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MARHABAA

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Posted: 14 years ago

The whole Akshara Versus wedding planner which was chosen by Natik thing is a disgrace .WHAT do they want to show that anything that Natik does will be a failure? The guy is the only one who talked some sense and wanted a planner to take away the hard work from everyone else yet the whole wedding planner thing was a flop

But no worries along comes Akshara stops the cheques, replaces presents, coordinated the whole wedding, gets the tailor etc etc just ridiculous .Natik is a successful businessman right and yet hes shown to be some kind of idiot.😕

He wanted his sisters wedding to be perfect and for his family to relax and take it easy n enjoy functions - was that SO much of a big deal?

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Posted: 14 years ago

agree with u...i cant understand why cvs are spoiling naitiks image...they are trying to show only akshara is able to handle each and every situation...cant understand why they are showing naitik s decisions are utter flop always?

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Posted: 14 years ago

it was a big deal coz maate never liked naitik's idea 😆 if ms chandni can arrange everything in 2 days, why not akshara? naitik need not worry..he never had akshara with him anyways to spend time n ab toh bilkul nahi...sit on the wheelchair and relax while maate ghomaofies her jaado ki chadi 🤣 2 mahine ka kaam 2 din mein

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MARHABAA
The whole Akshara Versus wedding planner which was chosen by Natik thing is a disgrace .WHAT do they want to show that anything that Natik does will be a failure? The guy is the only one who talked some sense and wanted a planner to take away the hard work from everyone else yet the whole wedding planner thing was a flop

But no worries along comes Akshara stops the cheques, replaces presents, coordinated the whole wedding, gets the tailor etc etc just ridiculous .Natik is a successful businessman right and yet hes shown to be some kind of idiot.😕

He wanted his sisters wedding to be perfect and for his family to relax and take it easy n enjoy functions - was that SO much of a big deal?

well i think they are trying to show that, copying others or trying to best them is not always is the right idea, i mean they show the boy's family showing off and G3 and munna gave RJ(hey bhagwaan abb kya hoga😆😆😆😆😆) run for her money in worrying what ppl are thinking, and the way akshi handle things is showing her new found confidence, old akshi well city would be flooded by now if it was old akshi, also rama throw water on that jewellery idea so that was both of them i mean naksh, and they are showing that ppl dont always need planners when hey have ppl pwr at home, no money can boy the closeness of the family, which can go out of the window when planners do everything and family is just lazying around, if rama was part of big family like Singhanias or maheshweres maybe she would have done things herself too,

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MARHABAA

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sara_sara

well i think they are trying to show that, copying others or trying to best them is not always is the right idea, i mean they show the boy's family showing off and G3 and munna gave RJ(hey bhagwaan abb kya hoga😆) run for her money in worrying what ppl are thinking, and the way akshi handle things is showing her new found confidence, old akshi well city would be flooded by now if it was old akshi, also rama throw water on that jewellery idea so that was both of them i mean naksh, and they are showing that ppl dont always need planners when hey have ppl pwr at home, no money can boy the closeness of the family, which can go out of the window when planners do everything and family is just lazying around, if rama was part of big family like Singhanias or maheshweres maybe she would have done things herself too,

Dont think so ..they just cant have a glimpse of forward or even normal thinking in this show .Being confident is something different ,being a know all and doing everything contrary to your husbands wishes is something different.There is always enough work for family members to do with or without a planner highly unlikely they would be lazying around .😉

They could have showed a normal planner with normal family integration and coordination to create the perfect event.

Now when something goes wrong akshara can take full credit .

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sara_sara

well i think they are trying to show that, copying others or trying to best them is not always is the right idea, i mean they show the boy's family showing off and G3 and munna gave RJ(hey bhagwaan abb kya hoga😆) run for her money in worrying what ppl are thinking, and the way akshi handle things is showing her new found confidence, old akshi well city would be flooded by now if it was old akshi, also rama throw water on that jewellery idea so that was both of them i mean naksh, and they are showing that ppl dont always need planners when hey have ppl pwr at home, no money can boy the closeness of the family, which can go out of the window when planners do everything and family is just lazying around, if rama was part of big family like Singhanias or maheshweres maybe she would have done things herself too,

You hit the nail on the head... Completely agree with you.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: MARHABAA

Dont think so ..they just cant have a glimpse of forward or even normal thinking in this show .Being confident is something different ,being a know all and doing everything contrary to your husbands wishes is something different.There is always enough work for family members to do with or without a planner highly unlikely they would be lazying around .😉
They could have showed a normal planner with normal family integration and coordination to create the perfect event.
Now when something goes wrong akshara can take full credit .

true ! the purpose of planners is that they take care of imp. things like caterers, decorators, pandit, band wala, mehandi wali, parlours, fetching and dropping relatives, taking care of their needs etc, etc.they make sure all this happens on time and perfectly ! they help in packing the trousseau and other gifts which is time consuming for the family and not all can do it creatively ! like these ppl. were waiting for the halwai to arrive, planners takes all that headache and makes sure everything is on time...the family members have MUCH more to do than this and it's not that they r lazing around while others do their job...in a wedding , the time flies so fast, there r so many ceremonies to be done, they r not able to participate in these , bas phone hi karte reh jayenge ke halwai nahi aaya aur decorator nahi aaya. ye relative ko parlour jaana hai aur ab isko airport se aana hai ! if therez a small 5-10 people gathering, humara band baj jaata hai to organize it...but these ppl. have no other work bec. kitchen ka kaam, ghar ka kaam, their parlour, hair make up apne aap hi ho jaata hai...n they say "oh we don't need anybody, hum apna kaam kar lenge, lo ho gayi 2 din mein shadi" 🤢 kindly do not undermine anybody's job ! planners ki wajah se everything becomes so easy...

if i book a venue, a decorator and caterer, the wp make sure ke decoration ache se ho rahi hai...also, they suggest good decorators, trousseau packing guys etc. ...they have to be given a budget and they do their best in that..and what do ladies of the house do? more than half of the day they r sitting in the beauty parlour, kaam kaun karega? 🤢 half of the time goes in ceremonies..do they REALLY have that much extra time to look after arrangements?

the only agenda of CV's is to show that anything new, modern and progressive is NEVER good ! 🤢 Dino ke zamane mein raho bas

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Charu

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sara_sara

well i think they are trying to show that, copying others or trying to best them is not always is the right idea, i mean they show the boy's family showing off and G3 and munna gave RJ(hey bhagwaan abb kya hoga😆) run for her money in worrying what ppl are thinking, and the way akshi handle things is showing her new found confidence, old akshi well city would be flooded by now if it was old akshi, also rama throw water on that jewellery idea so that was both of them i mean naksh, and they are showing that ppl dont always need planners when hey have ppl pwr at home, no money can boy the closeness of the family, which can go out of the window when planners do everything and family is just lazying around, if rama was part of big family like Singhanias or maheshweres maybe she would have done things herself too,

rama never demanded anything from them..she never said aisa hona chahiye n vaisa, she was only telling them what THEY r doing in the wedding...Naitik wanted the best for his sister's wedding and therez nothing wrong with it...they never wanted to show off, they wanted everything acc. to the taste of the boy's family and they knew they r modern , hence they employed the planner..their intention was never bad, nor did they want to overspend money to show everyone that they too have it ! yes, gayitri didn't know HOW to do it, and she was worrying too much which is natural for any mother...if they showed the planner as nuts, it's not naitik's fault...what if she did a better job than akshara?

i've never seen a shadi where family is lazying around 😆 whether they employ a planner or no...yes, the relatives do it bec. they thing it's against their shaan to help others , they love to be spoon fed once they r out of their houses 🤢 in naksh wedding there were so many irrelevant issues like pandit not coming on time, parlours not arranged , mithai nahi aayi, so on and so forth, these things r handled by planners perfectly while family enjoys the wedding which is very hard otherwise ! they r busy looking after the arrangements and guests n baaki time mein there r ceremonies...pata bhi nahi chalta shadi kab ho gayi n kaise...if i can afford, i'll employ wedding planners anyday ! i'm not a super woman. all they have to worry in weddings is BLOUSES 🤢 Jai MA Akshara 😆

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Posted: 14 years ago

Well, in any situation you have certain resources at your disposal - time, money and energy. Naitik wanted to spend money and save on the others, at the same time ending up with a grand wedding. It doesn't happen that way, does it? Even planners need briefs, they need interacting with, they need supervision. Chandni's 'Hand over the cheque and Leave it to me' mode doesn't work unless the planner is special (which she wasn't) and the budget is extraordinary.

IMO, Akshara was right - you can do many things yourself and when you have the necessary competencies it's a waste of resources to ignore it. Work on saris etc is somehting these women handle every week, so why pay through your nose for a label that is clearly selling shoddy products.
A lapse in judgement on Naitik's part - simply because he was looking to impress, too worried about the end product and how it SEEMS instead of getting the most intelligent deal.

As for Akshara vs Naitik, well, this is a women oriented soap, isn't it? The heroine will be glorified, that too in an arena that is clearly hers. No question.

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Mousumi

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Exactly.. I also agree with you. The whole wedding planner thing was not digested by me. Everytime naitik does anything,.it turns out to be a big failure..its so frustrating at times.

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