Motherhood Trophy up for grabs! - Page 2

Originally posted by: --Nishita--

Lovely post Sarita. Varsha's anger was justified to a certain limit...her baby went missing and she had no clue about it. I think any mom would panic in her place. I could understand Varsha's irritation as well...me being a viewer was getting irritated with Aksh's constant "meri ananya...kitni pyali lag rahi hai"...Aksh being so oblivious to the happening was quite unrealistic. It was Ananya's first festival...if she was excited to get the little baby a new dress then wouldnt her mother be equally excited? If not more? "Tu bhi layi hai Varsha?"...what was that!

Varsha vented out her anger and irritation...she held her composure for a long time but she lost it when her baby went missing. The way she handled the situation was not good...she just snatched the baby from Aksh. The words she spoke are unacceptable...irrespective of the fact whether Aksh was preg, had a MC or not.

I just hope Aksh learns from this...her solution to the problem is not Ananya...she needs to be strong from within. She can rely on her husband for support as he is also going through the same amount of pain.

I agree with you. No matter how close someone is to their mother, brother or friends. Once you get married and are truly in love with you husband. It is important to find companionship with each other. Especially in this situation i know everyone is concerned about her pain but the only person who truly gets it is natik.

Originally posted by: _naksh_

i absolutely love this post,its totally awesome

with the tension varsha acting up like this cuz she thinks akshara needs her child is one part and then the other part is our pyaari bindiya..uffh

poor akshara she has suffered a MC but that does not mean she cannot concieve,if any1 would tell them about something disgusting like this especially if that some1 was your best friend,believe me you would feel horrible...i felt really bad for akshara.Varsha should have never said mein maa hu maa...n hurting akshara no matter how angry she was,if she was irritated,then fine and that milk you had put in the bottle darling was bad,hence why akshara took her home darling,btw if u knew to take care of a child so nicely you wont ask your MIL for help...sometimes i feel that varsha has everyhting,got the one who she loved,a good family and sometimes i feel she takes advantage of it..like that scene when she was pregnant and Rajshri was telling her what to do and what not she blurtted out like how she did to rajshri and she felt bad..

now what i am thinking is that naitik will take akshara from there..n varsha,some1 will have to explain to her she was wrong in a way to act like that...then she will may be come to apologise..but i have a feeling...naitik wont want anymore confusion and tell akshara that leave varsha,she can get her own children...n this will cause some awkward moment,husbands never say(as i have seen from my sisters life n BIL) anything but inside they feel it..n sometime they would eventually blurt it out...n the wife will have to respect..

n yes true friendship is indeed difficult to find..what i am wondering is that will this thing cause a problem in the relationship..i mean friends do have arguments but not over their children!!!n around here is it akshara wrong orr varsha or both in their own ways???

ooo n i feel during all this tension attention seeker bindiya would find out about MC n do her ill-jealosuly reaction..who runs her mouth n blabbs about herself..

Bindiya ki baath muth karo baba...😆I am waiting for it to build up tha ki like Varsha I will spit out all my venom...🤣 Trust me, it ain't gonna be pretty😆 The chat between Bindiya & Varsha was a very telling moment for me. Varsha was bragging about motherhood, rightfully so but something about their conversation didn't sit well with me. It made me wonder is this really about being a proud mother or has this become more of a race Maybe it was simply poor acting by Varsha & I read too much into it as usual...🤣

Originally posted by: nigo123

I dont think the reason she said that was to tell akshara that she does not have a kid of her own. She said that to make akshara understand that of course she will be worried like that because she is the mother. There is nothing wrong with what she said. And also how long are people going to let everything go and treat akshara like a doll because of her MC. That does not happen real life. In reality you have to get on with your life, go to work meet you friends and stop being so fragile.

Also about varsha asking for help from her MIL. She is first time mother she needs help. Plus just because someone gets a baby sitter that does not automatically imply that they should let anyone do anything with their child just because they needed help. And even if she did say to akshara that she is not the mother, that is the truth. Akshara loves ananya but she is not HER MOTHER, and someone had to tell her that. And no mother out there will put their friend's well being or feelings before their kid. The whole day akshara hurt her feelings and did not once realize it. Varsha was hurt, frustrated and finally could not take it anymore. How would anyone feel if they heard their child crying but they cannot take the baby in their arms because someone took the baby away from you?

Originally posted by: FLGators

Bindiya ki baath muth karo baba...😆I am waiting for it to build up tha ki like Varsha I will spit out all my venom...🤣 Trust me, it ain't gonna be pretty😆 The chat between Bindiya & Varsha was a very telling moment for me. Varsha was bragging about motherhood, rightfully so but something about their conversation didn't sit well with me. It made me wonder is this really about being a proud mother or has this become more of a race Maybe it was simply poor acting by Varsha & I read too much into it as usual...🤣

Originally posted by: _naksh_

i agree akshara is not her mother and ppl should not treat her like a doll but she has feelings,there is a way to talk to someone esp is that person went thru something like a MC,if ananya is helping akshi then fine so,but akshara does not want to steal her away,varsha got the wrong thing...she was frustrated n stuff...also with the child these things r new for akshara she was only thinking good and trying to stop anu from crying so varsha didnt neet to react that way...so the same way this was new for varsha it is new for akshi(how would she know if the baby wanted to sleep or eat she was just trying)

I agree that varsha was harsh and i am sure if it was different circumstances she would not say anything like that. But akshara really over stepped her boundaries. I just watched the last part of the episode again and she takes the baby when they are on the stairs and then goes away to try bangles like does she not even have the sense that the baby might need her mother or the decency to take varsha's permission or tell her where she is taking the baby. She could see how the place was crowded upstairs. Akshara really had no right to take the baby away from varsha. If the baby was crying and she took her for walk thats different but getting bangles. I mean what if someone snatched the baby since it was so crowded or what if while trying bangles the baby got a cut. All the blame would go to akshara.

Whenever you have someone else's child be it your niece or a neighbours kid one should always follow up with the parents and take their permission before doing something. Because if anything happens the blame will go to you because it is not your child it is someone else's. I cannot blame varsha for yelling because in a place so crowded anything could happen to the kid so akshara should have just stayed close to varsha. Then if ananya had cried varsha could hear it and come and take the baby.

Very well said sarita...motherhood is not a competition...its not a race...vaise we should always think twice before talking...i unserstnd that varsha was very angry without seeing ananya...but the way she expressed her anger was wrong...afterall akshara was her childhood friend...akshi uski bachi ko kidnap karke tho nahi laayi thi...

now akshara should learn from this experience that ananya is not her permanent solution to her problem...she should move on...why cant she divert her full attention to naitik...taking care of naitik...spend more time with her hubby...try to make her mnd happy with him...he is doing his level best to make her happy...so why cant she do the same with hm...why she is always running behind all other bakwas things except naitik

Originally posted by: pvlaks

Very well said sarita...motherhood is not a competition...its not a race...vaise we should always think twice before talking...i unserstnd that varsha was very angry without seeing ananya...but the way she expressed her anger was wrong...afterall akshara was her childhood friend...akshi uski bachi ko kidnap karke tho nahi laayi thi...

now akshara should learn from this experience that ananya is not her permanent solution to her problem...she should move on...why cant she divert her full attention to naitik...taking care of naitik...spend more time with her hubby...try to make her mnd happy with him...he is doing his level best to make her happy...so why cant she do the same with hm...why she is always running behind all other bakwas things except naitik

Originally posted by: madhaviben

Sarita nice post loved it 👍🏼. the best line is motherhood is not a race. lakin ban hi gayi. and words can be so harmful some time 😭 for varsha its just her anger and what ever she said is true that she is ananaya ki ma but the way she said and the whom she said is does metters. akshar never said that she is ma of ananya or that she wants to keep her and dont willing to give back to varsha . but now akshara lost it , a friend and babhi and mayaka all in one . now naitik will not let her go . but i think this is the only way she will know the real world. i some time think do AKSAHR exist in real world? i dont think anyone is that bholi or i should say dumb like her. she didnt get it from the begining that it doesnt matter how much u love some one that baby is not your .
it happend when my devrani gave birth to littel boy . and i didnt have kids. that time my saas told her that when se go to india will make some gold bengels for both of us so she can gift us when we gave her the good news. and when she didnt gave the gold bangels to my devrain she got upset at MIL and call me and said " aapko to bacceh ho ya na bhi ho mai kab tak intazar karu saas ki gift ka maine to beta diya hai na? " so the next day i call my mil and told her to gave her the bengals while mere liya wait karneki jarurat nahi hai. she ask me how i know about bangales ? i didnt say anything . now its 13 year after that incident but some time i remamber this line .
now no sorry from varsha will take that pain from akshara and now akshara will not take ananya that lovely way she will think twise before she do anything for ananya and the bad part about all this is varsha is not just akshi ki friend but also a babhi so she lost her both the ways.
Sarita life moves on akshi will soon have her own baby 😍 and i want akshi to win but loved that naitik was there . and varsah i think she got everything in life . not like akshara but akshara have naitik in her life and he will make her happy soon. and akshi will move on without ananya and varsah s help 👏

Agree with you MB. Although in the privacy her room she kept referring to her as "meri Ananya", she never once claimed to be her mother. She kept saying "bua ke paas aayegi..." For Varsha, anger took the better of her which should never happen. If she reflects on this with a cool head, hopefully she will realize that she was wrong in grabbing the child from Akshara & then saying what she did. The look was enough, like she was a baby stealer


Akshara had the best intentions but in her excitement overlooked her friends feelings but being the maate she is she will definetly apologize without expecting anything in return😃 As much as I dislike this nature of maate's, I think it is a very admirable quality; not everyone can be so selfless👏 Akshara's Ananya mantra had to stop & so should the Varsha hotline...🤢 Hur problem ke liye Varsha,Varsha...😡 Once you are married, your husband is your best friend & confidante. When she was newly married it was all good. But talking to Naithik about the pregnancy, did it have to go to Varsha first? Is Naithik so unapproachable?😕


In your own case, I can totally relate to that too. There are people who can be vicious and totally materialistic. It almost makes me wonder; do we get to take it when the ultimate calling comes?😕 Naksh should really take a break from Udaipur & need to reflect on their future plans. At least Akshara needs to get out more often & become a normal person; make new friends😃 Payal kaha gayi?😲

i think bas bahut ho gaye ananya raag akshi should now maintain a distance 4rm her nd move on.

Originally posted by: sdhg

i think bas bahut ho gaye ananya raag akshi should now maintain a distance 4rm her nd move on.