Honestly from what I have seen, I don't blame Gayu for being resentful. After Naira came back, it is undeniable that Gayu did get sidelined a bit (maybe it's natural, since Naira had been sidelined for quite some time, but can understand why Gayu hurt). To some extent this has occurred with Naksh to some extent as well. Remember, when he was upset with Kirthi (understandably so), Bhabhima told him to forgive her because a lot of other relationships are at stake as well (Not just Naira's, I admit). Like tf what kind of crappy advice is that?
The thing is, what Gayu said did have some truth to it. The Goenkas are partial to Kairav. Instead of acknowledging her concerns, Kaira's and the rest of the family'a dialogues and expressions made it seem like Gayu's claims are ludicrous. Honestly I totally understand where Gayu is coming from. However, I am upset with her character because she should just leave the Goenka house and live independently, so that she can protect her kids from the toxicity that is the Goenka parivaar.
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