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Originally posted by: SAOkr

she didnt put neils life into danger but she didnt stopped him either as a sister atleast some will not sent their brothers willingly to danger. just see neil himself even on verge of death he tried to tell ak to stop not come out of car.

now for your q risking your own life is your choice and if it suceeds its a save but if it fails you will loose only your life.

but here ak was preg. she was also resp for their babies safety along with neil.and when your actions of so called saving put others life too in danger then that arises the voices of criticism because apparently you can put your life in danger to protect your ideals but those babies were not just hers ,neil was not just her brother he was abhis too ,and ruhis father too have she considered the possibility of something happening ,no if neil hadnt stopped her she would be first one to jump out of car , and for me atleast that is not praiseworthy to be applauded.risking others life for your ideals.

You r contradicting ur self...Neil is responsible for his life....she was not...neil is responsible for his actions she is not....She did not force him to do it.....

She had done what she could.....when situations are such, the decisions r taken at the spur of the moment...and she had done that...and so has neil....

I dont find that wrong at all.....

If she would have gone for the concert and something would have happened there, still v could consider...But here she was not wrong......

and the way abhi treated her...was worse than what harsh has been doing....he blamed for for so many murders....when she has lost her baby tooo.....

he paid no attention to her medical checkup,,,.and hit her at her weakest point of seerat Ma's death along...he had no concers for her even after months.....

Another major difference is harsh was in a forced marriage with mnajari....and Abhi treated akshu the way he did ....at her lowest....when he claimed to have loved her.....

I dont support harsh's behaviour...But I dont consider Abhi's better than Harsh's...he was worse...

Even the army officials who direct the army have a certain authority and qualification to do that . What authority akshara has ? Had it been even a complete stranger or driver , should she have directed and manipulated him to risk his life .

Saving innocent people at the cost of sacrificing other innocent people is morally wrong and never heroic.

One should himself/herself become capable enough to actually be in a position to help others .

There is so much bad that happens in the world, that is actually disheartening but would someone actually push a loved one to death for own ideals or should I rephrase that , would someone sacrifice a person for ideals if it is a loved one . The point is akshara never loved Neil to actually care for him , whether dead or alive not her concern . But atleast she should have been sensible enough to take care , as Neil and the babies meant the world to abhimanyu, the man that she claimed to love.

Let me guess, Akshu emotionally manipulated Neil— an adult— to do the right thing. But a wholeass surgeon faked a suicide to get a 20-something woman to change her "no" into a "yes" to empower her to not sacrifice her happiness, with a dude she met few day ago, for her sister.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Let me guess, Akshu emotionally manipulated Neil— an adult— to do the right thing. But a wholeass surgeon faked a suicide to get a 20-something woman to change her "no" into a "yes" to empower her to not sacrifice her happiness, with a dude she met few day ago, for her sister.

this was done using a pic where she was saving him from the camp fire....

and that act of saving abhi from the fire was considered heroic by everyone...and was applauded....the whole birla clan was at the goenkas to say thanks....when arohi was credited for it...and was the basis of abhi proposing arohi....

and when akshu and neil tried to save the girls, she was declared a murderer....by the same family!!!!

Kya baat hai!!!!

Originally posted by: SAOkr

abhir can accept it as anything heroics or carelessness because abhir have not lost anything he had ak and navs love as father and mother ,

but he should not not think abhi abandoned him only that because if abhi knew it he would have given his love too . so if he is at loss because he didnt recieve abhis love then ak is responsible for it not abhi.

also

the case of carelessness and this theory of abhir hating abhi for treating ak . death is not simple i have seen many shows where childrens hated parents who work in social service or sacrifice themselves for others or stake their family over others. for childrens their parents are everything just like for abhir nav and ak its same case should be for parents . and if parents prefer others over childrens safety for childrens it is neglecting them , i am not talking about those so called overly mature children who were programmed to sacrifice anything but normal childrens who dont consider as heroics or anything.

Even if at all makers are getting any hate track their it would be because of any small misunderstanding only. Not major one i guess eventually it would be sorted out also.

Originally posted by: India_TV

You r contradicting ur self...Neil is responsible for his life....she was not...neil is responsible for his actions she is not....She did not force him to do it.....

She had done what she could.....when situations are such, the decisions r taken at the spur of the moment...and she had done that...and so has neil....

I dont find that wrong at all.....

If she would have gone for the concert and something would have happened there, still v could consider...But here she was not wrong......

and the way abhi treated her...was worse than what harsh has been doing....he blamed for for so many murders....when she has lost her baby tooo.....

he paid no attention to her medical checkup,,,.and hit her at her weakest point of seerat Ma's death along...he had no concers for her even after months.....

Another major difference is harsh was in a forced marriage with mnajari....and Abhi treated akshu the way he did ....at her lowest....when he claimed to have loved her.....

I dont support harsh's behaviour...But I dont consider Abhi's better than Harsh's...he was worse...

i am not contradicting anything because from the start i never said ak manipulated him or she forced him my point was always why she didnt stopped him as a sister. no matter whatever the situation you cannot let your loved one in danger .

neil went inorder to stop ak from going besides saving those girls so if ak had tried to stop him .he would not have died. but ak as soon as she reached there she tried to jump out of car without even a tought of babies or of neil.

if you cant even protect your family and loved ones. whats the use of ideals . its not heroisim its selfishness. and it was even more selfish of ak to expect abhi to let go of neil and babies because he was not the only one who has lost them.and situation demanded to prioritize the girls life over neils and babies . it was cruel to expect that.

so yes she was wrong .

because in anyother cases of misfortune in concert or anywhere else it would not have been aks fault but here the descision was of ak to risk her , her babies and neils life. or to wait.

and she choose her ideals over her family , for some it may be nobel but atleast for me its not if you cant even protect your family you claim to love , whats the use of ideals , for me and many others the regret for not saving the family will be much more than ever regret of not saving girls and its not like you cannot save girls you could have followed those goons or asked help from nearby people or went live and made aware of situations for police to act faster there were thousand ways if you would not want to risk your family .

and it was not first time she risked it so it was not situational accident but a abitual one which arises criticism that.

miscarriage is a grave term mothers go through hell to take care during preg to not let childs life in danger and here time and again she made a joke of her own complicated preg and risked her babies life.

so if she lost the babies, or she was at the lowest point in her life , it was due to her own carelessness and disregard and disrespect for lives of her babies .she never learned from that picnic experience.

and abhi disregarding her miscarriage and shouting at her , i mean if ak action was at spur of movement without thinking eventhough she risked it many times , abhi had faced three deaths it can be termed as spur of movement , but that doesnt change the fact that abhi is wrong in giving div but it also doesnt change fact ak was wrong in risking lives.

now care of abhi.

i have lost count of how many times abhi had told ak to not take risks not harm herself for others during preg , and even after all that she went ahead , what does it show that she had little to no regard and respect for abhis love and care.

and this time it had even lead to deaths . so if someone doesnt value your love and care enough to even risk their family members for their ideals abhid had a breakdown , he no longer wished to care for ak who doesnt value his love and care.

abhi had loved ak very much so if that love and care is not valued and insulted and disregarded time and again you withdrew it to simply not hurt yourself more thats what abhi had done.

now harsh and abhi.

harsh is an habitual abuser and knowingly insults manjiri love or not love is not a concern but a person who treats women not as equal and habitualy insults her infront of children that person is always the worst. human not to talk about husband because situations doesnt led him to such behaviour its his own arrognance.

on the other hand abhi on white day throwing things shouting is definitly abuse but he didnt do it to purposefully hurt her even though ak was saying you were hurting her but has ak considered how much hurt he was when she told him situation demands it so she had to put neil and babies life in danger and you have to accept it as esme meri koyi galti nahi he. thats when he told seerut ma dialogue to hurt her.

and he did it intentionally and he had apologised for it to because that was something he did intentionally and realised it .

for me harsh is worst human who is an habitual abuser and considers woman lower than himself and disrespects them . love or not love doesnt even consider and situation like miscarriage and deaths when your care is not valued before when everything was right why should that care matter now everyone has a breaking point.

abhis behaviour is abusive that day , but for me harsh is worst type of person who cant even be compared to him.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Let me guess, Akshu emotionally manipulated Neil— an adult— to do the right thing. But a wholeass surgeon faked a suicide to get a 20-something woman to change her "no" into a "yes" to empower her to not sacrifice her happiness, with a dude she met few day ago, for her sister.

abhimanyu was right in showing arohi her rightful place in front of whole family .

Originally posted by: India_TV

this was done using a pic where she was saving him from the camp fire....

and that act of saving abhi from the fire was considered heroic by everyone...and was applauded....the whole birla clan was at the goenkas to say thanks....when arohi was credited for it...and was the basis of abhi proposing arohi....

and when akshu and neil tried to save the girls, she was declared a murderer....by the same family!!!!

Kya baat hai!!!!

The same birlas thanked the goenkas for saving Abhi from fire…. Who declared Akshu for being a murderer when was trying to save the girls!!

Abhi and Neil ki life is more important than Akshu and girls ki life??

Nahi na!
the whole incident was not a murder…or a careless act…. It was a decision taken at the spur of the moment to save lives…

People try to save others…. Risk to road cross karne mein bhi hota hai… fire mein koodna is defo much more risky… but people do it…. Not all…. Now these people r not called murderers… and r not punished!!!

Originally posted by: India_TV

The same birlas thanked the goenkas for saving Abhi from fire…. Who declared Akshu for being a murderer when was trying to save the girls!!

Abhi and Neil ki life is more important than Akshu and girls ki life??

Nahi na!
the whole incident was not a murder…or a careless act…. It was a decision taken at the spur of the moment to save lives…

People try to save others…. Risk to road cross karne mein bhi hota hai… fire mein koodna is defo much more risky… but people do it…. Not all…. Now these people r not called murderers… and r not punished!!!

if someone descions directly or indirectly effects lives of their loved ones or family then he stops and ponders upon him 1000 times so as to find a way in which his family is not at risk even if its at the spur of movement .

akshu is at fault here not because she tried to save those girls but because she even didnt consider stopping neil or herself from risking babies and think of a way to save the girls without risking them . and you cannot blame situation for ak descision .

if any mother or anyfamily members face such situation then first we think pls dont step out of car or risk yourself we first assure their safety even before considering the situation and thats come as habitual because of love we dont even need to think but here did ak considered neil or childs safety or tried to stop them no thats why its foolishness. and grave carelessness when considering death was of neil and her own babies.

just like someone mentioned before trained officials are given instructions to save max and keep victims min

, and why are med and fire officers and police officers trained because if the one who is suppose to train cant even save themselves then thats not courage but utter foolishness of gambling away your life .

and here ak has done exactly that she gambled and saved those girls but lost one of twins and neil.

and birlas were angry because when we gamble we dont put our family members at stake never.

road cross karna , aag me kudna ye sabh hota he if our lives were not connected here though ak didnt manipulate neil but she should have stopped him from taking risk just like she she should have stopped herself from taking risk as her babies life was alsoconnected with her just like neils.

by trying to risk herself she put all three lives at risk which were connected with hers and normally family members think 1000 times before putting your loved ones life in danger thats were her carelessness is highlighted.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

Yes me too! The one thing I hope that their siblings bond doesn’t get ruined and turns out like their mothers once the truth is revealed that Abhi is Abhir’s actual father. Like I wish instead they get happy that their Docman and Poppy is related to both of them. I honestly think Abhi should just coparent with both sisters for Abhir and Ruhi as he is okay with just being a part of their lives, that’s enough for him. I don’t think he cares about love and marriage or anything anymore. The whole wedding track, he was shown to be spending time with the kids the most.

Isn't it wishful thinking? If ruhi knows the truth she will hate abhir and akshara . If abhir knows the truth he will Hate abhimanyu or akshara depending on which version he hears. How will Dr keep the truth from revealing itself ?

Oh yeah he doesn't care abt anything. When did he ? He only cares for his fake promises to arohi.."a lifetime of loveless marriage " , second or third time I have lost count.....how many times will he do it ? And here akshu was being bashed for marrying abhin n living a loveless life , fake life , compromising life.. ..so abhim must keep his promise to arohi or let go?