Akshara did wrong - Page 3

Sorry but did i miss something???? Did Akshara not reach Gayu's exhibion did she she not walk the ramp???

Originally posted by: divyasn

I dont have any complaints for Naira , she also asked Akshara to go with Gayu . If Akshara cant give 100 % to Gayu , why you agreed to be her show stopper , Gayu herself told that she will find someone else , but did Akshara listen no ..

Whichever way, Gayu would have blame Akshara as she feels let down. I don't think anyone elee would have been able to handle the broken chain situation better than Akshara and still carry on walking the ramp.

Rather than coming 3rd, Gayu would have been disqualified, for her own mistake.. She had time to fix it but she choose to panic and blame Akshara instead.

As a mum, Akshara did her best today. Like someone said, its was her mother's instincts that made her felt she had to ger Naira ready.. Remember, one of the wedding's function when she got Naira ready.. Although it was Naira's idea because of Chandu, but she still couldnt believe how beautiful she was looking when she look at the mirror.

Akshara has always prove to be a good mum and she is teaching us how to be one too

Originally posted by: rose2015

Your expectations are unrealistic. As a mom one day you will be faced with the situation of having to be two places at the same time meeting more than one persons needs then only you will understand.
There is really no point in commenting on this non issue any further.

Originally posted by: shahz

Sorry but did i miss something???? Did Akshara not reach Gayu's exhibion did she she not walk the ramp???

I guess you are right Akshara should have told miss perfect to find another model so what if her cribbing would have gotten a notch higher.. Akshara doesn't care about me blah blah blah... Naira can have many faults but one thing she isn't and that is a fake.

I wish Gayu would stop her Akshara's parchaiy natak and just show what's in her heart.

Her "Nairya' performance is more important" line made me want to chuck my remote at her.

My mom always says the people who show something but have something completely different in their hearts are the most dangerous. That's why this Gayu's facade of being choti Akshara all responsible understanding is going to cost everyone.

And just to point out... I'm a mother of 4 and have been in the same situation as Akshara many times and I have done exactly the same. I have been successful and unsuccessful at times but that does not give my children the right to crib and mashah allah they never did and they are way younger than Gayu.

Maybe instead of asking if Gayu was Aksharas own daughter for once we ask if Akshara was Gayu's own mother and Naira was her own sister would Gayu still behave like this.

And yes Gayu has a family who were all there for her so it would be nice if she appreciates them even Akshara's parents.

I know I'm just wasting my time but as a mother who goes through these sort dilemma ...I feel offended to see a mother who is giving her all to support both her child being criticised like this.

Originally posted by: shahz

Sorry but did i miss something???? Did Akshara not reach Gayu's exhibion did she she not walk the ramp???

I guess you are right Akshara should have told miss perfect to find another model so what if her cribbing would have gotten a notch higher.. Akshara doesn't care about me blah blah blah... Naira can have many faults but one thing she isn't and that is a fake.

I wish Gayu would stop her Akshara's parchaiy natak and just show what's in her heart.

Her "Nairya' performance is more important" line made me want to chuck my remote at her.

My mom always says the people who show something but have something completely different in their hearts are the most dangerous. That's why this Gayu's facade of being choti Akshara all responsible understanding is going to cost everyone.

And just to point out... I'm a mother of 4 and have been in the same situation as Akshara many times and I have done exactly the same. I have been successful and unsuccessful at times but that does not give my children the right to crib and mashah allah they never did and they are way younger than Gayu.

Maybe instead of asking if Gayu was Aksharas own daughter for once we ask if Akshara was Gayu's own mother and Naira was her own sister would Gayu still behave like this.

And yes Gayu has a family who were all there for her so it would be nice if she appreciates them even Akshara's parents.

I know I'm just wasting my time but as a mother who goes through these sort dilemma ...I feel offended to see a mother who is giving her all to support both her child being criticised like this.

Originally posted by: divyasn

That is because all 4 are your own children - suppose if your motherless niece is dependent on you , and if it is between your children and her -her insecurities are to be understood and not mocked upon - her insecurities are stemming from the very fact that she is not your daughter ...

Originally posted by: shahz

So basically you are saying as Gayu is Aksharas motherless niece she should get special treatment?? But Akshara treats Gayu as her own not a motherless child who she is throwing pitty affection on.

Seems like both you and Gayu have the same expectations... Gayu should get extra special treatment and Akshara's sole attention... Self centred much???

By the way I love my nieces as much as I love my own children and would do as much as i would do for my own if they needed me..but I don't throw pitty affection it all comes from the heart and for the heart all children are equal.

Tell me one thing Gayu did without messing up and has she ever been blamed for her countless mess ups instead everyone supports her and fixes her mess. But it doesn't take Gayu a second to play the blame game. Now this is what I call self-centered. Rose could have turned around said Gayu is not organising the wedding with full dedication and she would have not been wrong. But she didn't and instead stood by her then why is Aksharas so called parchaiy not have even a bit of understanding.

Gayu is those who would see a glass half empty... She won't see Akshara's die hard try to be there for her.. For her that didn't matter all that mattered was that Akshara was there for Naira her own daughter.And in my opinion if she was really as understanding and pure at heart she would appreciate Akshara for doing so much for her even though she isn't her real mother.

And if Gayu was tense then Akshara wasn't sitting relaxed anywhere either.. And Gayu tho is good at only this crying and freaking out.

Originally posted by: divyasn

you are contradicting yourself .. .i thought u have little maturity as u claim to be a mother of 4 children - but ur repeated personal comments show otherwise ... it is common sense to notice that Naira is Akshara's priority ...

I never justified Gayu's mistakes - did I - Gayu doing mistakes doesnt make whatever Akshara doing right

And the bold part - u should read again - there is the difference - u are saying Gayu should appreciate whatever Akshara is doing for her ... is that Akshara's charity ? if u love all children equally this statement wouldnt have come from u ...

The truth is that moms are moms - aunts are aunts ...

I agree Akshara was at fault. Akshara could have delegated the work of stitching the dupatta to somebody and she should have been in a place where she was needed most to fix the necklace as she was the show stopper. What if they had rejected Gayu due to Akshara's negligence? Anybody in Gayu's place would have thought the same about Akshara

Akshara become show stopper of Gayu's exhibition as the timings of both naira & gayu were diferent, last moment Gayu was informed that the exhibition took place earlier due to some reasons, How can We blame Ak for either Gayu or Naira's exhibitons, I think both the girls need Ak equally & Ak even tried to be there for both on time, but the circumstances a little bit different, Some people can't see pain & tension in Ak's eyes for both & want both her daughters to be successful & on top, Blaming Ak for Gayu's for me is ridiculous, How can one forget if gayu need Ak then Naira too need Ak straight way or another,Ek maa dod -2 ker dono betiyon ke liye mehnat ker rahi hain, nahin dikhai diya yeh sab,