DOTW : 8th July, 12 - Have WE changed our mindset? - Page 4

Originally posted by: moonlight08

Originally posted by: moonlight08

i wonder why can;t there be an option to like a post twice and thrice?😕

bang on Vertikka..👍🏼 i so agree with whatever you said here..😊

😳😳😳

Dun my expressions speak volumes?!😆😆

my replies in red..😊

My replies in blue.😛

U spoke my mind Di!😃

but still in chiki's case I think her behavior is justified..👍🏼

Di, her behaviour WAS justified initially. Ab the way she's behaving is unreasonable.

Gayatri is acting too cranky now. Once the Singhanias (excluding her, of course) have decided to look after Chikki till they find out about her whereabouts, G3 need not behave so coldly towards the lil girl.😕

I always find her reactions too extreme. Galti se ball kya lag gyi guests ko, madam shuru ho gayi. ''I can't tolerate this girl in my house anymore, BM".🤢 And the other day, jab Naksh ro raha tha par Chikki ke faces banane pe hasne laga toh what tough looks G3 gave her.😡 Come on, that's not the way people of her age behave.🤢 I am sorry but G3 needs to grow up.😡

common now no normal person on earth will allow any random stranger to come n stay in their home specially looking at today's scenario.. (as hum kuch bhi accha karne jate hai log uska galat matlab hi nilakte hai) 😕 what if tomm chiki also turns up like mamaji's chorni daughter?? 😆 U never know so giving that much liberty all at ones is also not safe.. moreover no matter how much sympathize u get wid her but somewhere in ur heart u're afraid as to what could be her background?? 🤔 So best option is always taking help of police which naitik n g3 did.. unlike akshi jo sidha usse ghar hi le lai.. dumb girl

@bold: Bang on Di. Completely agree. In reality, nobody would bring a stranger home like this, no matter what.😲

Nevertheless, if this kind of a hypothetical situation does arise, I don't think any 'normal' human being would be as rude and indifferent to the stranger as G3 was, in fact is.👎🏼

According to me, Naitik's reaction was the most believable. He was a lil apprehensive about the entire thing initially, nonetheless, tried to understand Akshi's dilemma/perspective, informed the police and is awaiting their response now.⭐️

2) As per now i think chikki belong to some orphanage n hence her behavior eagerly crave for love n family..😕 But if u highlight real scenario "Duniya bahut jyada zalim hai" at times I feel we're really blessed to be surrounded by our near n dear ones.. coz looking at the current sour fact of our so called educated society I get goose bump wondering kaise kaise insane log hote hai duniya mein ?? 😲 I mean its completely thrilling to know what all people do these days especially lower class of our society' n worst if its a girl.. It keep amuse me to the core whenever I come across any such articles or related news..🤢 n if at all u're comparing g3 wid them then she can definitely be referred as angelic soul..😃🤣

@bold: G3 would be walking on air if she reads this.🤣

Bhagwan na kare mera kabhi aise 'angelic souls' se paala pade.🤣

3) in show u may see the change but in reality its very difficult to change a stringent mentality of a person who posses it especially orthodox ppl.. hum kisiki soch nahi badal sakte hai yeaahh we may persuade them for time being but cant change it completely as they will get back to square one n their original trail one day (just my opinion) '😉

Couldn't agree more Di.😃

4) to be frank Bma is as good as Maharaji..😃🤣 thanks to cvs they didn't explore her character as per the original script..🥱

She's a useless character.🤢

At least Maharaj Ji achhe achhe pakwan toh banate hain. Ye toh kisi kaam ki nai hai.😆 Oops...actually hai.

She's DJ's messenger...har jagah batati firti hai ki DJ kya sochta hai.🤪🤣

Coming back to DJ well compare to erstwhile DJ i think it's a completely change in this character ever since its been replaced wid new n improved version.. infact these days i look forward for his character in the show as I use to do with dadi (vinitaji ) earlier..👍🏼 its really commendable whenever he gives GOOD piece of mind to Jaleli everytime she tends to suppress n offend akshi.. 👏 his love for kids (ananya, duggu n even chiki ) had increased beyond my imagination.. he appreciated akshi's efforts n agreed for her book launch.. hez more open to new ideas n support naitik to explore new ideas in business' he let akshi to name her own son n the most shocking was wen he agreed for wearing western cloths which akshi bought during picnic'😲😆 hats off to him I'm loving this sudden change in his character..😎

Log toh gaaon jaakar aur backward ho jaate hain. Hamara DJ toh ajooba nikla.😲😆

He has turned into a smiling, understanding, prudent, liberal, levelheaded, broad-minded man ever since he has returned from his village. 😲😆 Wonder what Baisa fed him there.😆 😆

5) Well its quite natural even when 2 ppl doesn't thinks alike their tuning comes automatically with time.. 😉 all that matters is the way we make each other understand n thinks from each others perspectives... then generation gap is not the problem I think..😛 same is the case wid my father in law n me.. we both share close bonding of our respective ideology n at the same time respect each others thinking n hence we always like to consult each other before taking any decision.. so EFFORTS from both side can lead to such example very frequently..😃

It's good to see 2 different generations on the same page. (on most of the issues).👍🏼

How I wish Naitik and Akshara could also discover a similar understanding b/w them!😆

6) This menace of our society can only be curbed through group efforts from government, celebrities, educated youth n lastly the almighty people of our nation together with the help of MEDIA.. (Today media is considered as the MOST powerful tool in educating billions of people together in a simple n thoughtful way..👏 like documentary movies or various case studies, articles n shows related n highlighting such issues) best example is set by Aamir khan in Satyamev jayate, also his film Tare zamen par prove to be a boon for all the schools , teachers n parents for the victim child.😊

Originally posted by: janhavi58

I wouldnt say G3 is bad,she has behaved well as good mil sometimes as good mom etc etc. Her reactions for certain situations make us believe that this wouldnt be any so called 'kind' persons reaction like as in case of chiki, she is just a little girl wid some past thats she is afraid off and doesnt want to return .This girl is not going to stay at SS forever(i beleive naksh are not going to adopt her)police complaint is done, search is on and wat does G3 expects,that chiki should leave the house.where the poor soul will go?Police are not going to take care instead they will agn put her in the same place from where she has come.akshi has taken responsibility so G3 should be patient till her home is found out.

i so hope Naksh don't adopt her.. how much cute she is, im hating the fact that Duggu is not given enough screen space..🤢

G3 now has changed, thanks to sarkari pratinidhi of baal kosh griha..🤣

vaise bhi i already knew ye jitne naatak abhi kar rahi hai, baad mein iski kaaya palat hogi hi..🤢

can a chameleon ever resist changing colour?😕

2.Yes,G3 is much better in this case and would say this without any doubt when G3 would know abt her past(considering she has horrifying past) she is definately going to feel sorry for her behaviour.

sorry for her behaviour, i don't think CVs would show her repentful behaviour, considering the fact that we know what CVs are capable of doing..😃

her attitude towards Chiki has changed, and she'l become too good in the coming episodes, but i don't think we'll get to see her transition..😊

3.G3 is not cruel person who cant be changed. She is not liking chiki's behaviour. she is reserved kind of person, she doesnt like anybdy being careless with duggu, nobdy should point out her family for any bad reasons this what everybdy wants but the words she uses and the temprament she has make us think she is bad and that should be changed and ofcourse her bad temper.

spot on this is..👍🏼 you summed up G3's character perfectly!😃

4.BM is a person who gets emotional quickly so if DJ didnt allowed the girl, BM definately would not go against him she is pativrata stree but would have felt for chiki.

who doesn't feel for Chiki? everybody does, it's just that Bma isn't too vocal about everything.. always abiding by her husband..

tumhare Daddaji ko accha nahi lagega..

5.For me its not possible to reach even 1% of these two people though these two are fictious character,people like them are their in this world too.It is difficult to be like them but we can try atleast.

agreed.. me too.. as i have said in many of my posts, i relate to Akshara only to an extent.. not more than that.. marriage is still at a distance away from me may be that's why i can never understand the nuisances of :

1. an arranged match

2. a joint family,

since i have always lived in a nuclear family..

yet, im a die hard romantic - would always prefer arranged marriage..😍

vo kaun hai jise main jaanti hu, par pehchanti nahi,

jiske siwa main kisi ko apna maanti nahi..😍😍

this is the result of yesterday's Naksh scene.. don't mind..😆

6.We do hardly anything for the society. But its not easy to change the ongoings,lots of patience,dedication and hardwork is required and 2days yputh who beleive in getting everything instantly its not easy for us,atleast me.

impatience is what taking us down!

i got a text message from someone - a joke basically which said,

Dear God,

Give me patience, but please hurry up..😆

sums up for Gen Y completely,.😃😆

7.Conservative log to har jagah hote haiaur unhe jhelna bahut mushkil hai, making them realise by giving the real life examples is the only solution, good changes are necessary and there is nothing bad in accepting it agr ye samjha paye toh everythng would be easy.

yeah agreed..

but it's really difficult to change their mindset, because they've lived with it almost whole of their life..

Originally posted by: _vinita_

Originally posted by: Vertz

1) acc to me g3's character is the most hypocrite in entire ss..😈

U spoke my mind Di!😃

mine too..😆

but still in chiki's case I think her behavior is justified..👍🏼

Di, her behaviour WAS justified initially. Ab the way she's behaving is unreasonable.

Gayatri is acting too cranky now. Once the Singhanias (excluding her, of course) have decided to look after Chikki till they find out about her whereabouts, G3 need not behave so coldly towards the lil girl.😕

I always find her reactions too extreme. Galti se ball kya lag gyi guests ko, madam shuru ho gayi. ''I can't tolerate this girl in my house anymore, BM".🤢 And the other day, jab Naksh ro raha tha par Chikki ke faces banane pe hasne laga toh what tough looks G3 gave her.😡 Come on, that's not the way people of her age behave.🤢 I am sorry but G3 needs to grow up.😡

pata nahi yar.. i toh always relate to her ki jab main frustrate hoti hu toh i act worst than her..

do char din tak toh vo mujhe khoob bhalo lagi..😍😆

just for an epi i thought she's being too unreasonable, but then abhi looking at the sword hangling above her head -

baal kosh griha and sarkari pratinidhi..🤣

she's still okay..

though, her mentality is NOT right, i'd always say..😊

common now no normal person on earth will allow any random stranger to come n stay in their home specially looking at today's scenario.. (as hum kuch bhi accha karne jate hai log uska galat matlab hi nilakte hai) 😕 what if tomm chiki also turns up like mamaji's chorni daughter?? 😆 U never know so giving that much liberty all at ones is also not safe.. moreover no matter how much sympathize u get wid her but somewhere in ur heart u're afraid as to what could be her background?? 🤔 So best option is always taking help of police which naitik n g3 did.. unlike akshi jo sidha usse ghar hi le lai.. dumb girl

@bold: Bang on Di. Completely agree. In reality, nobody would bring a stranger home like this, no matter what.😲

Nevertheless, if this kind of a hypothetical situation does arise, I don't think any 'normal' human being would be as rude and indifferent to the stranger as G3 was, in fact is.👎🏼

😕

pata nahi im never able to understand G3..😕😆

According to me, Naitik's reaction was the most believable. He was a lil apprehensive about the entire thing initially, nonetheless, tried to understand Akshi's dilemma/perspective, informed the police and is awaiting their response now.⭐️

arre my Munna..😍😍

kya masst hubby mila hai yar Akshara ko, lucky girl..😍😆

2) As per now i think chikki belong to some orphanage n hence her behavior eagerly crave for love n family..😕 But if u highlight real scenario "Duniya bahut jyada zalim hai" at times I feel we're really blessed to be surrounded by our near n dear ones.. coz looking at the current sour fact of our so called educated society I get goose bump wondering kaise kaise insane log hote hai duniya mein ?? 😲 I mean its completely thrilling to know what all people do these days especially lower class of our society' n worst if its a girl.. It keep amuse me to the core whenever I come across any such articles or related news..🤢 n if at all u're comparing g3 wid them then she can definitely be referred as angelic soul..😃🤣

@bold: G3 would be walking on air if she reads this.🤣

Bhagwan na kare mera kabhi aise 'angelic souls' se paala pade.🤣

🤣

aise angelic souls dharti par na bane toh hi accha hai.. Bhagwan Ji, keep these angelic souls with you..🤣

3) in show u may see the change but in reality its very difficult to change a stringent mentality of a person who posses it especially orthodox ppl.. hum kisiki soch nahi badal sakte hai yeaahh we may persuade them for time being but cant change it completely as they will get back to square one n their original trail one day (just my opinion) '😉

Couldn't agree more Di.😃

4) to be frank Bma is as good as Maharaji..😃🤣 thanks to cvs they didn't explore her character as per the original script..🥱

She's a useless character.🤢

At least Maharaj Ji achhe achhe pakwan toh banate hain. Ye toh kisi kaam ki nai hai.😆 Oops...actually hai.

She's DJ's messenger...har jagah batati firti hai ki DJ kya sochta hai.🤪🤣

ye nahi batati hai ki DJ kya sochta hai.. she propagates what OUR DADDAJI won't like..🤢

Coming back to DJ well compare to erstwhile DJ i think it's a completely change in this character ever since its been replaced wid new n improved version.. infact these days i look forward for his character in the show as I use to do with dadi (vinitaji ) earlier..👍🏼 its really commendable whenever he gives GOOD piece of mind to Jaleli everytime she tends to suppress n offend akshi.. 👏 his love for kids (ananya, duggu n even chiki ) had increased beyond my imagination.. he appreciated akshi's efforts n agreed for her book launch.. hez more open to new ideas n support naitik to explore new ideas in business' he let akshi to name her own son n the most shocking was wen he agreed for wearing western cloths which akshi bought during picnic'😲😆 hats off to him I'm loving this sudden change in his character..😎

Log toh gaaon jaakar aur backward ho jaate hain. Hamara DJ toh ajooba nikla.😲😆

He has turned into a smiling, understanding, prudent, liberal, levelheaded, broad-minded man ever since he has returned from his village. 😲😆 Wonder what Baisa fed him there.😆 😆

Baisa, you need to train G3 too then..😆

5) Well its quite natural even when 2 ppl doesn't thinks alike their tuning comes automatically with time.. 😉 all that matters is the way we make each other understand n thinks from each others perspectives... then generation gap is not the problem I think..😛 same is the case wid my father in law n me.. we both share close bonding of our respective ideology n at the same time respect each others thinking n hence we always like to consult each other before taking any decision.. so EFFORTS from both side can lead to such example very frequently..😃

It's good to see 2 different generations on the same page. (on most of the issues).👍🏼

How I wish Naitik and Akshara could also discover a similar understanding b/w them!😆

aahh.. Naksh..😍

kal ka epi..😍😍

6) This menace of our society can only be curbed through group efforts from government, celebrities, educated youth n lastly the almighty people of our nation together with the help of MEDIA.. (Today media is considered as the MOST powerful tool in educating billions of people together in a simple n thoughtful way..👏 like documentary movies or various case studies, articles n shows related n highlighting such issues) best example is set by Aamir khan in Satyamev jayate, also his film Tare zamen par prove to be a boon for all the schools , teachers n parents for the victim child.😊

Lovely post Di.👏👏👏

Its always a pleasure reading ur 'enlightening' posts.🤗

Originally posted by: moonlight08

pata nahi yar.. i toh always relate to her ki jab main frustrate hoti hu toh i act worst than her..

do char din tak toh vo mujhe khoob bhalo lagi..😍😆

See relating to her character is a different thing. I also many a times end up behaving somewhat like G3 if I dislike somebody. But that doesn't mean that I m right or my behaviour towards that person is right. However realistic her behaviour might be, it isn't justified or reasonable. No way.👎🏼

Moreover look at the age difference na yar. We are still teens but she's a grandmother to a 9 month old kid. People don't behave like this at her age. Isn't she supposed to be a little more mature?!

pata nahi im never able to understand G3..😕😆

Mysterious (unpredictable) character you know!😉😆

aise angelic souls dharti par na bane toh hi accha hai.. Bhagwan Ji, keep these angelic souls with you..

🤣🤣🤣

ye nahi batati hai ki DJ kya sochta hai.. she propagates what OUR DADDAJI won't like..🤢

"Tumhare DJ kehre the"...blah blah blah!😡🤢

I mean whose interested yar?!🤢

Originally posted by: moonlight08

arre ab toh G3 will change..😎

thanks to that baal kosh griha and sarkari pratinidhi..🤣

baap re that lady had me in splits yesterday..🤣

U bet...😃

was it really about acceptance? pata nahi yar..

they were too conservative back then, even when Akshara didn't enter that house.. pooja karna before meal and everything, may be the CVs tend to ignore such things, but then - that type of environment in certainly not there in the house..😕

I think they still follow those customs yaar...khaane ke pehle pooja karna, kitchen ke baahar chappal kholna, wives ka husbands ke baad khaana and all that. But they can't keep showing such things everytime na...monotonous ho jayega.😉

Ab toh we hardly see Naksh and party touching their elder's feet but I am sure they still do continue this practice.😊

Nevertheless, I agree that Singhanias are now not as conservative and orthodox as they used to be.😃