Akshara is victim of mental abuse and is in need of medical help! - Page 3

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Very well explained....I sincerely hope the makers go this way of exploring this mental harassment issue but I know this is not going to happen, just to create unnecessary drama...I really hope that atleast the goenkas realise their fault here, the way they have raised Arohi and unknowingly made Akshara suffer on the name of family...

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Posted: 3 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: pbv3434

U are right ..she has been tortured since childhood for the crime she has not even committed and now this has affected her mental health..i m hating makers for bringing this accident track right now..I m sure ak will not open her mouth because of her sister’s manipulation bt this all will spoil remaining ceremonies as she will be in huge guilt for hiding this from abhi..I m afraid of abhi’s reaction as he will definitely be heartbroken n might not even forgive her and sry bt his anger is justified..☹️

exactly!!!!agar vo Mandap mein bhi chhodta hai akshara ko to vo bhi justified hoga if she hides the truth,abhi should then leave her for good and just let her live with her aaru and further more wedding festivities poori spoil ho hi chuki hain
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: svpg

yes of course, some wounds take a lifetime to heal and especially physical and mental abuse by family is the worst of its kind.

My concern here is not what happens on a TV show really, it is what it is, My concern here is that when I read comments that Akshara should not hide from Abhi because Abhi loves her so much and she would be betraying him, I just want to make a point that when you are a victim of abuse, your actions don't make any sense. She loves him as much as he does, but from the time she has started to love him, every min she had to once again deal with the same abuser who has now got another weapon to abuse her.

In a husband and wife's relationship, many times this weapon is the child. Many times I would tell my friend you are so educated, get out of that relationship, stand on your own feet, every time it was a different excuse, sometimes love, sometimes kids, sometimes parents. Just that it takes a lot of strength from inside to free yourself from abuse, unfortunately.

One of my friends had bad relationship from start. Her hubby was about to abuse the toddler too . She beared the nonsense and given lakhs of money to please him from her parents. Later on learnt on her own that it's dangerous to.stay there.though her siblings guided she can't take strength instead went against them . That man manipulated her badly and avoided her whole family. The moment kid was in death threat she realised and came out of the clutches took hold of family's help and kicked him with divorce.now the daughter is working as manager in Google and she does not want any clue of her father from childhood. It's good if the victim comes out of it and holds the kids against society.orekse kids suffer along with mom. But for all these family support should be there throughout both financially and emotionally giving strength to victim.

For Ak she should stand for herself slowly and hold Abhis hand to realise her worth which he is showing it .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I myself is a victim of physical and mental abuse by my ex hubby... I too tolerated for 2 years.. but it was too much to tolerate when they tried to made me abort my baby... that's when I took extreme step with my parents help and legally divorced him and now she is 6 years old girl...


Emotional abuse is very dangerous... now am enough confident to share things openly if its helping others..

Sorry just vented it. With proper help and guidance anyone can come out of it slowly abs steadily....

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: amlavs

I myself is a victim of physical and mental abuse by my ex hubby... I too tolerated for 2 years.. but it was too much to tolerate when they tried to made me abort my baby... that's when I took extreme step with my parents help and legally divorced him and now she is 6 years old girl...


Emotional abuse is very dangerous... now am enough confident to share things openly if its helping others..

Sorry just vented it. With proper help and guidance anyone can come out of it slowly abs steadily....

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you took strength and gave your daughter good life Lavanya instead of making her another victim to him. Kudos to your parents. Sorry to hear that you had to bear much.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sshubh44sri

exactly!!!!agar vo Mandap mein bhi chhodta hai akshara ko to vo bhi justified hoga if she hides the truth,abhi should then leave her for good and just let her live with her aaru and further more wedding festivities poori spoil ho hi chuki hain

sry bt I don’t agree with u on this..nobody should be left like tht on thier wedding day..abhi’s anger is justified bt he should also listen what ak wants to say..😃

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

you took strength and gave your daughter good life Lavanya instead of making her another victim to him. Kudos to your parents. Sorry to hear that you had to bear much.

Thanks Meher.. there are many people who are still tolerating more abuses... it's a sensitive topic..and it should be handled well.. I ll be happy if here writers addresses it's in the right way... as many people are watching it as it may help anyone in any way...

I always feel bad for Manjari and the traumas face by abhira from childhood... No one should face abuses be it physical or mental and kids who witnessed it gosh.....as its spoils their future too...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: amlavs

Thanks Meher.. there are many people who are still tolerating more abuses... it's a sensitive topic..and it should be handled well.. I ll be happy if here writers addresses it's in the right way... as many people are watching it as it may help anyone in any way...

I always feel bad for Manjari and the traumas face by abhira from childhood... No one should face abuses be it physical or mental and kids who witnessed it gosh.....as its spoils their future too...

Manjari is a victim from years . We don't know what all Harsh did to emotionally blackmail Manjari to keep her in hold. And he has no feelings for her to reciprocate anytime. Abhi has seen much from.his childhood his father's deeds. So he always supports his mom but her strength is not sufficient to cope against Harsh.
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Manjari is a victim from years . We don't know what all Harsh did to emotionally blackmail Manjari to keep her in hold. And he has no feelings for her to reciprocate anytime. Abhi has seen much from.his childhood his father's deeds. So he always supports his mom but her strength is not sufficient to cope against Harsh.

Damn true... to fight against it takes guts... few thinks it's their fate and tolerate it... but there must be some push which have to be taken as strength and fight...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: amlavs

Damn true... to fight against it takes guts... few thinks it's their fate and tolerate it... but there must be some push which have to be taken as strength and fight...

Exactly. Some strong driving force is needed to counter them. Abhi is the one to pull Ak from Ar always. He can't do for his mom as she herself is struck and she doesn't want to come out of it in her blind love to Harsh. But atleast he can help Ak.

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