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Posted: 7 years ago
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WHY is to SO difficult for precious Goenka to say this one line? If he has so much love, pain and hurt in his heart, if he doesn't want others to rule his life, if he wants to keep Naira with him, if he thinks he won't be able to live without her, WHY CAN'T HE, LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING, have a decent conversation with Naira..or their elders?
WHY??

Their family members are not stopping them from communicating, except for Snakema. So, why??

I'm asking only for Kartik, because everyone here seems to be of opinion that he is in pain.. nobody listens to him , everyone takes decisions for him.. well WHY does he let that happen? WHO stopped him from using his brain?


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Posted: 7 years ago
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That is the million dollar question!!!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mauli09

That is the million dollar question!!!


Toh tu answer leke aa🥱
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: vellainsaan


Toh tu answer leke aa🥱


Na mere pass answer hai, na million dollars 😆
At this point, i am okay if we get one episode with nothing but Kartik thinking out loud about what he wants and where exactly is the issue. Just 20 min of monologue.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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He has a big male ego. He wants Naira to do all the effort.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose2015

He has a big male ego. He wants Naira to do all the effort.


But ego toh Naira ka tha na 😆

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Don't forget Vella; its all about his hurt and his pain and his heartbreak
*sarcasm starts*
Naira wants divorce; she has moved on right so she doesnt care...but he bechara baccha is just doing what Naira wants; she left him; he innocent little child did nothing at all to deserve this *sarcasm ends*

Gaaahhh, WHY Kittu WHY; Why you gotta be this way?

The only way they will talk is if they get stuck in an elevator together BUT even then knowing them they will fight for the entire time and nothing will be solved.

Maybe that is what the CVs want to show -- maybe they are too childish to show any maturity. I mean people do everything they can to save their relationship and here one is divorcing without talking to the other (because not talking and not sharing has got her far in life) and the other is arguing, fighting, walking around hurt as if he innocent child had nothing to do with any of this. Naira woke up one morning and walked away.

SERIOUSLY! Yeh kya hai?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Let me look at this from a fair point of view
Naira never told him she had an accident
Naira did try and explain to him
Kartik drank his pain away
Kartik never listened to her
Naira still doesnt let him know why she wants a divorce
Kartik just heard the tale end assumed she doesnt want to be tied to him any more and carries on

On both ends there is no communication...

The whole reason for their separation is lame and doesnt make sense
Like how did keerti never open her mouth about naira accident to kartik...or how did manish many business associates who can inform him of the many times kartik ended up in hospital not inform him naira was in one back then
He knows the truth now but rather than communicating with her he sees no wrong in anything he did
but is angry she wants to leave him as if he treated her like gold and this decision for a divorce is some random one

But basically kaira never communicated/ lack trust so their relationship is killed by this...misunderstandings grow one after the other...killing the sweetness of their love...
To some extent i dont understand how they can come as one...Kartik can buy some flowers and dance a few times and ask for naira to come back to him but what then? How would she know he changed and he trusts her...I feel like this milan wont happen anytime soon until he atleast shows some form of trust in her


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose2015

He has a big male ego. He wants Naira to do all the effort.


I never saw Kartik as someone who had that male ego. But in this track, it's all that I see in Kartik. He can ruin himself, his life but nooo can never try to mend things or initiate himself to make things better. That's my main problem with him.

And I know miscommunication is from both sides. But does Kartik even let Naira communicate properly even a bit? Even in divorce thing, she atleast dropped a message which he willingly deleted. I know that message didn't have any reason as such but it could lead to some communication right?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnyaRSingh

Let me look at this from a fair point of view

Naira never told him she had an accident
Naira did try and explain to him
Kartik drank his pain away
Kartik never listened to her
Naira still doesnt let him know why she wants a divorce
Kartik just heard the tale end assumed she doesnt want to be tied to him any more and carries on

On both ends there is no communication...

The whole reason for their separation is lame and doesnt make sense
Like how did keerti never open her mouth about naira accident to kartik...or how did manish many business associates who can inform him of the many times kartik ended up in hospital not inform him naira was in one back then
He knows the truth now but rather than communicating with her he sees no wrong in anything he did
but is angry she wants to leave him as if he treated her like gold and this decision for a divorce is some random one

But basically kaira never communicated/ lack trust so their relationship is killed by this...misunderstandings grow one after the other...killing the sweetness of their love...
To some extent i dont understand how they can come as one...Kartik can buy some flowers and dance a few times and ask for naira to come back to him but what then? How would she know he changed and he trusts her...I feel like this milan wont happen anytime soon until he atleast shows some form of trust in her



@bold: Exactly. How can they suddenly develop that immense trust they had for each other? If Kaira Vivah was to happen on An-Man wedding day, then it'll either be some clock defying day, or too rushed. Also, lack of trust is mainly from his side, her.. she still trusts him, she understands his love for his family. She just doesn't think that he loves her - I don't blame her one bit for that lack of understanding because the guy has been making it very clear with his words how much he hates and despises her. And please don't tell me about how he cries in a corner which proves that he loves her. She doesn't see them, so how will she know? 😕
He doesn't trust her one bit. Toh abhi suddenly half a day mein trust kaise aa jayega?

The worst thing possible will be, them taking pheras for the sake of family.. to maintain their image of perfect couple in front of the family and fighting in private 😆

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