abhimaniyu is a great son but horrible husband

What exactly has Akshara done to deserve this behavior from her husband 5 days post marriage? Why is she writing sorry on his back in the precap? Why is she always the one to apologize even if she is not in the wrong? Why is she always the one running after him? She is legit the only one supporting him right now and seeing that he is hurting. She is the only one he has but she is the only one he is treating like shit. Let me tell you something. For her to continuously cry and beg him to talk to her and try to hug him and for him to push her off over and over again and show so much attitude is really detrimental to her sense of worth. She isn't showing it right now but in reality this would really kill a wife from the insides. No doubt that Manjari is the luckiest woman in the world to have a son like Abhimaniyu. That is very rare. Most kids would stop trying after they saw their mommy does not want help. But this man is something else. The problem is that he is so busy being an amazing son that he is being a horrible husband. In marriage you have to tackle issues together and side by side. But every time things get difficult Abhimaniyu shuts Akshara out. It feels like a very one sided marriage for now.

Yeah you are right. He never asks for her opinions in matters as if she isn't his better half. Why did he marry her if he wanted to treat her this horibbly? I get he is trying to solve his mother's issue but that doesn't mean you wont spend time with your wife or talk to her who is just newly married 5 days ago. She is bound to feel lonely and think of what mess of a family she has married into with everyday fights. It's like she is entered a place of shark tanks with her husband also ghosting her. Why did he marry her to give her this hell of a life? She was better off at goenkas.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Yeah you are right. He never asks for her opinions in matters as if she isn't his better half. Why did he marry her if he wanted to treat her this horibbly? I get he is trying to solve his mother's issue but that doesn't mean you wont spend time with your wife or talk to her who is just newly married 5 days ago. She is bound to feel lonely and think of what mess of a family she has married into with everyday fights. It's like she is entered a place of shark tanks with her husband also ghosting her. Why did he marry her to give her this hell of a life? She was better off at goenkas.

I read somewhere that abhira have a lot of depth . What exactly happened ? I thought they r trying to resolve the problem on their own ..😕

Baaki , there r 2 things....when it comes to manjari, abhimanyu can sideline akshu ...he is more hot headed than I believed ..he isn't the type of person who says chalo bhai chodo, lets move on ..he is too engrossed in this problem to pay attention to akshu..its unfortunate that when it comes to the spouse , they need proof ..like adalat laga lo and prove that your innocent , till that time ur guilty. It's their way of dragging the mu . Bec when the husband or wife understand the situation and trust each other , it will consist of only 1 scene ..mu will stretch to 10-15 or more epis and more trps.

another thing is, the more time he takes the more guilty he will feel, when he knows akshu is innocent . In other shows , there were tracks which lasted for 6 months to a year in which the mu lingered on .

You are right on so so many levels..i didn't like him rejecting her advances, she tries to hug him he turns her down, he is not ready to listen her side of the story, always jumoing to the conclusions... Initially i really really liked thw character of Abhimanyu he was like Abir from yrhpk just more passionate in love but now he is being a mama's boy which is not wrong but man atleast think about your wife too..She has been married to you for a week and since then not a single days has been there when she wasn't upset...She didn't get any warm welcome or appreciation, instead she got the news of her depratment getting ahut, her cooked food called chheee, then her husband getting angry at her the very next day,like seriously give her a break....i mean comeon its unbelievable that this is the same guy who was yearning for Akshra but now he doesn't even bat an eye on her...Makers are ruining abhimanyu..i just hope akshu shows some self respect and starts ignoring abhi the same way and starts calling him abhimanyu..and pls i hope that jhadoo witch gets bashed badly, bcz she gets an easy way always, i m sick of her whitewashing..and trust me thats the reason of trp downfall....trp increases when jhadoo gets exposed for her kands and abhira patchup but no makerd are giving us old age couple romance

Originally posted by: harshadishotttt

What exactly has Akshara done to deserve this behavior from her husband 5 days post marriage? Why is she writing sorry on his back in the precap? Why is she always the one to apologize even if she is not in the wrong? Why is she always the one running after him? She is legit the only one supporting him right now and seeing that he is hurting. She is the only one he has but she is the only one he is treating like shit. Let me tell you something. For her to continuously cry and beg him to talk to her and try to hug him and for him to push her off over and over again and show so much attitude is really detrimental to her sense of worth. She isn't showing it right now but in reality this would really kill a wife from the insides. No doubt that Manjari is the luckiest woman in the world to have a son like Abhimaniyu. That is very rare. Most kids would stop trying after they saw their mommy does not want help. But this man is something else. The problem is that he is so busy being an amazing son that he is being a horrible husband. In marriage you have to tackle issues together and side by side. But every time things get difficult Abhimaniyu shuts Akshara out. It feels like a very one sided marriage for now.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I read somewhere that abhira have a lot of depth . What exactly happened ? I thought they r trying to resolve the problem on their own ..😕

Baaki , there r 2 things....when it comes to manjari, abhimanyu can sideline akshu ...he is more hot headed than I believed ..he isn't the type of person who says chalo bhai chodo, lets move on ..he is too engrossed in this problem to pay attention to akshu..its unfortunate that when it comes to the spouse , they need proof ..like adalat laga lo and prove that your innocent , till that time ur guilty. It's their way of dragging the mu . Bec when the husband or wife understand the situation and trust each other , it will consist of only 1 scene ..mu will stretch to 10-15 or more epis and more trps.

another thing is, the more time he takes the more guilty he will feel, when he knows akshu is innocent . In other shows , there were tracks which lasted for 6 months to a year in which the mu lingered on .

Originally posted by: Vanavil25

I can understand your point of view... As an outsider if we watch it looks so weird that Akshara going behind him.. But within them it's OK.. Before Abhi was also behind her like this.. Today he only first went near to her... It's not like for one fight we will leave our husband that happens in other shows.. When Abhi comes to senses he will go beyond her more than this... Abhira will emerge more stronger... Now he is feeling that she is also against him that's why...

Originally posted by: chremma

You are right on so so many levels..i didn't like him rejecting her advances, she tries to hug him he turns her down, he is not ready to listen her side of the story, always jumoing to the conclusions... Initially i really really liked thw character of Abhimanyu he was like Abir from yrhpk just more passionate in love but now he is being a mama's boy which is not wrong but man atleast think about your wife too..She has been married to you for a week and since then not a single days has been there when she wasn't upset...She didn't get any warm welcome or appreciation, instead she got the news of her depratment getting ahut, her cooked food called chheee, then her husband getting angry at her the very next day,like seriously give her a break....i mean comeon its unbelievable that this is the same guy who was yearning for Akshra but now he doesn't even bat an eye on her...Makers are ruining abhimanyu..i just hope akshu shows some self respect and starts ignoring abhi the same way and starts calling him abhimanyu..and pls i hope that jhadoo witch gets bashed badly, bcz she gets an easy way always, i m sick of her whitewashing..and trust me thats the reason of trp downfall....trp increases when jhadoo gets exposed for her kands and abhira patchup but no makerd are giving us old age couple romance

Originally posted by: harshadishotttt

The problem with Abhimaniyu is that he never realizes how his actions impact Akshara. Even during the jija track, he never once apologized to Akshara for how he treated her. he will come out of this and they can emerge stronger, but what is going to happen the next time things get hard? No one can deny that this show is running in a cycle of something going wrong, Abhimaniyu blaming Akshara, Akshara chasing after him, and repeat. This is just a ticking time bomb before Akshara breaks. She is also a human being. She is not his punching bag.

True their relation is toxic on so many levels because akshara is not allowed to make mistakes. The reason he fell for akshara is that he wanted someone to love him like crazy. Such men expect women to constantly do pati jaap and care for them like crazy but they can't do the same. Healthy relationships ain't built like that when you expect other person to love you like crazy. Relationships are built when you see people as humans.