Originally posted by: DiamondLife
Thank you very much Deep for the explanation. I understand Abhi will guide her in her journey to become Shakti in various forms.
This AK is snail and will take time.But she is Pure and selfless in loving and her Bhavna is always to bring benefits to others..That is what attracts the GOD/Shiva.
BUT I as a viewer gets confused because now and then they preach AK is choti sherni..Her mother was sherni..So blood connection doesn't matter for sanskars??? I personally don't believe that sanskars get transform through blood connection. Soul has own eternal sanskars plus soul adopts sanskars from surroundings in the life journey and from previous births..And for Ak's case - a BIG NO to get sanskars from her parents as she never was with them to learn from them. So What I am asking right now is some basic smartness from AK as grown up girl/individual. Some common sense which she lacks compare to Aarohi in some scenarios. When Aarohi speaks, she can't encounter her even she is right. She can't put her thoughts clearly across even to her family. Few examples as I remember -
E.g. Date night ..she can't prioritize or convey her plan to the family. She even didn't inform Abhi about pooja at same time..this is GROSS confused state
She should inform her family about Aarohi taking drugs and driving (she lacks basic understanding of actions which can be life-threatening and which is not)
Fire incident..She should have opened her mouth when Aarohi was taking the credit. She put her life at risk to save him.
Asking one of the Birlas to cook food for them..even that is her future family..it's only tilak done. She needs to ask for everything before doing anything for them..that is called respect.
I am aware of AK's emotional turmoil because of Sirat's death but she can't put her needs also to family!!!
SO, my question is -
Were Sati and Parvati devi lacking some basic traits of common sense??😆
Bela first of all Abhi and Akshara are not exactly shivji or Parvati or Sati as such.. Then we neednt call them as Dr. Abhimanyu Birla and Akshara Goenka right.. The writers are just taking references from the mythological characters and interconnecting those concepts in a modernised version for a lay man's understanding..Its just references to understand the concept and making it a bit innovative..
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I think this doubt was clarified by Abhimanyu himself in the show..And this requisite clarification was directed for us the audience more than Bade Papa.. When Bade papa asks Akshara why didnt she open her mouth and tell every one what her feelings were or what she was thinking all along..during the confession fiasco... Abhimanyu replied that it was due to conditioning.. Akshara has been conditioned from a very younger stage.. to always keep family and its happiness beyond her own needs or wishes or happiness. We can see her again and again making herself understand that Arohis happiness is more important than her own.. which resulted in the whole fiasco.. She confessed cause she was pushed to the edge by Abhi.. Abhi made her to stand for herself for the first time in her life and fight for what gives her happiness and for what she deserves..
About communication gap.. In this show who isnt showing that trait.. its not only Akshara as such... Mimi didnt allow abhi to open his mouth wen he came with proposal to goenkas for the first time and resulted in tilak1 kaand.. Kaand maath didnt confirm who Abhi loves and it was her complete delusion.. whether in the court case against abhi or many such incidents.. which again resulted in misunderstandings.. Mahima who knew the whole issue and misunderstandings very well simply didnt convey to create more kaands intentionally for downgrading her sister. Abhi never ever tried to communicate directly or propose directly Akshara before bring the proposal home.. There too we can find communication issues..
Akshara is basically a person who wants to please everyone and keep everyone happy.. its her biggest strength and weakness as well.. its not that she lacks common sense there or was confused.. She thought that by the time Abhi arrives.. her pooja will be done and she can go along with him.. So when that didnt work as per the plans.. she tried to rectify and made the necessary arrangements for the date.. A person without common sense wouldnt know how to react spontaneously at the last minute.. She rectified her mistake for lack of communication with her sensible actions.
About Arohi's overdose..she tried to protect her since it was the first time ...she should have informed the elders though..No justification there.. But lack of basic understanding of consequences of one's action or deeds especially that point is more valid for Arohi rather than Akshara..Arohi was the one who overdosed herself and put her, akshara's and even pedestrian life to danger.. Akshara tried to protect and prevent a mishap happening though we dont know how far she was successful in her feat. Here too her common sense worked by atleast trying to prevent a mishap happening..
Fire incident part.. as far as Akshara was concerned.. she saved Abhi..Problem solved... Karm karo..phal ki iccha na karo.. She followed that gyan from Bhagawat Geeta stated by Sri Krishna.. She doesnt like taking the credit.. Moreover, Arohi had already lied concerning it.. her love for Arohi is far far more than a mere credit.. and she didnt want to humiliate Arohi publicly.. though she talked to Arohi in private later and made her understand the consequences of actions if revealed.. So she had warned arohi before hand itself..
Coming to delivering food to Birla home.. Normally when a guest comes we make tea or coffee or any drink and serve them with some snacks.. We never ask the guest do u need coffee or some food??? If Im asked i will always decline politely cause I dont like to trouble somebody.. Similarly wen our relative face a problem.. we do go and meet them with all forms of eatables and help the family to get through the phase giving them courage.. That is called kindness.. Similarly Akshara tried to help Birlas with that intention.. And especially with the characteristics of Akshara.. she is never a person to wait for a person in trouble to come and ask her for help.. She does it spontaneously to anybody.. So to birlas too she did.. Though It wasnt appreciated by Mahima due to her pride and ego.. Atleast the male Birlas were very happy to receive it..
Coming to lacking common sense by mythological characters.. We get to learn all sorts of lessons from them.. Why did Sati lose her life?? Does taking your own life by committing suicide portrays common sense??? Do any person go to a function uninvited??? If you do so.. then there are consequences of that.. Did she listen to Shivji who tried to prevent her and the consequences?? Though Sati loved Shivji immensely, she lacked basic maturity and the sensibility to uphold a relationship.. Due to her attachments and bondages with her family.. she was humiliated and couldnt face shivji again and ended with taking away her life.. Agreed she had to face humiliation due to her mistake.. but did she think how would shivji live without her?? Did she consider the pain that shivji had to undergo due to her senseless actions..
Parvati: Parvati too had to undergo 108 births to achieve her love Shivji and in the meantime.. Shivji had to wait all along enduring all the pain watching the reincarnation and death of his beloved.. She had to undergo severe penance to let go her mortal bondages,, her limitations that comes along.. understand her true self..and over severe training under the mentor and guru Shivji.. she attained her power, shakti and even shivji himself.. She was not perfect from the time she was born. Might have committed n number of mistakes. With regular practice, training , guidance from a well learned guru, she achieved her dreams..
Still there are instance where we can see mishaps in their lives too.. Take the example of her son Ganesh.. Shivji being a wanderer and meditator was out of kailash for sometime..and on his return didnt know that they have a mutual son Ganesh.. Ganesh who was protecting the entrance of his home ended up getting beheaded due to his arrogance and lack of respect to elders. There is a communication misunderstandings too.. And Shivji lacked the basic common sense in a way for not being sensible and fighting with a child.. and Parvati not communicating properly to her husband resulted in dire consequences..
So basically we need to understand and learn from such stories..
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