Originally posted by: chaipaani
Sorry to jump in again.
But AB k trauma k time we expect AK to not be considerate. Coz no woman tbh is supposed to be a healer. Yes as a couple both of the person should heal eachother but when AB and AK were a couple tab AK was a victim.
But with AN his we should consider and understand his trauma.
That my friend is straight biasness. With this logic even AB is a victim of childhood trauma, one of the reason he has trauma bonding with his mother is his childhood.
AK too have a difficult childhood due to which she was quite a people pleaser, i will solve every issue in the family, saviour mode on sort of a person.
It's recently she has learnt to prioritise her spouse. And that said spouse is doubting that their family is real or not. Doing a Destiny jaap.
Everyone have their own baggage in this show. There's a reason why AB is like he is , why AK is how she is.
Why special treatment for AN may i ask?
Who is asking Akshara to be a healer lol. Or women to be healers. This was actually the worst part of Gen 3. It's the words that heal and it could be come from anyone who Abhinav loves but hasn't received it back from.
I'll put it in the simplest of terms.
For 6 years, Akshara and Abhinav have had a relationship based on mutual respect and friendship. But now things have changed. It changed the moment Akshara got to know Abhinav loves him through his letter. Abhinav hasn't received that communication from Akshara. That's the difference.
AbhiM doesn't even matter here. Ofcourse he's had his own trauma and so did Akshara and the crux of Gen 3 was about how they would both dispel that for each other. They had all the affirmations, grand gestures of love.. (Everything denied to Abhinav till now) yet they were unable to make it because they lacked the most important thing in a relationship : RESPECT.
After so called "white day" it's impossible to give anyone esp AbhiM any sort of leeway even for his childhood trauma. In fact he became his dad.. He treated his wife in the poorest way. The bullied became the bully. Both the mom and the son. Hence he doesn't deserve an ounce of sympathy. He cannot leverage his baggage after that day. His only path should be of redemption : being a coparent to Abhir and to have a cordial relationship with Akshara.
When you hand out the same abuse which was meted out to you,you tend to lose any ground based on sympathy.
AbhiN hasn't received anything compared to that. His verbal affirmations from loved ones are due.
And he will get it.
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