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Posted: 4 years ago
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Kaira is nowhere responsible for other's mistake offcourse. And other characters do make mistakes . But the difference is that kaira neither realise there mistakes nor acknowledge them . Naksh acknowledge and apologized for his wrong decision of divorce . I m sure makers will gonna make gayu apologize too once the truth will be out . But kaira will never be seen apologizing or realising mistakes!!

At present kaira took a decision of leaving Goenka house is only beneficial to repair naira- kairav bond there is absolutely no effect on Goenka house condition . But later on they will show as if they sacrificed by leaving Goenka house for other's sake . Till now not even once they are seen missing there family , on the other hand it is a headache for them to vedio call there family🤣. On the other hand everyone is mourning there departure as if they are dead. So where is the mahanta they talk about. I m sure after naira kairav pchup they will gonna have a ram sita back to there Ayodhya type of thing .

Ps: If you will ever meet a person like Naira in real life you will be annoyed like hell.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Well, hon. Just like you're free to defend Kaira, say that writers butchered them, & rant so aggressively about other characters/people's preferences.. Others are allowed to defend supporting characters, say that writers butchered them, & dislike Naira Maata & Kartik Pita Ji.


If you have an issue digesting other people's opinions, you're free to move to Twitter/Instagram where the fandom has a meltdown everytime Kartik Pita Ji touches Naira Maata's chin.. And curse supporting characters like they're the devil incarnate.

Edited by usernameyrkkh - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Well said and well written. I have seen on Instagram people and their fandoms are very biased trying to defend their leads even when they were at fault in the past. Anyways I'm happy people are not biased over here 🙂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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There were Kaira fans over here especially during the naira's memory loss track who were bashing Keesh saying that they are a selfish couple why just because they came and asked for their own baby how stupid these people are seriously. If Kaira would have been in Keesh place they would have also reacted the same way and demanded their baby.

Edited by mahaan18 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahaan18

If Kaira would have been in Keesh place they would have also reacted the same way and demanded their baby.

that’s what.
also, I remember this scene during shivratri/naira memory loss when an infant Krish was unconscious in temple and Naira had him. Keerti was pleading with her to let them take Krish to hospital- a mother pleading for her child in an emergency! And Naira’s not even sparing a glance, let alone give Krish to his mother to take him to a doctor. She was using her emotional dialogues. 🤦🏻‍♀️

It irks me to no end. Like give the baby to the mother, woman, or take him to the doctor!

Cut to a recent scene where Akshu was unconscious and how frantic Naira was- a mother’s reaction. Now in that time if Keerti or someone else takes Akshu and doesnt give her back or keeps saying dialogues instead of taking action like going to a doctor, how badly will the character be bashed.

And this is just one example.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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@OP - the thing is Kaira are never held accountable for their actions or they dont even acknowledge it.

Whereas all other characters are made to realize their errors and they seek forgiveness.

Also I feel that some audience have evolved and are not in the I-support-only-leads phase. Some people can see beyond their favs and relate/sympathize or at least understand where a supporting character is coming from.
Which I think is great coz more often than not, these discussion forums become fan forums where we have to keep praising ML/FL.

In fact Yeh Rishta is one of the very very few forums where you get to see diff viewpoints. Baki toh is only lead worshipping by fans.

Also Gayu will do her paschyatap soon. Kaira after dealing with Kairav will focus on that. 1st Naira will probably teach Ridhima how to do her job.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Exactly well said everything up to the point.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Tomorrow even if Kaira murders someone from the family for that also these makers will show Kaira justifying themselves in a proper way, how mahaan they are they have not done it intentionally they were trapped in a situation.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahaan18

Tomorrow even if Kaira murders someone from the family for that also these makers will show Kaira justifying themselves in a proper way, how mahaan they are they have not done it intentionally they were trapped in a situation.


Haha exactly, I can already picture it 😂


Naira as a warrior Devi who has finally stopped crying after 15 episodes. Lion roars & sanskrit mantra in the background. Kartik, the param bhakt who finally realised that he was wrong all along. Holding Naira's one hand & one shoulder. Together murdering the rakshas who invited his own death 🤣

Posted: 4 years ago
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Love love love the replies to this post! 👏


Pretty much everyone's said what I was thinking about Kaira when I first read the original post. Them getting preferential treatment by the writers, them never realizing or acknowledging or fixing their mistakes, and them not having any progress at all. They take one step forward and then one-hundred steps backward.


Just one thing I'd like to point out.


Originally posted by: notyourbarbie

5 years and Gayu didn't realize that Samarth is a jerk? Is Gayu that dumb? If she is that dumb, what does Naira have to do with it? It is only Gayu's fault. I know what emotional abuse is. That is why I asked why doesn't Gayu divorce Samarth. You are the one who justifies her act of still staying with Samarth.


@Bold: The fact that you put these two sentences together one after another proves that you have no idea what domestic/emotional abuse is. I bet you're the kind of person who asks women in abusive relationships that why didn't they just leave....


Let me give you a glimpse into what emotional abuse, gaslighting, and guilt-tripping looks like. The abuser makes claims that the victim is reading too much into a distressing situation, that they are over-reacting, and they are looking from the wrong point of view. The end result is that the victim ends up believing that their pain, discomfort, and unhappiness is their own doing instead of the abuser's. This traps them in a cycle of abuse where the perpetrator keeps manipulating them and the victim finds no escape. Either they internalize the abuse or one day, it all explodes in the way we saw Gayu's outburst.


I live in the US and even here, where women living alone and working independently is a norm, where married couples usually don't live with nosy parents (or in-laws), women who are trapped in an emotionally abusive marraige have a very hard time leaving. They need lots of help from their friends, from counselors and therapists, and sometimes even the police before they find the courage to leave. Then can you imagine how difficult it is for Gayu to leave? She is not financially independent, she does not have another home other than Goenka Villa and Singhania Sadan, and her only close family are the people that will most likely stop her from leaving and will urge her to compromise with Samarth because divorce is a no-no. She has no close friends who would be in her corner, no access to therapists or counselors, and no means to fight such a long battle of divorce/custody against the powerful rich Goenkas. You might say that she can take Naksh's help, but do you really think he (or any other Singhania member) would unequivocally support her to leave that toxic household? The Singhanias (and even Rama Dadi if she is around) are likely to encourage her to adjust, compromise, and apologize and just continue living there.


If getting out of an abusive relationship were as easy as you put it, then we would not have such a huge problem of women (and men) staying trapped in abusive relationships and requiring years of therapy to build any form of self-confidence and independence. I've only scratched the surface here. Do some proper research about domestic/emotional/verbal abuse and its long-lasting effects on victims before you pass any judgments about people who choose to stay in an abusive relationship (either fictional or real).

Edited by Aditii - 4 years ago

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