Abhimanyu is a better parent - Page 6

Originally posted by: chaipaani

Adding on why I said Abhimanyu is a better / also a good parent:

So in the last few episodes we saw how Abhir was informed by Akshnav that he had become a financial burden to them. Such a thought can be deeply traumatic for any child, as it shakes their sense of security and belonging. Parents must be sensitive to their child's emotions and handle them carefully.

In this particular scenario, Abhimanyu's way of providing comfort to Abhir stood out for me. Despite being unaware of the intricate details of what unfolded in the Goenka House, he could sense Abhir's sadness. He reached out to his son and reassured him that whatever was happening was not his fault. Abhimanyu's ability to empathize and provide emotional support to Abhir demonstrates his profound understanding of the impact such situations can have on a child's psyche.

On the other hand, it is important to note that Akshnav, despite being an adult, failed to offer the same level of emotional reassurance to their own child.

Regarding some thoughts, I read about why Abhimanyu can't move to Kasauli:

Although change is often challenging for children, it is unreasonable to expect a doctor/surgeon to be the one to initiate such a significant life change. Abhir's sadness and longing for his parents and life back at Kasauli are valid emotions, but he has not expressed them directly to Abhimanyu yet.

I will say it again that Abhimanyu's approach to explaining things to the Kids(Ruhi & Abhir) sets him apart as a sensible and compassionate parent. He understands the need for open communication and ensures that Abhir does not bear the burden of guilt or responsibility for the situation.

I prefer the way AbhiM handled explaining Abhir way more than what Navra did...he's kind and patient with kids , he was like I'll explain you whatever you ask...I like that

The court clearly ordered AbhiM the custody which means Abhir will live and be provided for by AbhiM

Now he's got the custody why don't Navra move to BM , if upon losing the custody AbhiM should instead move to kasauli why shouldn't Navra move to BM now

Will KM, Aarohi ruhi not be dislocated from their home if AbhiM moves to kasauli

What's the point of a court case if u don't accept the decision

Abhir coming back to AK will probably be the next track , he might not hate AbhiM but he might have really tough time living without her nd therefore AbhiM reunites them is what I'm thinking can't see the story taking another course , there ain't much left otherwise

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i liked that in abhi.

Akshnav just takes random routes to do something. But abhi ensures he uses best way to do something.

Some eg :

1. Akshu gave abhir some party and then disclosed about abhi in worst possible way. But abhi came to home first thing he did was he said sorry and he told him the truth and hugged him. He did not do any acts to save himself from the wrath. Both the kids were silently listening to him.

2. He took abhir to temple and asked him to ask question as he wanted abhir to know he can't lie infront of god.

3. He even spoke to him about all his issues and also it was not his mistake 😌

I liked the part where he ensured to let abhir know that none of what has happened was his fault!!! While AkshNav did the exact opposite!!!

Also abhi as a parent was always prepared to answer abhir's questions. He owned his mistakes.

Whereas, AkshNav blames their kismat for everything that goes against them.

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

I liked the part where he ensured to let abhir know that none of what has happened was his fault!!! While AkshNav did the exact opposite!!!

Also abhi as a parent was always prepared to answer abhir's questions. He owned his mistakes.

Whereas, AkshNav blames their kismat for everything that goes against them.

That part was my fav. A child should know that.

Not only Abhir is feeling is was a financial burden on Akshnav, it can impact his future too. He can become insecure and might not ask anything from Birla family as well.

Also, with the planning they were doing for weekends do they realise Abhir might say no let's not spend more money on me

Originally posted by: chaipaani

That part was my fav. A child should know that.

Not only Abhir is feeling is was a financial burden on Akshnav, it can impact his future too. He can become insecure and might not ask anything from Birla family as well.

Also, with the planning they were doing for weekends do they realise Abhir might say no let's not spend more money on me

Exactly!!!

And my mind was like, court said with Abhi's consent, they can meet abhir on weekends.

Inhone abhi ka decision bhi khud hi kar liya!!! 😂🤣🤭

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Exactly!!!

And my mind was like, court said with Abhi's consent, they can meet abhir on weekends.

Inhone abhi ka decision bhi khud hi kar liya!!! 😂🤣🤭

Chalo woh AbhiM nahi rok rha hai 🤭