Manjari - My pov - Page 2

Originally posted by: Orchid2

She could have urged her son to focus on his priorities and avoid contact with his ex's child; however, making another child feel less wanted or making it appear that his existence is the source of the problem is not an appropriate way to resolve difficulties between her family members .

Abhir did not in any way harm Roohi; it was AbhM who did so; why should she condemn Abhir for that?

Even if you use the cat instance, those cats harmed yours; in this case, Abhir did nothing; it was AbhM's erratic behaviour that caused problems, so realistically she should go & penalise him.

Tell your 40+ year old child to maintain distance from Abhir ; why involve an innocent child in this?

The example i gave agar main jaake billi se bolu ki yaha se chala jaye toh sunega nahi na. Waise hi abhi never listened to manju. She can do emotional manipulation agar woh karega toh bhi uske upar post banega.

Phir abhi ke upar hazar post banega ki woh manju se influenced hua. Toh it's better she does this than going near abhi.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

agree with your all points lekin akshara ke sath divorce ke baad kya kandmaata ne ek bar bhi socha ki woh apne bete ke liye suitable life partner search karegi so uski shaddi ho jaye and kal ko Abhimanyu ka apna baby bhi ho jaye! Abhimanyu ki apni grihasthy start ho jaye.

Nahi ! Kandmata ne ruhi ke bade papa ko poppy banaya kyunki woh chahti thi ki neil ka baccha uske ghar mai he rahe!

Kyon yeh nahi socha ki bade bhai ki apni zindgi ho sakti hai , apna baccha ho sakta hai, chote bhai ka biwi baccha except karne ki koi zarurat kabhi nahi thi.
Bade papa reh kar bhi woh neil se kiya hua promise pura kar sakta tha lekin aarohi and kaandmata ne soch samaj kar bade papa ko poppy banaya iss hope mai ki Aj poppy banate hai and in future papa bana lenge.

Bade papa poppy toh bann gaye lekin papa banne ko razi nahi hai so kitna pressurise kar rahi hai apne bade bete ko chote bete ki beti ka vaasta de kar.

Jo ho raha hai woh kaamdmata and aarohi ki barso ki calculation ke hisab se he j raha hai, isiliye jab bade papa jo poppy bane unhone papa banne se mana kiya toh dono ko mirchi lagi.

Manjari pagal hai. Lekin jo aaj usne kiya woh kaafi better tha agar woh abhi se baath karthi, abhi uske manipulation se hasr jatha toh phir iss forum main abhi ke against ithne post banthe pucho math 😆

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

abhi is not gonna listen he does what his heart likes. She knows her son better than anyone else.

The example i gave agar main jaake billi se bolu ki yaha se chala jaye toh sunega nahi na. Waise hi abhi never listened to manju. She can do emotional manipulation agar woh karega toh bhi uske upar post banega.

Phir abhi ke upar hazar post banega ki woh manju se influenced hua. Toh it's better she does this than going near abhi.

Manjiri is immature and selfish to act so rudely with a kid.

Least she could have done is console the child after he asked why should he do so, is he dirty?

Why hurt innocent people because you can't control your grown up child? 🤢

Maa Beta pe Post banega isilye it's better she makes Abhir feel like he's the problem?

Poor child is anyways feeling bad because of Ruhi's attitude and ran to AN saying he did nothing wrong to cause this, Manjiri just made it worse.

Originally posted by: Orchid2

So if her 40+ years old man child can't act maturely it's okay to ask a innocent child to keep away when that child isn't imposing himself on anyone, Abhir never seeks anything from AbhM, he's nowhere responsible for Ruhi's tantrums, for him AbM is his Mausa and he acts like that never crosses his limits &, he doesn't know complicated relationships of adults to understand and step away from them. Manjiri is was immature and selfish to act so rudely with a kid.

Maa Beta pe Post banega isilye it's better she makes Abhir feel like he's the problem?

Poor child is anyways feeling bad because of Ruhi's attitude and ran to AN saying he did nothing wrong to cause this, Manjiri just made it worse.

First abhi never tried to go behind abhir. It was destiny. He did not wanted to go to camp to arohi took him and he even opted out asked arohi lets go back if she is not comfortable arohi denied it.

Abhir and abhim are in same team that is destiny too. Abhim is already running with low self confidence. Akshu told him he is not a good husband and father. When he heard because of him his son won. He just jumped in happiness. It's the joy that ppl get when they see their kid win the competition and even when they multiple kids people do not think about other kid before feeling happy about the one who won something.

Abhi has spent more time with rooh on that day. Roohi is the one who dropped a message. Currently abhi is not telling anyone truth as he is scared about Abhir's health. So he is going with the flow.

But it's very evident that arohi knows everything she still she is manipulating roohi.

Agar roohi jakar abhir ke upar complaint karegi toh if she finds abhir first and she is already stressed about her son and her grand daughyer because of abhir usko sirf kisi bhi tareeke se unko alag karna hai by hook or crook.

It's same like how akshu is blaming abhi for roohi and praising arohi. She wants her agenda to be ful filled and manjari wants her agenda to be fulfilled. Both are selfish for their kids.

In the end i made this post not to defend manjari i only wanted to know if i am only person who thinks like this. Neither i defended her is no many others post nor i have any intention to do.

Originally posted by: Orchid2

So if her 40+ years old man child can't act maturely it's okay to ask a innocent 6 yr old to keep away 😆 especially when that child isn't imposing himself on anyone, never seeks anything from AbhM, he's nowhere responsible for Ruhi's tantrums, for him AbM is his Mausa and he acts like that never crosses his limits &, he doesn't know complicated relationships of adults to understand and step away from them. Why would you randomly say such words to a kid who doesn't know context of the whole situation?

Manjiri is immature and selfish to act so rudely with a kid.

Least she could have done is console the child after he asked why should he do so, is he dirty?

Why hurt innocent people because you can't control your grown up child? 🤢

Maa Beta pe Post banega isilye it's better she makes Abhir feel like he's the problem?

Poor child is anyways feeling bad because of Ruhi's attitude and ran to AN saying he did nothing wrong to cause this, Manjiri just made it worse.

D op lso said KM knws abhi dsnt lstn 2 ny1.....if he lstns 2 ny1....its km only.......he threw akshu away 4 KM. He agreed 2 mry aaru 4 KM.....nw also she cntrls him.....wat s dis lak of consitncy

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

in my post i clearly mentioned mera opinion unpopular hai.

First abhi never tried to go behind roohi. It was destiny. He did not wanted to go to camp to arohi took him and he even opted out asked arohi lets go back if she is not comfortable arohi denied it.

Abhir and abhim are in same team that is destiny too. Abhim is already running with low self confidence. Akshu told him he is not a good husband and father. When he heard because of him his son won. He just jumped in happiness. It's the joy that ppl get when they see their kid win the competition and even when they multiple kids people do not think about other kid before feeling happy about the one who won something.

Abhi has spent more time with rooh on that day. Roohi is the one who dropped a message. Currently abhi is not telling anyone truth as he is scared about Abhir's health. So he is going with the flow.

But it's very evident that arohi knows everything she still she is manipulating roohi.

Agar roohi jakar abhir ke upar complaint karegi toh if she finds abhir first and she is already stressed about her son and her grand daughyer because of abhir usko sirf kisi bhi tareeke se unko alag karna hai by hook or crook.

It's same like how akshu is blaming abhi for roohi and praising arohi. She wants her agenda to be ful filled and manjari wants her agenda to be fulfilled. Both are selfish for their kids.

In the end i made this post not to defend manjari i only wanted to if i am only person who thinks like this. Neither i defended her is no many others post nor i have any intention to do.

I agree that Abhir is more mature than AbhM and She was not wrong to approach him as AbhM wouldn’t have listened to her but atleast she could have done it in a polite way than making Abhir feel like sh!t .

Could have just politely asked Abhir to stay away from AbM for time being till Roohi calms down and assured him that she’s not blaming him but it’s just how things are and people need to spend some time away from each other to cool things down.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

i know maine kaha na she is very selfish usko roohi ghar pe chahiye tha as she very well abhi may never move on from akshu. She may not get inheritor too. Toh usne roohi ko ghar pe rakhne ke liya kiya.

Manjari pagal hai. Lekin jo aaj usne kiya woh kaafi better tha agar woh abhi se baath karthi, abhi uske manipulation se hasr jatha toh phir iss forum main abhi ke against ithne post banthe pucho math 😆

Problem muje sirf ek he baat se hai that woh bacche se yeh boli ki tum hum se dur raho , and woh baccha said kya mai dirty hu ?!

Dur raho ki language itna chota baccha nahi samaj sakega.

Isse better hota ki woh tactfully situation ko handle karti. She can asked abhir that she is in tension and she will manage on her own and abhir should go to play with other kids etc.

Abhimanyu ko pata hai ki abhir uska beta hai so ab koi kitna bhi bole woh apne bete ko sabse zyada attention dena nahi chodega. Acha hua kandmata ko pata chal gaya ki abhir Akshara and Abhimanyu ka beta hai. Ab story thoda aage badhega.

Originally posted by: NikhatNur

D op lso said KM knws abhi dsnt lstn 2 ny1.....if he lstns 2 ny1....its km only.......he threw akshu away 4 KM. He agreed 2 mry aaru 4 KM.....nw also she cntrls him.....wat s dis lak of consitncy

I feel in this situation Aarohi should have confronted AbhM but she’s using others to manipulate situation to her advantage.

Most of the adults in yrkkh are hurting kids for their motivates .

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

May be unpopular opinion .i have not seen this scene completely. If manjari has only done this much i don't see anything wrong in it.

I am using my cats as an example as i consider them as my kids. I have lot of cats. And i also feed some other cats which are not ours they are outsider. I started feeding them out of courtesy and even loved them equally but slowly the cat started scaring our cats. They started picking up a fight and hurting my kittens. Now my choice is to choose between outside cats and my cats. Obviously i will go for my cats. As they will have higher preference and slowly i started feeding them less and started splashing water so that they can find another source of food and place to stay and start relocating from my place so that my cats are safe.

Here manjari is also feel threatened as she feel her family may break apart. She has to choose between her family and abhir. It's difficult and manjari did the same thing which any other person would do. She is feeling guilty of doing it but she don't have any other choice.

https://twitter.com/naima_shen/status/1654029991330414592

Ignore if you disagree. But this i felt from my own experience so i don't see anything wrong here. She is just trying to maintain distance from abhir so that he don't influence her decision and she can ensure that her son moves on and stays happy.

I am posting it here to know if any one feels the same.

Since most of the posts calling out this action i wanted to make this post.

I agree with you partially. I think her intention/reasons are right but not her actions here. There are better ways to talk to a kid even though what you are telling them is right. I am guessing she was looking for Ak or Abhi but ran into Abhir instead. She could have just had a polite conversation with him and moved on. There wasn’t a need to tell the kid to stay away.

Having said that I won’t hold this too greatly against her because I do get it that when you are emotional and conflicted, sometimes logic and patience go for a toss. After all we are all humans even fictional ones.

And that has been the moral conundrum of this leap for every main ckt.

Aks intentions were not wrong but her actions were.

Abhi’s and Manjiri’s grief wasn’t misplaced but their actions were.

Manjiri’s concern for Abhi, Ar and Roohi isn’t wrong but her insistence to get Abhi-Ar married is misplaced.

Sab thode thode galat sab thode thode sahi. It gives me a headache to be honest 🤦🏻‍♀️

P.s-I haven’t seen the episode and have just seen this clip, so if there is something before or after it then pardon my ignorance.

Originally posted by: Orchid2

I don’t know what he did for Manjiri pre leap but I don’t think it’s wrong to assume that AbM would not have listened to her considering his immature behaviour.

I feel in this situation Aarohi should have confronted AbhM but she’s using others to manipulate situation to her advantage.

Most of the adults in yrkkh are hurting kids for their motivates .

Husband hamesha ke liye chala gaya jab woh pregnant thi. Jab uska baccha iss dunia mai aya tab woh ek widow single mother thi. Maa banne se pehle uski Abhimanyu ke sath ek history rahi hai jiski wajah se woh in/out abhimanyu ko bahot acche se janti hai. Usko acche se pata tha ki Abhimanyu shaddi ke liye reliable nahi hai and usko kuch bhi balance karna nahi aata hai fir bhi Abhimanyu-ruhi ki bonding ko badhava deti rahi. Kabhi apni beti ko samajdari se and suj-buj se yeh nahi samajaya ki beta tumhare bade papa tumhare poppy bane lekin papa nahi bann sakte , aap ko iss baat ko kabhi sochna nahi hai. Bacche kafi kuch wish karte hai lekin yeh apne uper hai ki bacche ko kaise apni suj-buj se samja kar unki wish ko unki zidd nahi banne dena hai.

Yaha toh aarohi khud he ruhi ki khushi ke naam par ek unreliable admi se rishta jodne ko marri ja rahi hai isiliye toh apni 6 saal ki insecure beti ko bola ki jav poppy ko sawal karo, poppy se baat kari. Khud kuch bhi nahi kiya apni beti ko insecurity ke liye.