DOTW : 8th July, 12 - Have WE changed our mindset? - Page 5

Originally posted by: moonlight08

Originally posted by: _vinita_

Awwwhhh thanks vertikka n kaumu - two of my favorite ppl out here 🤗

Really? 🤗🤗🤗 I am over the moon.😳

BADI wali jaadu ki jhappi for you Di.😃

btw vertikka u really scored 94 in English?? 😲😆 n kaumu dont worry ek baar jo maine commitment kar diya phir main khud ki bhi nahi sunti.. i'll search that guy at all cost 😎👍🏼 n yes i'm looking forward for next dotw 😃

Haan Di. Galti se aagaye.😉😆

Main bhi dhoondne mein aapki help karungi. No wait...actually main aapka kaam aur badhaungi.😉

Now u'll have to search a PERFECT MUNNA for me as well.🤣🤣🤣

no doubt g3's behavior has always been extreme but that is what her nature is all about (I mean yelling all the time unreasonably)😡 forget chiki she wont even spare 1 year old ananya for that matter..😆 u remember dhup aur mithi mein bacho ko nahi khelna chaheye wala incident??🥱 So definitely ghar pe chiki ka khelna is beyond her tolerance n about duggu tho jab akshi ka uske sath rehna usse bardash nh hota toh chiki kya chiz hai ..😉 but as u guyz said she needs to grow up.. 👍🏼

We must soon open a thread named ''ll Gayatri's Appreciation Thread ll ~ Peep in to see the changing colours of 'The Great Chameleon' ~'' since all of us are all praises for her these days. 😉🤣🤣

G3 ke character ko RB kya ab tak humare CVs bhi nahi samajh paye hai 🤣

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Probably, this is why RB chose to divert all his attention to food.😆😆

I mostly use the same expression for our 'beloved' CVs...😉

So here it is, yet again; 😡😡😡 😆

exactly bhagwanji i hope u're listening... 🤔 galti se jo angelic souls dharti pe hai unhe aap wapas bula lo 😃🤣

🤣🤣🤣

O maiyyan ji, vinti suno,

Inn 'vipdaaon' ko door karo.😆

Aise angelic souls ko wapas lelo.😆

Humpe Ma upkaar karo. 🤣🤣

@ bold: kaumu ismein se kuch add karna hai kya teri list mein?? 🤔 oops sorry yeh sab toh tune pehle hi bata diya tha 🤣

Di meri bhi list ditto Kaumudi jaisi hai. 🤣 🤣

Naksh also have awesome tuning yaar ❤️ just that unko realize karne mein thoda time lagta hai 😆

Kahan Di. Dekhli maine inki understanding last track mein.😭

n to top it they r from same generation toh tuning kahi aur jyada dikti hai 😳😍☺️ 🤣

☺️☺️☺️

But their tuning is good only in this aspect okay.🤣🤣

Originally posted by: moonlight08

1. is G3 really that bad?

i mean, inspite of all her inhibitions, she's still letting that little girl stay there, though most unwillingly.. also, she allowed her to give her a massage on her head at the behest of Bma ofcourse, but she did let her touch her..😲 no matter how much irritated she must have been, she's never said that girl to get out of the house.. she has always told everything to Bma.. it's a different thing altogther that Chiki overheard their convo..

when i hear about untouchability and castiesm, my heart goes out to those people who have suffered the wrath of society in yesteryears and even today..

She is letting Chiki stay there coz Dajjaji has allowed her to stay there.. Uske bas me hota toh toh wo kabka use bal posh grah chod aayi hoti.. 😆 ok, she let chiki touch everyone, but what alag bartan me parosana, khilone ko ache se saaf karke do n all.. BTW I would not blame her aise bhi koi bina janpehchan ghar aa jaye, toh ye sab karna jayaj hai.. People of her age most probably do that..

2. Chiki - i wonder what might have happened to that girl.. what's it that's stopping her from going back to her own home?

does she have a home? her parents? her siblings? if not, does the orphanage she lives in treats her with love?

i doubt so.. she seems to me as a girl with a dark past.. and looking at that, don't you still think G3 is a lot better when compared to those people who have compelled that little girl to run away?😊
Yaar g3 koi negative character nahi hai jo hum use wo orphange ke logo ke sath compare kare.. G3 jaise insaan har ghar me paae jate hai and her character is real..😛

3. G3's mentality -

however she has been behaving is SICK..🤢

this is NOT the way you treat a child.. no matter how much i talk in favour of G3 by saying she's acting real and everything, i'd always accept that her mentality is wrong here.. if a person has found refuge in your house, you should respect it.. she has inherited this backward mentality from her ancestors, but im sure she's also inherited values related to 'Atithi Devo Bhavah' meaning 'Guest is God'.. if not for any other reason, she should atleast be nice to Chiki because she's a (unwanted) guest at their house..😊

what i want to ask is - can we hope to see a change in this stringent mentality in the future? love changes people in most unexpected of ways, and no matter how rude and unreasonable and everything she is, can we see a change in her for the better?😊
Yes g3's behavior is real, but its certainly not right.. 😊
Haa, g3 is changing.. firstly coz of that sarakari pratinidhi thing..😆 but now change in her attitude towards chiki is wholly coz of chiki's innocence and love..😛

4. Bma - a lot here think Bma is finally getting a backbone.. i want to ask a thing, had Dj for once not allowed Chiki to stay in their home, would Bma still behave the way she's behaving now?

i believe she's abiding by her husband in this case rather than taking her own stand in this issue..

anyone who can prove me wrong?😊
Bm never had her own decision.. she always blind foldedly follow others specially her husbund..In chiki's case shayad she would have wanted chiki to stay there but surely she wouldnt have speak.. One instance where she was her own was supporting Akshara during shaurya naitik fight and recently about duggu's food matter... Usse pehle ka I dont remember.. 😕

DJ - it's amazing how he was more conservative and strict than G3 but now has become one of the most loved characters in the show..😆

even at the time of Naksh's marriage when he refused to take Dahej from Vishambhar to saying'agar ladki hoti toh bhi itni hi khushi hoti' to keeping this suspicious girl in his house, i have always maintained though not really liberal, he's definitely not conservative!😊
Yes he is never conservative when it comes to humanity.. but in other matters he was.. more than conservative, he was stringent.. Naitik ka bahar kaam karna, bahu ko bina pallu me dekh ke naraz hona, dosto ko ghar na lana, der raat tak ghar se bahar na jana n all..🤢 But he now understood time requireds change and has changed for better now..😃

Akshara - i must admit not many can think the way she can..😊
Not many think like her.. but certainly there are few who thinks like her and I have seen such example in my life.😃 Hard to believe but true..😆

Daddaji and Akshara are perfect example of tuning between the two individual despite the generation gap..😊 in this fast paced world, when it's difficult to find even two peers thinking on the same lines, we know two people - though fictitious, with an age gap of almost 40-50 years thinking just the same..😊

i wrote this to ask,

5. can WE ever reach even the half of where these two charcters reached?
Some of my family members are somewhat like dj.. but not that great.. I toh can never reach 20% of their level in Chiki's matter.. If I would have known chiki's background then yes I would have then accepted her in my house.. 😃

6. what have WE done to curb this menace in the society?
cant say.. Never faced any situation as such.. But it does prevail and will take years to evade such evil... or should say it cant be curbed fully..

had we been in their shoes, do you think we would have really accepted Chiki in our house in the first place?
Answered above at que. 5,,

7. we all have that one family member who's too conservative - how would have we dealt with them?
Yes I have conservative people not at my home.. but have some such relatives.. I don't do anything my mom dad, granni are enough to take care of them.. 😃

Originally posted by: Vertz

Originally posted by: moonlight08