the truth of Abhir's existence from his father.

Also, there is no need to disclose the entire truth to the child. She could have told that they fought and abhi divorced her. She could have put the blame on abhi, but told the truth!!! But, she at no cost wanted abhi in abhir's life!!!

All her lies led to this day, that she can meet her son only in weekends that too with Abhi's consent!!!

Please let's not discuss about WD and Umarkaid, it's a genuine request as it's been discussed umpteen times and we cannot come into agreement regarding that.

She always feared this to happen knowing how Ma,beta can act in their greed n selfishness !Now They proved her and her fears true!

After Manyu kasuali stay ,his behaviour changed ,Ak noticed that n she softened too and ready to reveal the truth and also for co parenting ! Even after BP n MJ’s challenge she tried to talk n get the solution but as usual he refused and went for HAQ because his mamma wants! Only if he was not selfish and threatened her or listen to her this day would never come too! His today’s “Dida ne Abhir ka KABJHA” words proves what he wants !


WD will come into the pic as all this started from there ,so it’s all connected !

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Abhir because of his parents financial struggles attacked Abhi’s with a ball and then sprayed his face and threw a brick at a car and almost got arrested but Abhi helped him and instead Abhi got arrested.
Also, cause of financial struggles and not to burden his parents, he hid his health issues which turned out about to be life threatening.
Them sharing their financial struggles turned out to be harmful for Abhir and taught him that he should handle things on his own.

I have no interest in arguments. I told one imp points there are articles read

Children must know about financial struggles that is all, mere mischievous activities of children don't make them evils

Abhir is such darling and great child ❤️ , to take out hatred against Akshu don't spoil Abhir character too

Children both Ruhi and Abhir are two darlings

I sm still saying go read articles about the need of imp of children knowing financial struggles that is all

I I have no interest to argue on this ... if I agree Abhir parenting bad and Birla house is great so that men end being g woman abusers make you happy , I agree for your happiness

Fine.... over and out

Akshnan is the worse parents in world agreed

Edited by oh_nakhrewaali - 2 years ago
Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jenakt17

I asked if you watched the show from start because you claimed that Abhi hates his father because of Manjiri and that if Manjiri was in Akshu’s place she would have told Abhir everything about Abhi’s horrible treatment on white day- which isn’t entirely true. Abhi lived through the abuse, he saw it with his own eyes - that’s why he hates his father. Manjiri didn’t have to act helpless in front of anyone, Harsh treated her horribly in front of everyone- he picked on her for everything- her cooking, singing passion, the way she was emotional, her being nice.

I don’t think Abhir should know about white day. There is so much that went wrong that day. The kid is going through enough trauma already, I don’t think he should also know about that traumatic event. Both of his parents were wrong that day.

@ bold Here am not claiming anything which is not shown ,that could be ur opinion so don’t generalise the statement! Harsh was a worst husband but not a bad father ,he loved Manyu and always craved for his love but Mj never tried to make their relationship better !

Am happy that Ak decided not to back to that toxic environment and gave Abhir a happy n beautiful life in kasauli!

If they r making themselves fall infront of Abhir why can’t Abhir know the reality so he can see the real faces of his bio dad and dida! Ak can explain him how she n Ruhi’s dad went to save girls who r in danger but unfortunately they lost Ruhi’s dad n one of his twin too to save them !Later how his bio dad n dida treated her and kicked her out ! But it’s not Mj here so Ak n Abhinav decided to save their kid from that negativity and trauma ! They really handled it very maturely!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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It’s funny that you called this a stupid argument. You put words/sentences in my paragraphs that I never even wrote. I never wrote Abhir is evil, I don’t hate Akshara, I never wrote Akshnav are the worst parents, I never wrote about supporting abuse, never said Birla house is great.

What Abhir did initially in Kausali wasn’t mere mischievous acts- he almost got arrested by the police.

Yes children knowing about financial struggles is important but not at the age of 6 and not when it ends up harming them instead.

This is a public forum, if you can’t accept it when people have different opinions and respectfully disagree to your statements- don’t summarize their opinions as stupid arguments.


Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

I have no interest in stupid arguments. I told one imp points there are articles read

Children must know about financial struggles that is all, mere mischievous activities of children don't make them evils

Abhir is such darling and great child ❤️ , to take out hatred against Akshu don't spoil Abhir character too

Children both Ruhi and Abhir are two darlings

I sm still saying go read articles about the need of imp of children knowing financial struggles that is all

I am not a blinded fan of any actor ,..

I have no interest to argue on this ... if I agree Abhir parenting bad and Birla house is great so that men end being g woman abusers make you happy , I agree for your happiness

Fine.... over and out

🤣...

You win take the 🏆

Akshnan is the worse parents in world agreed

Edited by Jenakt17 - 2 years ago

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