Nav is shattered: Epi Air Dt 23 June 2023 - Page 28

Originally posted by: LoveHC

I can see that you two have been wanting to stop watching forever😔 I myself haven’t watched in weeks. But the way Abhimanyu won over Abhir w/o father son relation label, he’ll win over Akshara as well. Stop as long as there’s no movement but pls don’t stop forever 🙁. We have seen such worse, now it’s the gag end of torture so let’s have hope

Thanks for this dose of positivity. Much needed today 💔😒 Feeling so melancholic even reading the updates. I hope something good comes out of all this. The last episode i watched was Abhir's truth reveal to Abhi. Ain't watching till we get back to back good episodes for a week.

Originally posted by: LoveHC

I can see that you two have been wanting to stop watching forever😔 I myself haven’t watched in weeks. But the way Abhimanyu won over Abhir w/o father son relation label, he’ll win over Akshara as well. Stop as long as there’s no movement but pls don’t stop forever 🙁. We have seen such worse, now it’s the gag end of torture so let’s have hope

ahh that is so sweet Geetha💕💕🤗🤗. I so want to believe you and I sincerely hope that is where this track is leading to, but I dont trust Zama. I will certainly come back if and when Abhira reunion happens. Right now I dont see that as a possibility at all. Again my view. I dont want to dash anyone else's hopes.

Originally posted by: LoveHC

I can see that you two have been wanting to stop watching forever😔 I myself haven’t watched in weeks. But the way Abhimanyu won over Abhir w/o father son relation label, he’ll win over Akshara as well. Stop as long as there’s no movement but pls don’t stop forever 🙁. We have seen such worse, now it’s the gag end of torture so let’s have hope

And that is the CRUX of it all. Abhimanyu won over his son without even being able to assert the father-son relationship with him - that is the power of his love - a love that just doesn't know how to stop loving even when he doesn't get anything from the person in front of him. While Nav has needed to CONSTANTLY rely on labels to conduct his relationships - that is why he is feeling off-balance now that he has learnt Abhir knows he isn't the real Papa and he's seeing Abhir having naturally managed to bond with real Papa.

Abhimanyu isn't even trying to win over Akshara now....lol but yes, the fact that he's won over his son will end up being a bridge to Akshara at some point. Again, Abhimanyu's love has always been beyond labels - it is a constant no matter how relationships change or go through ups and downs....it is Akshara who is clinging to labels right now via Abhinav....but the same way the purity of love manifested itself in the form of Abhi winning over Abhir, it will manifest in Akshara's case at some point....just can't say when given the aimlessness of the writing.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I will never understand why people keep giving white day ki dhamki like it was a black and white situation that day😆

There was a lot that happened building up TO white day as well.....firstly, Abhir deserves to know that he had a TWIN, he deserves to know who Neil was, what his place was in Abhi's life and how he died. There are a LOT of relationships entangled here.....to simply present a narrative to the child that his father was some beast who rejected him is categorically false.

The age that Abhir is at, you cannot explain to him the issues between a husband and wife and where a husband went wrong. If you try to tell him that his father didn't want him, that is just categorically FALSE. The truth is that his father didn't KNOW he was still alive and his mother didn't bother to try to tell him beyond one phone call of miscommunication. The fact that people are expecting a 6 year old Abhir to hate Abhimanyu over something that happened between a husband and wife 6 years back for which he wasn't even alive is not realistic. He has seen the goodness in Abhimanyu, he has seen the love he showers on everyone.....only way you can get him to hate someone is if you try to fill him with hate. Because if Akshara has the decency to tell the truth while keeping her child's understanding levels in mind, there is nothing she can tell him about white day to paint Abhi a monster.

The most they can tell Abhir is that his parents seperated over some fight and then his mom settled with a new husband so they decided it would be better to not stress him out with the truth. Ofcourse, I would love for Abhir to ask about the timeline of when Abhi found out the truth and why his mom kept hiding it from him even after he met Docman....but dunno if writers will give that😆

Yes - I really hope hate doesn’t happen, if truth needs to be laid down then all the truth should be out….and I agree a 6yr old to understand all this not reality…

Yes, agree - one question from abhir is wat I need, why didn’t doc man come all this time to see me? And I want that female to answer this question.

I’m just wondering what they in store for us today and over the weekend - they gave one good episode next they will ruin it for us….still wondering why this went to court…so mata truth will be out by none other evil turned loving sister 🙄….but let’s hope Abhi gives it back saying - I never had that thought, it’s only Abhir for me.

I was looking at twitter everyone hates AK after yesterday’s episode 😂🤣 only few people are requesting not to ruin AK 🤣🤣🤣

True! Abhimanyu’s love reminds me of Shahrukh’s dialogue from Ae dil hai mushkil - Usse pyaar karne ke liye ussi ki jarurat nahi 😊 my wishful thinking hopes to see her make efforts but I know this time too Abhimanyu will be the one fighting for them. Sad truth of sadistic writers🙁

Originally posted by: AreYaar

And that is the CRUX of it all. Abhimanyu won over his son without even being able to assert the father-son relationship with him - that is the power of his love - a love that just doesn't know how to stop loving even when he doesn't get anything from the person in front of him. While Nav has needed to CONSTANTLY rely on labels to conduct his relationships - that is why he is feeling off-balance now that he has learnt Abhir knows he isn't the real Papa and he's seeing Abhir having naturally managed to bond with real Papa.

Abhimanyu isn't even trying to win over Akshara now....lol but yes, the fact that he's won over his son will end up being a bridge to Akshara at some point. Again, Abhimanyu's love has always been beyond labels - it is a constant no matter how relationships change or go through ups and downs....it is Akshara who is clinging to labels right now via Abhinav....but the same way the purity of love manifested itself in the form of Abhi winning over Abhir, it will manifest in Akshara's case at some point....just can't say when given the aimlessness of the writing.

& they won’t give us this anytime soon, if this happens what do they have to bank the episodes on - so they will drag it..

First AK missing Abhir

Then NAV/AK misunderstanding

In between misunderstandings b/w AK & AB

Abhir tensions for AB & AK

AK finally realizing wat she has done, her single era

THEN AB & AK might start again…

another yr - May b for reunion to happen 🤔😅😂

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

Yes - I really hope hate doesn’t happen, if truth needs to be laid down then all the truth should be out….and I agree a 6yr old to understand all this not reality…

Yes, agree - one question from abhir is wat I need, why didn’t doc man come all this time to see me? And I want that female to answer this question.

I’m just wondering what they in store for us today and over the weekend - they gave one good episode next they will ruin it for us….still wondering why this went to court…so mata truth will be out by none other evil turned loving sister 🙄….but let’s hope Abhi gives it back saying - I never had that thought, it’s only Abhir for me.

I was looking at twitter everyone hates AK after yesterday’s episode 😂🤣 only few people are requesting not to ruin AK 🤣🤣🤣

The precap said Sunday on it so I guess Saturday epi will probably go in more of these build up convos between the three parents.....Navmanyu convo will probably happen over baapta feelings now that Abhir knows Nav is not real Papa😆....they laid a lot of emphasis on Nav's emotions in yesterday's Abhira convo also so I'm guessing that will be addressed first by both Abhi and Akshara. They will show Muskaan's bidaai somewhere in the middle of all this too, so standard generic dialogues from Goenkas on that probably😆

Then we will have to wait to see precap scene when that airs....whether Abhir manages to find out in that scene or some other tamasha ends up happening via Manju's kaand getting revealed....they are keeping things vague on all fronts for drama😆

Originally posted by: sunshining

may be hulu is tired of putting in devastated, shocking, surprised etc for months now, they must have decided to have some fun for a change and in the process get us to chuckle too.😆

I can see that for sure 😂

Originally posted by: LoveHC

True! Abhimanyu’s love reminds me of Shahrukh’s dialogue from Ae dil hai mushkil - Usse pyaar karne ke liye ussi ki jarurat nahi 😊 my wishful thinking hopes to see her make efforts but I know this time too Abhimanyu will be the one fighting for them. Sad truth of sadistic writers🙁

What I like the most about Abhimanyu's love is that it is very giving but not in a cliched tyaag/selflessness wala way. He doesn't claim to be some mahaanta ki murat trying to sacrifice in love....but he also just never stops loving those he loves, period.

He doesn't stake a claim blindly but he also doesn't back down from asserting his love where he does have rights. That is what he has done in Abhir's case....his rights as a father were snatched away from him by Akshara but he still never backed down from asserting them. He asserted them in front of Akshara, not in front of Abhir by demanding favoritism from his son....with his son, he just showered love even when his son was calling someone else Papa and it obviously pinched him. But he also didn't back down from reminding Akshara that she can't erase him from his son's life....that is not called zidd karna ya haq jataana, that is called apne haq ko JAANNA and kisi bhi aur ko use devalue nahin karne dena.

Abhimanyu can give in love to the point of putting his dignity and self-respect on the line....but he will still never DEVALUE himself as a person fully...they always bring him back from the brink to be able to assert his value in love. It is his tragedy that he madly loves people who are unable to understand their own value so they end up devaluing him as well in the process.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

What I like the most about Abhimanyu's love is that it is very giving but not in a cliched tyaag/selflessness wala way. He doesn't claim to be some mahaanta ki murat trying to sacrifice in love....but he also just never stops loving those he loves, period.

He doesn't stake a claim blindly but he also doesn't back down from asserting his love where he does have rights. That is what he has done in Abhir's case....his rights as a father were snatched away from him by Akshara but he still never backed down from asserting them. He asserted them in front of Akshara, not in front of Abhir by demanding favoritism from his son....with his son, he just showered love even when his son was calling someone else Papa and it obviously pinched him. But he also didn't back down from reminding Akshara that she can't erase him from his son's life....that is not called zidd karna ya haq jataana, that is called apne haq ko JAANNA and kisi bhi aur ko use devalue nahin karne dena.

Abhimanyu can give in love to the point of putting his dignity and self-respect on the line....but he will still never DEVALUE himself as a person fully...they always bring him back from the brink to be able to assert his value in love. It is his tragedy that he madly loves people who are unable to understand their own value so they end up devaluing him as well in the process.

💔💔💔💔💔

as always you have put the core of AB very nicely ❤️