Ak has a realization : Epi Air Date Feb 15 2023 - Page 24

Originally posted by: IAMHope

I’m watching webseries Farzi - Shahid Kapoor Vijay Sethupathi

We watching bol bachan currently! Ah so funny 🤣

Me and hubby also been watching: the last of us, so good but it comes out Weekley 😭

You mean a court wedding with no Rasam? Ya that will be done quickly so they are married before Akshara lands up in GV.

I thought about that but even last time she had no grand wedding - so she might want a proper wedding with all rasams. That way they can drag for few more weeks?

Originally posted by: Veesam

she will ask for certificate marriage

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Seriously? How could she have injected herself all those hormones needed to sustain an IVF baby?

I was thinking if they agreed to a no intimacy marriage then maybe she asked him to donate for an IVF baby so Roohi is not an only child? Just imagine the conflicts Roohi will have with the new baby!

I won’t be watching the episode today. I’m thinking the next epi I might watch is the day Ak lands in GV- do you know when that might be? I think the rest - 4K, Shivratri, Holi we will get “shock and awe” type content. Nothing to look forward to.

I am sure they were just agreeing to a desperate fans wild theory. Looks like media ban has continued onset. Just paid ones glorifying how good KS and JS are and their chemistry with HC and PR

As for IVF, well she did get pregnant just with a mosquito bite, she did made one visit to the IVF clinic, an embryo may have been then made its way into her uterus through another mosquito🤣.When have they ever done any research on what they show.

No intimacy marriage with IVF baby, we are talking about Arohi here arent we. She will drug Abhimanyu to have the real deal. Who knows this time he may initiate it🤮.

Dont know if Ak will land till sunday. They seem to be shooting 1 week in advance. Today will be the proposal/pledge etc. Tomorrow Manjari doing ghoomar and taking thali. Sat Abrohi happily prepping for Mimi's birthday. Sunday Akshu will land to spoil their short lived happiness.

Originally posted by: Veesam

He's just being father. Wasn't Abhinav doing the same? Who's death wish he has to honour in this case?

In reality the love parents have on their kids is unconditional.Here Abhi thinks himself as roohi's parent.

No one is going beyond necessary here.

Manjari,abhi are taking care of roohi very well.

As much as we complain about the CVs/writers doing this and that. Sometimes they do show things in a subtle manner. Particularly the differences between how Roohi and Abhir are being raised. Not the just the physical and materialistic things such as the type of home and what type of toys, clothes, and things they own. But their fundamental understanding of right and wrong behaviors.

I do not doubt Abhi's love for Roohi. She has become one of the things that keeps him hanging on. But still contend there is mixture of burden due to Neil. The issue is Abhi's extreme attitude, over attention, and the almost immediate gratification of her ever want is what is setting Roohi unfortunately up for heartbreak and jealousy in her future. Her expectation has risen so high that one miss and she will crumble, cry, and be hurt.

As much as Mahima isn't the greatest parent either and she is most definitely a gray character. She usually tells the practical truth. Roohi is spoiled by Abhi, Manjari, and Arohi.

Examples:

1) She get pancakes with chocolate syrup (maybe this is a cultural thing but these types of breakfasts are usually reserved on the weekends and occasional where I come from)

2) She told Abhi he wasn't allow to make friends or if he was going to he would have to call her first

3) She doesn't like it when Abhi's attention strays on their video calls and throws mini attitude towards his way when he does

4) She wanted a notebook and Abhi immediately agreed. But because he was at conference she decided she could use Manjari's phone and attempt to order notebooks for herself which causes his card to get blocked for a few days

5) When she took Mahima's stethoscope and then threw it in the water. Now, Mahima should not have yelled at Roohi like that. She did wrong there but the way Manjari tries to brush Roohi's action aside by saying but she’s just a kid. Sorry, Roohi should not have taken the stethoscope and she should not have thrown it. I can look past the taking depending on where she found it. But the throwing not acceptable behavior. We never saw a scene where Roohi was told why her behavior was wrong and why should not do it again.

6) When she was sick because her mother was in the hospital Manjari offered all sorts of snacks to the child first. Understand the child won't eat and so they are trying to entice the kid with things she likes. But why not show the scene where real food is offered and gradually move to snacks and sweets?

There are more examples and if you look at the entirety of it you will start to slowly see they are showing Roohi is being raised by the Birlas to have unrealistic expectations and desires. Abhi has been overly excessive in his love. We have seen this behavior before from him. In the beginning he was like this with Akshu just before they got married and he was annoying the elder Birlas with his Akshu jaap. But in the end there was some re-balancing that happened so Abhi toned down his behavior.

We are going to see Roohi go through the same thing once Akshu and Abhir are in the picture again.Her jealous, insecurities, and tantrums will start.

We may have to agree to disagree on this subject but just trying to explain the point of view I am seeing this through.

Originally posted by: sunshining

I dont think he will ever find his way back. Abhira are done. Time to perform last rites.

Cliff awaits Akshu and may be Abhimanyu. I dont see it going any other way. Even in this yug(world) Abhimanyu did not learn to come out of chakravuyh.(labyrinth of multiple defensive walls)

I am still optimistic. Don't be so sad.

🤗 He will find his way out.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

As much as we complain about the CVs/writers doing this and that. Sometimes they do show things in a subtle manner. Particularly the differences between how Roohi and Abhir are being raised. Not the just the physical and materialistic things such as the type of home and what type of toys, clothes, and things they own. But their fundamental understanding of right and wrong behaviors.

I do not doubt Abhi's love for Roohi. She has become one of the things that keeps him hanging on. But still contend there is mixture of burden due to Neil. The issue is Abhi's extreme attitude, over attention, and the almost immediate gratification of her ever want is what is setting Roohi unfortunately up for heartbreak and jealousy in her future. Her expectation has risen so high that one miss and she will crumble, cry, and be hurt.

As much as Mahima isn't the greatest parent either and she is most definitely a gray character. She usually tells the practical truth. Roohi is spoiled by Abhi, Manjari, and Arohi.

Examples:

1) She get pancakes with chocolate syrup (maybe this is a cultural thing but these types of breakfasts are usually reserved on the weekends and occasional where I come from)

2) She told Abhi he wasn't allow to make friends or if he was going to he would have to call her first

3) She doesn't like it when Abhi's attention strays on their video calls and throws mini attitude towards his way when he does

4) She wanted a notebook and Abhi immediately agreed. But because he was at conference she decided she could use Manjari's phone and attempt to order notebooks for herself which causes his card to get blocked for a few days

5) When she took Mahima's stethoscope and then threw it in the water. Now, Mahima should not have yelled at Roohi like that. She did wrong there but the way Manjari tries to brush Roohi's action aside by saying but she’s just a kid. Sorry, Roohi should not have taken the stethoscope and she should not have thrown it. I can look past the taking depending on where she found it. But the throwing not acceptable behavior. We never saw a scene where Roohi was told why her behavior was wrong and why should not do it again.

6) When she was sick because her mother was in the hospital Manjari offered all sorts of snacks to the child first. Understand the child won't eat and so they are trying to entice the kid with things she likes. But why not show the scene where real food is offered and gradually move to snacks and sweets?

There are more examples and if you look at the entirety of it you will start to slowly see they are showing Roohi is being raised by the Birlas to have unrealistic expectations and desires. Abhi has been overly excessive in his love. We have seen this behavior before from him. In the beginning he was like this with Akshu just before they got married and he was annoying the elder Birlas with his Akshu jaap. But in the end there was some re-balancing that happened so Abhi toned down his behavior.

We are going to see Roohi go through the same thing once Akshu and Abhir are in the picture again.Her jealous, insecurities, and tantrums will start.

We may have to agree to disagree on this subject but just trying to explain the point of view I am seeing this through.

As a mother of 8yr old son I completely disagree with the points from 1-6 . Kids are kids. Eating pan cakes on weekdays and for throwing tantrums we cannot judge parenting. Is abhirs parenting good a/c to you? Did you forget how he got spray paint to Abhi’s room? Kids are kids..

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

Why can't akshu and abhi be selfish?

No one gets called out for their bad deeds anyway!!! Heck even good deeds get pushed to a side! So if abhi and akshu decide to ditch mathashree ki roo and navji the acha admi and decide to be a real family I won't judge them! Infact I will root for them!! Why does a real family have to compromise for dil ka rishta!! What's wrong just having a normal biological family!

Exactly 💯

That is why if mandap leaving happens or promise is broken I won't care what Arohi, Manjari, elder Birlas, and elder Goenkas think!

Roohi is still a child and if properly talked to can understand things. This why I dislike people almost belittling a child's capability. They are a lot smarter and resilient than you think. With proper guidance and understanding they can come to terms with a lot of life's bumps in the road. Gosh, these people need to watch Mr. Rogers (the children show)! He tackled tough subjects like lost, racism, and tragic events. The man had a way of talking to children.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Exactly 💯

That is why if mandap leaving happens or promise is broken I won't care what Arohi, Manjari, elder Birlas, and elder Goenkas think!

Roohi is still a child and if properly talked to can understand things. This why I dislike people almost belittling a child's capability. They are a lot smarter and resilient than you think. With proper guidance and understanding they can come to terms with a lot of life's bumps in the road. Gosh, these people need to watch Mr. Rogers (the children show)! He tackled tough subjects like lost, racism, and tragic events. The man had a way of talking to children.

I believe Sarah confirmed marriage will happen and Abhir's truth will come out after that.

Originally posted by: Veesam

As a mother of 8yr old son I completely disagree with the points from 1-6 . Kids are kids. Eating pan cakes on weekdays and for throwing tantrums we cannot judge parenting. Is abhirs parenting good a/c to you? Did you forget how he got spray paint to Abhi’s room? Kids are kids..

I agree kids are kids.

But its how the adults react and behave is what I am noticing. It is there in her scenes with the Birlas. I see that they are setting Roohi up for heartbreak. I don't think its fair to her but it is what will happen. Some of it is life lessons but some is the adults own making.

What Abhir did with the soccer ball and the paint was not right. He got caught, immediately fussed up, apologized and did squats. Akshu scolded him when he got angry at Abhinav for not getting him his own room indirectly hurting him about their financial situation. But then Akshu spoke to him to make him understand how much Abhinav has done for them and to give him respect.

We've complained before about how Goenkas have Arohi and Akshu were raised. Some of it is the child's own internal nature but some of it is also what the adults let them get away with.

Originally posted by: sunshining

I believe Sarah confirmed marriage will happen and Abhir's truth will come out after that.

I saw another post from her where she said she never confirmed marriage.