Originally posted by: Mehersudha
Bela if she says good things and beta goes to bahu we scold he is holding maa ka pallu. So they changed it little bit..is he not an adult man who knows what's what. Can't he know her goodness or what she did to him.his adamancy and ego is not letting it accept that ak did love him more than him. Atleast she is telling him to set. Actually mata has no me ding techniques she lacks it. If she has that she could have done before only to baap beta. Baap is giving his pukkat ka gyan to beta which he is listening not thrashing him. Their story is that only it won't give any healthy family vibes. Atleast they are trying to be good instead of bashing. Neil is street smart knows how to survive in ocean also . Abhi is getting something whereas neil has nothing .they all made him a bhoj at home now he will do family jaap before Ar 😝
But how this reverse psychology will get his trust back
Kaandeshwari failed to even understand her son problem since childhood as well as in his marriage that he has no trust on AK and he has these famous insecurities for Ak's family.
I would have preferred if Kaand maata had given gyan ke moti to her son that she is also right in taking her brother side since she knows him since childhood, especially after listening Khera's deal...Kaand maata could have at least trust AK in this. She could have also told her son that what happened after 24 hours? Beta birla could have replied that she left something in my room but i do not see it.
But here Kaandeshwari wants to listen when she wants to and how much she wants to..in this scenario she is not in authoritative position to give gyan ke moti to both
Her views do not seem balanced because her base is weak..in understanding her son pain and the cause of it.
She is again pressurizing them to mend their relationship without solving their trust issue...so again in future it can be break 👎🏼
Beta Birla was waiting for her mother to wake up and give him right direction and he was ready to listen her and obey her..but she turned deaf and blind to listen and hear and understand the situation properly before reaction
Yes, we would have said oh..mamma's boy is following his mother's words ...
Well, right now also he is listening to his mamma's words naa ....😳
But Beta Birla will be trusting only after seeing proof..then this is not TRUST to me...if it needs proof to trust the partner. what will happen in future? if there i no proof, he will throw Ak again???
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