Akshu ke life ki reality - Page 2

Originally posted by: bajarbattu

You are hilarious!!! I mean the post is.
Yeh ITV hai.... regressive stories toh inka benchmark hai. Yeh log sirf naam ke modern hai, baaki bahu betiyon ke liye mentality regressive hi hai.

Wahi Kaira wali story Abhira ko chala rahe hai. Same gheesa peeta track, tab Kartik ki Vedika se shaadi hui thi, aur yahaan par Akshara ki Abhinav se. Kairav ke saath Vansh tha, aur ab Abhir ke saath Ruhi hai.

Tum ghabrana mat, Yeh Abhinav Akshara aur Abhir ko nahin chhodega.
Tumhara Abhimanyu safe hai. 🤣

Originally posted by: cutepigs

I agree, and the worst is, she has always had to do that alone. She toh didn't even have her family around her because all of them have always supported Abhimanyu in this leap. Even after she told how Abhimanyu treated her, Bade Papa kept being how he wasn't happy she lied to them, in front of the Birlas, instead of supporting her then. Even her own sister, yes she is allowed to be worried for herself and her child, but to manipulate a literal child to get her way? Apart from Abhir, who has tried to not change her or abandon her?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Abhinav never tried to change her.

Currently his insecurity is making him ask her to change. The whole hold my hand while sleeping, the whole mera beta, the whole breakdown after Akshara revealed what their relationship was. The last one was so horribly executed by the team that he looked manipulative to me, like he found the way to seem more mahaan and get Goenkas more on his side.

I understand that insecurities are making him do that, but he is asking her to change things now.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Currently his insecurity is making him ask her to change. The whole hold my hand while sleeping, the whole mera beta, the whole breakdown after Akshara revealed what their relationship was. The last one was so horribly executed by the team that he looked manipulative to me, like he found the way to seem more mahaan and get Goenkas more on his side.

I understand that insecurities are making him do that, but he is asking her to change things now.

Lekin yeh itni badi problem nahi hai, dono ka jodi bahot acha hai.

Akshara ,Anupama yeh sab Rajan shahi ki heroines ko akele he rehna chahiye,kyunki Rajan shahi ke shows mai heroines ka kabhi galti hota he nahi hai.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Currently his insecurity is making him ask her to change. The whole hold my hand while sleeping, the whole mera beta, the whole breakdown after Akshara revealed what their relationship was. The last one was so horribly executed by the team that he looked manipulative to me, like he found the way to seem more mahaan and get Goenkas more on his side.

I understand that insecurities are making him do that, but he is asking her to change things now.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Currently his insecurity is making him ask her to change. The whole hold my hand while sleeping, the whole mera beta, the whole breakdown after Akshara revealed what their relationship was. The last one was so horribly executed by the team that he looked manipulative to me, like he found the way to seem more mahaan and get Goenkas more on his side.

I understand that insecurities are making him do that, but he is asking her to change things now.

Are you serious?

I understand you want Abhira to be the endgame and that's why you might've not liked the hand holding scene. But a guy asking his wife before just holding her hand makes him manipulative!! That too right after when the pativrata wife urf Mahanshara has given huge speech on what she expects from him as a partner.

His mera beta stance has been since Kasauli days. It's not like he has started speaking it these days to put more claim on Abhir.

And what Ak revealed is it a small thing?? She said they weren't physical for 6 yrs.. How does that reflect on him. He didn't even accuse, blame or lose his cool in return. Simply said it'll be difficult to face people's questions. What's wrong in this? Aarti utarni chahiye thi kya Ak ki.

Gs don't give a single f**k about their own grand daughter is not his problem. Did he ask Gs to not feel guilty for not supporting Ak, did he tell Swarna to go & tell Ak to have sex with him. Gs ke dimag ki upaj thi na ye.. so why is he dragged even for this.

He deserves criticism for his flaws or faults.. how he has recently allowed insecurity to cloud his actions, how he didn't but should've supported Ak in the hospital & days before that, how he should be open to change n think differently to earn finances, how he should learn to give back on his own to those accusing him, etc....

Just bcos the great innocent Flipshara doesn't know where she wants to flip the next episode, doesn't make him manipulative or wanting to change her.

Originally posted by: verve

Are you serious?

I understand you want Abhira to be the endgame and that's why you might've not liked the hand holding scene. But a guy asking his wife before just holding her hand makes him manipulative!! That too right after when the pativrata wife urf Mahanshara has given huge speech on what she expects from him as a partner.

His mera beta stance has been since Kasauli days. It's not like he has started speaking it these days to put more claim on Abhir.

And what Ak revealed is it a small thing?? She said they weren't physical for 6 yrs.. How does that reflect on him. He didn't even accuse, blame or lose his cool in return. Simply said it'll be difficult to face people's questions. What's wrong in this? Aarti utarni chahiye thi kya Ak ki.

Gs don't give a single f**k about their own grand daughter is not his problem. Did he ask Gs to not feel guilty for not supporting Ak, did he tell Swarna to go & tell Ak to have sex with him. Gs ke dimag ki upaj thi na ye.. so why is he dragged even for this.

He deserves criticism for his flaws or faults.. how he has recently allowed insecurity to cloud his actions, how he didn't but should've supported Ak in the hospital & days before that, how he should be open to change n think differently to earn finances, how he should learn to give back on his own to those accusing him, etc....

Just bcos the great innocent Flipshara doesn't know where she wants to flip the next episode, doesn't make him manipulative or wanting to change her.

I only called the execution of the scene making him seem manipulative, you decided to make everything I wrote manipulation. And I mentioned this only, that his insecurities are making him ask for more and change what comes naturally to Akshara, so yes, he also wants a changed Akshara. I never said about any right or wrong, I just said that apart from Abhir, I find nobody who loves Akshara for her, everyone has a certain box for her, and as long as she is there, they love her. This has nothing to do with who she ends up with, who she doesn't...

And don't mind, I am only saying this because you did come off as aggressive to me. "How does that reflect on him?" So if he hasn't slept with his wife, he is not a man anymore? That's pretty much why marital r*pes were made illegal, because men thought that sleeping with their wives made them men.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

she’s his wife..legally..for 6 years..so what’s wrong with him wanting physical intimacy..and he loves her. If you accepted him as aksharas husband and accepted abhimanyu as an ex husband who has zero rights on akshara.’then you won’t see abhinavs actions as manipulations.’because it’s not. I see him as a normal man who cares deeply for his wife..yes his wife…not another man’s wife 🤷🏻‍♀️

Never called Akshara's anybody else's wife. Yes he can ask for her attention and her physical intimacy, but he is asking for so much of it when the woman is close to losing her son, to custody and maybe life. I am sorry, but not the time to be repeatedly asking for attention, but to rather let her handle stuff if he feels he is broken too to extend support to her. It's no man or wife battle here, both are allowed to fall weak, but when one is trying to be strong, the other shouldn't be dragging the person to break with them.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

I only called the execution of the scene making him seem manipulative, you decided to make everything I wrote manipulation. And I mentioned this only, that his insecurities are making him ask for more and change what comes naturally to Akshara, so yes, he also wants a changed Akshara. I never said about any right or wrong, I just said that apart from Abhir, I find nobody who loves Akshara for her, everyone has a certain box for her, and as long as she is there, they love her. This has nothing to do with who she ends up with, who she doesn't...

And don't mind, I am only saying this because you did come off as aggressive to me. "How does that reflect on him?" So if he hasn't slept with his wife, he is not a man anymore? That's pretty much why marital r*pes were made illegal, because men thought that sleeping with their wives made them men.

@bold I still don't understand how he's changing her?

As to the 2nd para, idk how marital r*pes appeared in the convo. I never said Ak should've slept with him if she didn't want to. I didn't say Nav should've got sex if the other partner wasn't willing. You said "After she revealed the truth" and I asked "Did what Ak reveal was a small thing?"

Ofc it caused huge embarrassment to him & reflected poorly, otherwise why did BP & BM made it a pt. to highlight their sex life so much.

If a husband respects wife's boundaries, then shouldn't a wife uphold his respect by not revealing her bedroom secrets. It was shown Ak blurted it in her emotions, but still the damage was equal. Neither the actions, nor the execution showed manipulation. For me, it was just done to backtrack Akshnav, so that if tomorrow writers decide to go in direction of Abhira, Ak is already declared chaste in front of the entire family. And before someone says chastity doesn't matter. Yes it matters hugely in ITV world.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Never called Akshara's anybody else's wife. Yes he can ask for her attention and her physical intimacy, but he is asking for so much of it when the woman is close to losing her son, to custody and maybe life. I am sorry, but not the time to be repeatedly asking for attention, but to rather let her handle stuff if he feels he is broken too to extend support to her. It's no man or wife battle here, both are allowed to fall weak, but when one is trying to be strong, the other shouldn't be dragging the person to break with them.