What's the problem? - Page 4

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Thank You

But my statement applies to both fandoms.

And like DeltaBlues mentioned I do support when she says under the shield of fiction people do make horrible statements like insulting someone for people's finances or what not. We don't have to attack them as you can unintentionally hurt real person but they also need to stop doing that. Everything is not funny. Otherwise it will get called out and cannot be ignored

Originally posted by: Deltablues

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We keep going in circles, you can read discussion in first page 🤦‍♀️ I don't really need to pin point abuse and mocking now, do I? If you want to ignore that then it is totally your choice and I understand it

Calling out doesn't involve abusing or hurting people, it involves telling them what they are doing wrong, why? Because we don't know what one is going through in their life. People use these platforms as a way to escape their lives

I wouldn't entertain any sexist, racist, classist or any other insensitive remark but I didn't see them doing it here so I can't really justify the abuse being done here thinking it might have happened in some place

The forum has a set of rules and if one wants discussion, we can't keep attacking fans like this

When I make a post saying "so called Abhinav fans come and explain your stand", I am not inviting anyone for a good discussion, this is passive aggressive approach and no Abhira fan will actually come and be a part of good discussion or explain their stand. It led to unnecessary mocking and attacking of fandoms because it couldn't go in any other manner

Anyway, this has been stretched beyond my limits. Y'all continue

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

But my statement applies to both fandoms.

And like DeltaBlues mentioned I do support when she says under the shield of fiction people do make horrible statements like insulting someone for people's finances or what not. We don't have to attack them as you can unintentionally hurt real person but they also need to stop doing that. Everything is not funny. Otherwise it will get called out and cannot be ignored

Everything applies to everyone. No discussion with take place if we are going to attack people.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

For the first question : Abhimanyu's timing was absolutely wrong and he was very insensitive but offering 2nd time divorce to akshara was very true decision for me. 1st time divorce was also because of dedhshani akshara jo due to whatever reason apne husband ko bina confidence mai liye, bina kuch bhi samjaye ek din achanak gayab ho gayi thi. Humare yaha toh wife bina kuch bataye achanak saal bhar gayab rahe toh halla mach jaye dono families mai and itna he nahi wife/husband 7-8 hours ke liye bhi bina bataye kahi chali jaye toh husband/wife kisi bhi spouse ki tension le le kar jaan nikal jaye ki achanak kaha chali gayi meri biwi! Akshara ne bilkul sahi nahi kiya tha jo uss doctor ki baato mai aa kar emotionally blackmail ho gayi aur uss unknown doctor ke sath nikal padi! Kaun nikal padta hai aise ! mai toh sabse pehle ja kar apne husband and meri dono families ko confidence me lu ki dekho aisa aisa scene hai and doctor ne aisa offer diya hai and yeh he option bacha hai husband ko thik karne ka. Lekin yaha toh kabhi husband/families kisi ko bhi akshara ne confidence mai liya he nahi aur sab chod-chad kar unknown doctor ke sath 1 saal ke liye nikal padi! yeh kya baat hui! Agar koi apni shaddi mai apne husband ko bina confidence mai liye sab kuch chipa kar saal bhar gayab ho jaye toh kisi ko bhi divorce dene ka mann karega aise life partner ko. Kya nautanki tha ki jab aakh khuli tab biwi achanak kahi chali gayi! Fir yeh bolna ki bichari biwi ne pyar mai tyag kiya! what nonsense! tyag se zyada communication matter karta hai kisi bhi shaddi mai. Fir bolte hai ki abhimanyu ne akshara ko first time galat samja! kya galat samja! Koi bhi normal spouse apni shaddi mai jab aisa kisi unknown doctor ka offer ayega toh thodi nikal padega kuch bina bataye! Fir bolte hai ki kisi ne akshara ke tyag ka value nahi kiya! Aise tyag ka kya aachar daale jo complexity he create kare!
Now divorce for second time, again I am repeating abhimanyu was very insensitive and his timing was absolutely wrong BUT akshara was the one jisne puri dunia ka theka le kar during the pregnancy apne babies ko baar baar risk mai daala tha .Akshara ko kai baar samjaya gaya,roka gaya ki tum iss time puri dunia ka theka na lo aur babies ko priority par rakkho lekin akshara ne baar baar apne babies ko risk mai dala ,kabhi dangerous forest mai kisi kid ke piche ja kar, kabhi dangerous goons ke paas babies ko le ja kar. Why? Kisi bhi pregnant mother ke liye apne babies ki safety se zyada dunia mai kuch bhi important nahi hota hai aur kuch bhi zyada important hona bhi nahi chahiye. Kyun akshara ne apne babies ke risk par puri dunia ka theka le kar rakkha? Jab baar baar akshara apne babies ko dangerously risk par daal rahi thi dunia ka theka lene ke liye, tab woh bhi bahot zyada galat kar rahi thi unn dono babies ke sath. And at last akshara ne wohi kiya jo thoughout the pregnancy babies ke sath karti ayi thi ,goons ke paas babies ko le ja kar final stunt kiya jisme ek baby ki death ho gayi. As a mother, i hate akshara jab woh during the pregnancy apne babies ko goons ke paas le kar gayi thi. It's pukeworthy to see ki ek expecting mother ke liye apne babies se zyada important duniya ka theka lena tha. Agar babies nahi hote toh muje yeh stunt heroic lagta but yaha woh ek expecting mother thi jo apne babies ko goons ke paas le gayi and babies se zyada important usko duniya ka theka lena laga. Akshara ke issi duniya ka theka lene ki zidd ki wajah se bichara ek poor baby chala gaya, Kash akshara itna ziddi na hoti toh woh apne babies ko dangerous forest mai bhi nahi le gayi hoti aur dangerous goons ke paas bhi nahi le gayi hoti. Isiliye abhimanyu ne akshara ko ziddi bola tha kyunki baar baar request karne par, baar baar samjane par bhi thoughout those 9 months akshara ne hamesha duniya ka theka lene ko priority diya on the expense of their babies.

First divorce reason is absolutely correct. I don't know why ITV FL behave like this. Intelligent bol kar dumb dikhate hain. Well I can't do anything with this. And this post don't mean to degrade anyone. I just want healthy discussion.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

When I make a post saying "so called Abhinav fans come and explain your stand", I am not inviting anyone for a good discussion, this is passive aggressive approach and no Abhira fan will actually come and be a part of good discussion or explain their stand. It led to unnecessary mocking and attacking of fandoms because it couldn't go in any other manner

I know you want to leave....

But I never got any proper answer from AbhiM fans when I repeated asked for the reasons they like AbhiM in a topic I made... As I only saw toxic side of him whenever I saw the show for past 1.5 years... That's why I never felt he was 'butchered'on the white day...

I genuinely asked everyone What good points I missed.... No one replied... As though they themselves forgot...(one person replied honestly... Thanks... though)

But that time topic was to invite others and see their POV not to criticize....

So I felt that as they cannot support their character they feel good by abusing other characters without any proper reason

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

What's the problem with so called Abhira fans? You people can hate AK, Nav, Manjiri, Aarohi, other ckt. But can't give a single justification for Abhimanyu. More problem with Nav. If he is good so what's your problem? Today episode was too good but no hum to bhai jaise hai waise rahenge.

If you can please come here do justify for your favorite character without defame other. Please justify these.

Is it ok for you Abhi offered divorce AK 2nd time?

Is it ok for u Abhi called him murderer of Sairat?

Is it ok for u Abhi didn't listen phone calls?

Is it ok for u when he purpose AK last time when he know she is married to someone else and a mother?

Is it ok for u when he asked a men to return his wife?

Is it ok for u if AK & Neil didn't tried to save those girls?

Is it ok for u if Nav didn't take her to the hospital?

First justify all these then talk about other action or reaction. Why AK got married to some stranger? Why can't she live like a single mother? Why Nav is too attached with Abhir? Why she is not revealing paternity truth? Why she is behaving like Manjri?

No to all your questions except for the phone call which is highly debatable. See, not Abhira or Abhi fans think alike.

Now can you please stop generalizing all fans, please? I know it's just a show but it's really off putting to constantly see posts being made to attack Abhira fandom. It is really not nice because not all fans abuse.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

First divorce reason is absolutely correct. I don't know why ITV FL behave like this. Intelligent bol kar dumb dikhate hain. Well I can't do anything with this. And this post don't mean to degrade anyone. I just want healthy discussion.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

they are blind obsessed immature crazy people…I read the most disgusting thing in a post…saying how can abhinav go to the same bar as abhimanyu because abhinav is living off charity..what a load of rubbish.. these people have no Humanity.. they think abhimanyu is some God. They Jump on the band wagon to mock and belittle working class people..I wonder if they all live in triple story mansions and have parents who are billionaires…abhimanyu works as a doctor but he inherited money from his family..whereas Nav has always worked his way and supported abhimanyus child..I’ve never read such immature stupid tweets and posts anywhere like we get from abhira fandom 😂 that’s why everyone refers to them as Baccha fandom 😂..just like children they can’t think beyond their wishes and wants 😂

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Akshara is irritating and frankly, the actress is not as good as people want me to believe, her crying scenes put me off and it sucks because she does that all the time

Currently I'm on Akshara's side but @bold: i agree with you. no hate to pranali but her acting is not convincing. She really needs to work on dialogue delivery & expressions. She is beautiful but I'm not liking her acting.

1) @Priyrabha i understand your frustration seeing your favourite ckt being bashed but this can't be helped coz like @NoraSM mentioned moral policing and targetting any fd for their opinion is against IF rules and regulations.

2)Just to add so is making any kind classist/racist comment, hate speech,etc. If you observe anything like that happening report it to the moderator appropriate action will be taken.This applies to all the fds

3) What's not against IF rules and regulations is criticizing any ckt. It's people personal opinion and you can't callout anyone for their opinion whether or not you agree with it(provided they're not indulging in things mentioned in 2)... you're always welcome to put your points forward why you don't agree with their opinions as long as you don't moral police or target people

I suggest you refer to IF Forums Rules and Regulations