Originally posted by: solembaum
I was not on the forum in those days .. but one thing I can say is that I did think that while Arohi is too petty and grey bordering on black .. I had not liked how Abhimanyu behaved through the entire track .. I liked Abhira together simply in terms of chemistry .. but there were things right from tilak 1.0 which made me feel Abhimanyu was being very rash and irrational .. I thought it was very obvious that a function being organised for one sisters wedding where Dulha tries to get the other sister to admit as if they had a relationship was not the way to proceed if you were serious about that relationship .. I mean him saying it was Alshara that he liked was good and perfectly fine .. but statements like we both ( meaning him and Akshara) were clear right from first day makes a false narrative which makes anyone think there was a clear understanding or sort of relationship between them and Akshara kept quiet inspite of that and then he kept pressurising her in that function itself to admit to things she couldn’t vouch for .. like whether he ever gave any false hopes to Arohi .. honestly she wouldn’t have been able to say whether there were messages or calls or other interactions between him and Aru .. I found those statements problematic.. similarly I disliked him deciding to marry Arohi of all people although he could have chosen any other eligible girl in Udaipur or india or anywhere else .. and then even before the relationship is formalised, starting a side drama with Akshara torturing her .. and I disliked how he forced her to run away right before muhurat and left Arohi at the altar .. it is not because I like Arohi .. I really dislike her and it irks me till date that she has gotten away with all her kaands and probably got a much easier life and everyone’s love in spite of. Being a vile creature .. but that still doesn’t mean that I support how Abhimanyu behaved on that wedding day .. he had every opportunity to stop it before she got ready as a bride by just telling the families that she is s list and a cheat and he can’t marry such a lady .. while they were all at home .. while he barged in started badgering Akshara for giving him to Arohi .. instead he could have done the right thing and told bade papa and the rest of Goenkas that Arohi is not home , she is a liar blah blah .. that would have solved the problem without making it such a public spectacle .. but he behaved like he needed to secure one girl to let go of the other even if that screwed up everything .. and he also told every one that Akshara was ready to break every promise she made to him for Arohi , that is how much she loves Aru .. I till date do not understand what promise did Alshara make to him before that proposal day .. but he got away with all those dialogues and he made the love of his life look like the worst kind of sister who runs away with her sisters would be on the day of her wedding while the sister got ready and reached mandap .. so long story short i don’t like Arohi and I don’t hate Abhi, I still want Abhira.. but I thought Abhimanyu was totally wrong in most of the situations on tilak 1.0 and his engagement to Arohi and the way he behaved to Akshara while being engaged to Arohi and how he broke the wedding .. May be others also were not fans but people who found the situations problematic ..
actually they did have those moments before the first engagement …which would make abhimsnyu think so…in fact akshara herself admits to it while crying in the scene after the ceremony
but my post was not about that 😊 the post was about not revealing the true emotion and passive aggressively supporting whoever is on the other side of Abhimanyu …n again that’s ok too if one dislikes abhimsnyu …I was just pointing out the true equation that’s all
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