Abhimanyu is a better parent - Page 3

Originally posted by: chaipaani

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Abhimanyu is a better parent. Period.

He talks to kids very nicely, in an understanding tone, and explains to them the complex situation in an easy way.

He doesn't manipulate them and self victimized himself in front of the kids

Koi Shaq? 😅😅

Till now Roohi doesn't use her words properly. He forgot about Roohi in camp, when he proposed to Akshara or when he went to stay with Akshnav without telling her..

And then most important thing he went with custody battle even after knowing how it will impact Abhir who is so close to his parents. He is indirectly snatching a 6 year old from his parents who brought him up.

Akshnav are better parents or not that's a different story . I'll not compare. But calling Abhimanyu as best parent is complete NO. Period!!!

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Till now Roohi doesn't use her words properly. He forgot about Roohi in camp, when he proposed to Akshara or when he went to stay with Akshnav without telling her..

And then most important thing he went with custody battle even after knowing how it will impact Abhir who is so close to his parents. He is indirectly snatching a 6 year old from his parents who brought him up.

Akshnav are better parents or not that's a different story . I'll not compare. But calling Abhimanyu as best parent is complete NO. Period!!!

An adult who cannot recognise that his family normalises abuse towards women, and children should not be in that environment is not a great parent. The fact that Manjari manipulated Arohi to keep an unwanted pregnancy and then includes and excludes Aruhi from her ideal family on whim is gross af.

Waiting for Arohi to remove Ruhi from that house. Phir Abhimanyu ka kya hi kahein jo destabilises "his son's" life just to satisy himself

Abhimanyu and Akshara-Abhinav have different parenting styles. It would be unfair to compare them. Ruhi has on instances been too pampered and Abhir has acted too mature and considerate for his age in certain situations.

It would be nice to see all parents learning from each other and start doing things in moderation so its best for both the kids. But unfortunately the makers are only keen on showing only one side is right. I hope they do better with this track but we can’t expect anything decent from them.

Whose parent is Abhimanyu? Ruhi or Abhir?

Abhir ka parent ab banega so no discussion but what he doing for Ruhi? Is he earning for her? No, I think Aarohi is enough for her. Is he cooking for her or doing any household work. No, servants are doing this. Yes, what he doing ki helps her in study, some nice talks and caring her. He is not parent to Ruhi. He is guardian to her. And Abhi & Arohi r still individual. Like itna toh Maine bhi Kiya apne brother k bachon k liye.

But in Sharma house AK wake-up early to cook lunch and breakfast. They are doing hardworking for Abhir better future. They spend time with each other. They are giving values. How to handle the criticism, how to handle yourself when you are alone for sometime, how to fight, how to apologise, how to share. That's what made them better parents.

Caring and talking nicely is not made anyone parent. Like who talk rudely to kids? And parents do not react like Abhimanyu for small cut or fever. Abhir got small cut and his reaction was like he need surgery for this. Ruhi k fever ka bhi reaction extreme tha.

Sorry it's my way I can ignore physics or chemistry illogics but I can't ignore emotional illogics. Whatever Story or serial I watch it should be emotionally relatable.

Abhimanyu is father figure, uncle, guardian to Ruhi but not parent. Parent toh ab banega na.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

Till now Roohi doesn't use her words properly. He forgot about Roohi in camp, when he proposed to Akshara or when he went to stay with Akshnav without telling her..

And then most important thing he went with custody battle even after knowing how it will impact Abhir who is so close to his parents. He is indirectly snatching a 6 year old from his parents who brought him up.

Akshnav are better parents or not that's a different story . I'll not compare. But calling Abhimanyu as best parent is complete NO. Period!!!

That's why I am saying Abhimanyu is just avenging his brother's death 😆 as he still blames Akshara... 🤪

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

A better human? Not quite sure that that's true. He was still making rash decisions until recently lol so not sure what you mean by "doesn't let his temper take over his decision making skills".

Abhimanyu is a better parent...

Kisse!

Akshnav se ya Manju se..?

If former.. NO

If latter.. YES

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

Whose parent is Abhimanyu? Ruhi or Abhir?

Abhir ka parent ab banega so no discussion but what he doing for Ruhi? Is he earning for her? No, I think Aarohi is enough for her. Is he cooking for her or doing any household work. No, servants are doing this. Yes, what he doing ki helps her in study, some nice talks and caring her. He is not parent to Ruhi. He is guardian to her. And Abhi & Arohi r still individual. Like itna toh Maine bhi Kiya apne brother k bachon k liye.

But in Sharma house AK wake-up early to cook lunch and breakfast. They are doing hardworking for Abhir better future. They spend time with each other. They are giving values. How to handle the criticism, how to handle yourself when you are alone for sometime, how to fight, how to apologise, how to share. That's what made them better parents.

Caring and talking nicely is not made anyone parent. Like who talk rudely to kids? And parents do not react like Abhimanyu for small cut or fever. Abhir got small cut and his reaction was like he need surgery for this. Ruhi k fever ka bhi reaction extreme tha.

Sorry it's my way I can ignore physics or chemistry illogics but I can't ignore emotional illogics. Whatever Story or serial I watch it should be emotionally relatable.

Abhimanyu is father figure, uncle, guardian to Ruhi but not parent. Parent toh ab banega na.

I disagree. The points you have mentioned are less about parenting and more about the differences between a rich and a middle-class/poor household.

Regarding extreme reactions to illness - it can happen to people who have suffered loss - my nanaji lost both his parents early so he would wake up at 2am even if anyone in the house just coughed in their sleep.

Besides Abhimanyu has been very much involved in Ruhi’s life. He is the one who attends PTA meetings, plays with her, helps with her schoolwork, got her ready for school - being rich they could have servants for some of these things too. She calls him to share whatever is happening - even when Abhir told her about half truth - she informed Abhimanyu first. Both sets of parents have their own strengths which are lacking in the other. Just because Ruhi calls him Poppy doesn’t mean he has not been like a father to her!

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

That's why I am saying Abhimanyu is just avenging his brother's death 😆 as he still blames Akshara... 🤪

Yeh tum sab Rishta ko Sony show kyu banate rehte ho re 😆🤪