Originally posted by: Iforum435
Thank you Hari for wonderful analysis and for the tag. Sorry am here later than usual and I haven’t even watched the whole episode, have just watched bits and pieces here and there. (My son is very being very fussy and needs TLC from mommy) But based on whatever I have seen and the reviews here, I feel they are playing the scenario that abhi and ak were discussing when abhi had climbed ak balcony..
Ak: “agar kisi din hamara sach mein jhagada huva toh Kya hoga”
abhi : “pata nahi. Mein bahut try karta hu gussa naa karu par control nahi ho pata and mere andar tandav hone lagta hai. Darr ta hu kuch aisa naa kardu ke baad mein sirf afsos rahe”
Ak hugging abhi: “ aisa kuch nahi hoga”
I feel abhi in his anger will say/do something to hurt her and then regret it badly. But Ak will show understanding and love and will not let their relationship shake. And that will be one step in clearing this mu and his insecurities.
Regarding abhi-ak conversation: already a lot has been said so I will try not to repeat same points.
It’s like ak was telling abhi the other day, “hame khoob Batein karni chahiye taaki hum ek doosre ko jyada se jyada samaj sake”. They really need to do that. I think abhi is but more smarter than ak in reading her, sensing her moods and understanding her needs without her voicing it. He always knows if something might worry her or trigger her panic attacks and he is always ready with his support to hold her and comfort her. He even knew that she loved him even while she was constantly rejecting him. But ak needs to buck up in that department. Today, pain and hurt and insecurity were clearly written on the guys face in bold letters but she completely missed it. And started her family Jaap which was like rubbing salt on his wounds.
Also, I feel abhi has always been more vocal about his love for her. Even during confession, he went on and on about how he feels that destiny has brought them together (hum mile nahi hain hame milaya gaya hain) and how their rishta is atoot and all. Ak basically admitted and said, “I love you abhi”, then tried to apologize (which abhi didn’t let her 🙄) and then started “mujhe aaru se baat karni hogi” and “ghar jaate hain aur family ko manaate hain”. Abhi is always trying to find excuses to meet her and constantly saying things like, “tumse door jaane ke khayal se tadap jaata hu”, “tum mere dil ki malkin ho”, “mera dil tumhare liye dhadakta hain”. As far as I can remember, the only time ak expressed her immense love for him was in fire incident when he was unconscious 🙄. Arrey even when abhi was like ,” me tumhare saare sapne poora karu ha”,
Ak brought family in between saying ,”mera ek hi sapna hai- family photo ka” 🤦♀️ 🙄🤣. Not saying that she doesn’t love him enough but she has to show all that to him. In abhi’s language, “agar pyaar karte ho toh jatau batau “ . All this plus her history of aaru jaap and family jaap- no wonder the guy is so unsure of his standing along with her family.
ak is yet to realize that abhi is so deeply hurt and is so insecure that a hug is not gonna work. But I have full faith in ak, she may be naive sometimes but she surely has a golden heart filled with lots of love for abhi. She will surely make it up to him and that might be the shiv and Parvati Milan on maha shivratri.
Sorry for the looooong post.
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