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Originally posted by: Neethumaneet

Manju is like. Ak thumhari vaje se my Abhi had to take this hard decision otherwise my beta won't do this like these. Mere bache ko tu ne batkaya hai

Originally posted by: tptwi

I am sorry but that scene was so so so disrespectful of him. Not that he refused the kiss, but the way he showed his hand and rolled her off. I totally understand his pain and my heart shattered for Abhi today during the living room scene. But, this is not the way to treat your wife.

If he allowed her to him then it would be like using her na for physical satisfaction. I think he respected her that way.

Originally posted by: Neethumaneet

If he allowed her to him then it would be like using her na for physical satisfaction. I think he respected her that way.

I agree. Not done. I hated it too.
You don’t withhold hugs and kisses no matter how mad you are with your spouse.

Originally posted by: tptwi

I am sorry but that scene was so so so disrespectful of him. Not that he refused the kiss, but the way he showed his hand and rolled her off. I totally understand his pain and my heart shattered for Abhi today during the living room scene. But, this is not the way to treat your wife.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Like I said, it is not about him refusing the kiss. It is about the way he showed his hand and rolled her off. It was very dehumanizing. No one should be treated in that way, and that scene really rubbed me the wrong way. I can understand all of his emotions, but the way he is treating Akshu as a result of them right now is super unfair and painful.

This I agree with u. He should Atleast hear her side of story.

When he know the truth I want him to ask sorry from AK that too with crying on his knees. He would have to hear her out first. She need to took promise from Abhi that whatever happens in future he will always hear her side without any interruption and with open mind.

Originally posted by: IAMHope

I agree. Not done. I hated it too.
You don’t withhold hugs and kisses no matter how mad you are with your spouse.

Originally posted by: Neethumaneet

This I agree with u. He should Atleast hear her side of story.

When he know the truth I want him to ask sorry from AK that too with crying on his knees. He would have to hear her out first. She need to took promise from Abhi that whatever happens in future he will always hear her side without any interruption and with open mind.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Mahima blasts Akshu for not calling the Birlas about Neil. Akshu says she is misunderstanding and she came running to try to get Neil back. Her only priority was to bring Neil home and she was also under a lot of stress. Manish wants to say something to defend Akshu, but Swana diffuses the situation.

Abhi tells them Neil doesn’t want to come back and asks if he can stay here. Kairav supports Abhi and says he is family. As shitty as the Goenkas are, they do come through for the Birlas time and time again no matter how nasty the Birlas are to them.

Harsh is thinking about his reputation and Anand says the only way to fix this is for Harsh to apologize to Manjari — I guess Anand thinks that Abhi might fall for this too. Do they even know Abhi?

The media is outside when Abhira and Mahima get back. Akshu is about to trip on her way inside, but Abhi saves her without even looking at her. He knows that if he looks at her, he will melt.

Abhi tells Manjari that Neil will come back soon. Parth accuses Shef of leaking this to the media — literally he is a horrible husband!

Harsh fakes his apology to Manjari and Manjari gets so scared and shocked, as does Abhi. HC’s and Ami deserve all of the awards in the world for this scene. Their expressions were incredible. The way in which they are both respectively traumatized by Harsh, the abuser, was so real in this moment. Abhi looks like he is in so much pain…. And he keeps looking at Manjari’s reaction. This is exactly why I can never blame him for how attached he is to his mother. He grew up protecting her, witnessing her abuse… more than parents, children are impacted through this.

Abhi starts laughing and says that he knows what Harsh is doing. What exactly is he apologizing for? He has done so much damage to Manjari. Again, this scene was so real. It shattered my heart into 10000 pieces.

Harsh says he doesn’t know the full story, which makes me think there might be more, or he is just being dramatic. Harsh again says this is between husband and wife, but relationships cannot be separated. Manjari is Abhi’s mom, and no one has been more impacted by their abusive relationship than Abhi. That is the sad reality.

Abhi goes and tells the media that Neil is Harsh’s kid and his brother. He denies all other questions. The music in this scene was from a horror film and troll worthy.

Manjari gives another death stare to Akshu. Pathetic.

Manish is talking to Swarna at night worried for Akshu and how no one would have even tried to see if she is actually did what she is being accused of. Redemption after yesterday, but it doesn’t change the fact that the Goenaks are mute spectators and don’t question Aarohi. It’s easy for them to blame the Birlas, but they don’t defend Akshu either. Manish says that a day will come when he will go sunao the Birlas for how they treat Akshu. He hopes that Abhi supports her in this… the truth had to come out.

Akshu comes into the room, she trips and falls… she clings onto Abhi on the bed, and then hugs and back hugs them. Please do not call her a doormat or weak. She is simply trying to get her husband to talk to her. She did not apologize, and she did not even say anything. She just needs Abhi to see that she is with him…to calm down so that she can talk and say her truth.

Abhi is already melting. He makes a fist and doesn’t look at her. He cannot stay mad at her no matter what. And even in his anger, he does not disrespect her. This is huge progression from the accident track. He is already calming down and he will try to ignore her, but she will make sure he hears her out. The truth will come this time. I am sure of it.

In the precap, Akshu once again shows how well she knows her Abhi. She says that sometimes things are right in front of your eyes but there is more anger than love in that moment. She understands Abhi so well. She never doubts him and knows what he is going through. But, she needs him to hear her.

Manjari wants to do a havan for Neil and Abhi is going to help her set it up, but they arrive and Akshu is already doing it! This is Akshu’s strength. She will prove herself right as always!!

Harsh being harsh did drama as always but of course abhhi knows him too well to believe him, I am glad he called him out correctly, well done there.

He telling the truth to media was bravr move and much needed. My issue is neil staying with goenkas is arohi who will futher manipulate him , can it get more cliche than this.

Manju and abhi are victim of abuse and I completely agree to that how and wht they have gone thru nobody can even imagine. People mistreat their own coz as they take them for granted and its worse than being mistreated by outsider but aren't Manju and abhi doing the same to Akshu. They are right with regards to their abuse and conditioning which Harsh did to them and their actions and reactions are justified too. But then what manju is doing to akshu is also a form of abuse without even knowing the truth. The girl is new to the house and has not been given ounce of respect by anyone , I say anyone coz what manju did also was fake to me as the first opportunity she got she threw her under the bus.

why manju is given free pass for creating this kaand and why akshu is being question for bringing out the truth which she actually has not. Abhi is being protective that she don't trip and all but on the other hand his anger is so clouded that he is not even giving her a chance to speak. Where is this justified?

I dont agree with this , yes abhi will understand her tomorrow and bla bla bt what he has done today he need to realize how disrespectful it is for any one.

Originally posted by: tptwi

I actually loved today's episode. HC was really really incredible in that scene with Harsh. It was a really real depiction of how traumatized and scarred kids are watching their parent's abusive relationships.

I forwarded so much today…hardly heard all dialogues..yet easy to understand crux

harsh kabhi nahi sudhrega ..just like aarohi

Abhimanyu: anger will get the better out of him

Manjari: forever victim eyes when looking at everybody and flips to saas eyes when looking at akshu

Akshu: will keep forgiving folks who don’t deserve it