Motherhood Trophy up for grabs! - Page 3

Created

Last reply

Replies

62

Views

6.6k

Users

21

Likes

359

Frequent Posters

466726 thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#21
Varsha wanted to have her cake and eat it too...😆 Jaise woh hamesha karti hai. Sabke saamne achcha/mahaan bhi rehna hai aur akshara ka uski beti ke liye lagav bhi bardash nahin ho raha tha...😔The final outburst was outcome of all the incidents happened during the day since their arrival at singhania sadan.
Varsha didn't like the fact that ananya wore the dress choosen by akshara...there is nthing wrong in what varsha felt...bt she shld hv conveyed her displeasure to akshara at that very moment instead of keeping quiet nd smiling it too. Akshara never got the msg that varsha was disappointed with her attitude towards ananya.Varsha wanted to speak her mind nd akshara gave her reason in the end. When Varsha went for a movie with shaurya, ananya was crying ten times more than what she was doing today...at that time no one from her family blamed varsha for leaving her daughter.The whole fault doesn't lie with varsha...akshara bhi thodi galat thi...
She shld hv checked with varsha...afterall she is ananya's mom, she must hv planned smthing for her daughter. Akshara was over enthusiastic with ananya...the buble was going to burst someday and I think today was that day. She needed this jolt from someone close to her...and that person turned out to be varsha.
Looking at the precap I think varsha is going to say lot of nasty things which she is going to regret latter. Words once spoken can never b taken back. Isliye kehte hai bolne se pehle dus baar socho. They wl become frnds again but it wld never be the same...and thats the sad part of it.
Edited by Asawari_naksh - 14 years ago
--Sari-- thumbnail
19th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 14 years ago
#22
@nigo123
Thank you for your feedback😊 Maybe her intentions of saying "Mein maa hun, maa... " was for Akshara to realize that she was worried for her baby. But it certainly didn't look that way; the grabbing & the look she gave was more of "don't steal my baby" type...😕

Varsha wants selective help; in the early days she conveniently dumped the child on Rajsri saying Maa ko accha lagtha hai😕 Soon Rajsri became Ananya's maa & that is when Varsha didn't like it. Dadi & Shaurya noticed it too & picked on her but she in turn became upset w/Shaurya. Kids are parents responsibility, no questions on that one. You can take occasional help but that is where it should stop. Since it is a joint family, if you are a slacker others take over for you out of love & concern for the child. Objecting at that point is unreasonable🤢


Like she wanted to go for a movie, nothing wrong with it but not when the baby was a few weeks old If Varsha was nursing, the baby needs the mother😕 Yes, it can be frustrating changing diapers, feeding, changing, feeding combined w/no sleep... But it happens to everyone not just Varsha. There is an unexplainable bond; the baby starts crying when the mother is not around.

As a working mother, my child who was barely 3 months old would wait for me to return at exactly the same time every evening; nobody could calm the baby's unrest .How would one explain that? It's nature, an unexplainable connection God bestowed on his creation. If Varsha thought Shaurya was wrong in rebuking her so is she for rebuking Akshara. It's not like Akshara never told her she kept trying till she got hold of her; she didn't blindly trust Bindiya in this case, smart girl used her brains for a change👏

Best thing for Akshara to do is stay away from both Ananya & Varsha. When you have an adoring husband, what else do you want? Baby will come in no time...😆
Edited by FLGators - 14 years ago
Krinya thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 500 Thumbnail + 8

Team Critics

Posted: 14 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: FLGators

@nigo123
Thank you for your feedback😊 Maybe her intentions of saying "Mein maa hun, maa... " was for Akshara to realize that she was worried for her baby. But it certainly didn't look that way; the grabbing & the look she gave was more of "don't steal my baby" type...😕

Varsha wants selective help; in the early days she conveniently dumped the child on Rajsri saying Maa ko accha lagtha hai😕 Soon Rajsri became Ananya's maa & that is when Varsha didn't like it. Dadi & Shaurya noticed it too & picked on her but she in turn became upset w/Shaurya. Kids are parents responsibility, no questions on that one. You can take occasional help but that is where it should stop. Since it is a joint family, if you are a slacker others take over for you out of love & concern for the child. Objecting at that point is unreasonable🤢


Like she wanted to go for a movie, nothing wrong with it but not when the baby was a few weeks old If Varsha was nursing, the baby needs the mother😕 Yes, it can be frustrating changing diapers, feeding, changing, feeding combined w/no sleep... But it happens to everyone not just Varsha. There is an unexplainable bond; the baby starts crying when the mother is not around.

As a working mother, my child who was barely 3 months old would wait for me to return at exactly the same time every evening; nobody could calm the babies unrest .How would one explain that? It's nature, an unexplainable connection God bestowed on his creation. If Varsha thought Shaurya was wrong in rebuking her so is she for rebuking Akshara. It's not like Akshara never told her she kept trying till she got hold of her; she didn't blindly trust Bindiya in this case, smart girl used her brains for a change👏

Best thing for Akshara to do is stay away from both Ananya & Varsha. When you have an adoring husband, what else do you want. Baby will come in no time...😆


Sarita, i agree with whatever u said and nigo also..(sorry dun know ur name)...i wanna say much but dun have time

Varsha said the last sentence with whatever intention, Akshara and all others will take it in a wrong way that Akshara is being taunted...here, Varsha is wrong .. i know why my baby is crying but nobody else can guess..chahe meri ma ho ya ma ki ma...varsha thinks that it's okay to leave ananya with rajshri bec. she's an experienced mom but not akshara ! this is very very wrong..i have 2 kids but even i can't look after anybody else's child ! i dun know ab isko kya chahiye , why is she crying...i can't look after my sister's daughter for 2 mins...aur kisi ki baat chodo ! Hence, Akshara must not take Varsha's words too seriously, AND don't feel guilty abt the whole thing..even those small small incidents like baby should not be in standing position etc. etc. therez no need to feel guilty that she doesn't know anything bec. she's not a mom...


we must also stop sympathizing with Akshara...i understand she is going through a tough phase of her life but she has to be strong..she never did anything intentionally, nor did Varsha..she didn't give a "baby stealer" look to akshara 😆 she was genuinely disturbed...bhai, bache ka koi bhi kaam uski ma se pooch kar hi karo toh better hai.. i wud say it's not akshara's fault anywhere or varsha's like the promo said, mamta har ma ki kamzori hoti hai...she should have mind her words though since she knew akshara will be hurt..i'm sure she will apologize later...akshara needs to distance herself from ananya and get busy in some other activity...

@reguser, i loved ur post buddy 👏 wanted to say this from a long long time when i read a few comments on rajshri's defence...motherhood is overrated in YR..too much..too irritating ! rajshri, from the time akshara has married, she's doing akshara jaap non stop ! what is this ? a woman has so many other responsibilities , her home, husband, kitchen, her son, DIL, now her grand daughter, but here , din raat, sukh dukh, bas akshara, akshara akshara ! too much interference w/o any reason...even yest. aur kahi dhyan nahi hai bas akshara akshara ! somewhere Varsha will also not like it...if not now then later, she will feel bad...on the top of it , rajshri doesn't let her spend time with her mom !!! abhi uski saheli ne aana hai , kabhi she is missing varsha and rajkumari..when will both mothers stop babying their kids? gayitri doesn't stop at anything either ! till the time they do it, their kids will never grow up and learn to face the difficulties of their life !


466726 thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: FLGators

@nigo123
Thank you for your feedback😊 Maybe her intentions of saying "Mein maa hun, maa... " was for Akshara to realize that she was worried for her baby. But it certainly didn't look that way; the grabbing & the look she gave was more of "don't steal my baby" type...😕


Varsha wants selective help; in the early days she conveniently dumped the child on Rajsri saying Maa ko accha lagtha hai😕 Soon Rajsri became Ananya's maa & that is when Varsha didn't like it. Dadi & Shaurya noticed it too & picked on her but she in turn became upset w/Shaurya. Kids are parents responsibility, no questions on that one. You can take occasional help but that is where it should stop. Since it is a joint family, if you are a slacker others take over for you out of love & concern for the child. Objecting at that point is unreasonable🤢


Like she wanted to go for a movie, nothing wrong with it but not when the baby was a few weeks old If Varsha was nursing, the baby needs the mother😕 Yes, it can be frustrating changing diapers, feeding, changing, feeding combined w/no sleep... But it happens to everyone not just Varsha. There is an unexplainable bond; the baby starts crying when the mother is not around. As a working mother, my child who was barely 3 months old would wait for me to return at exactly the same time every evening; nobody could calm the babies unrest .How would one explain that? It's nature, an unexplainable connection God bestowed on his creation. If Varsha thought Shaurya was wrong in rebuking her so is she for rebuking Akshara. It's not like Akshara never told her she kept trying till she got hold of her; she didn't blindly trust Bindiya enough in this case, smart girl used her brains for a change👏


Best thing for Akshara to do is stay away from both Ananya & Varsha. When you have an adoring husband, what else do you want. Baby will come in no time...😆




Agree with U ...😃
Varsha is selective in her priority... her priority changes according to her convenience...😡 I am not saying Varsha was completely wrong here but she was not completely right as well...as some ppl would like to think...😃 We all know that Ananya is Varsha's baby and so do Akshara... Never ever has akshara mentioned Ananya as her baby, she was no way possesive abt the baby...😕 The only time akshara was with Ananya when Varsha visited singhania sadan with her baby...Akshara never visited maheshwari house just to meet ananya...and she never insisted naitik to take her to ananya... The only conclusion that I can come out with Varsha's outburst is she was not comfortable that akshara was taking care of the baby and she was with her all the time...it was not about akshara taking the baby away w/o telling varsha nor it was about ananya crying incessantly for milk or sleep as she told to akshara... It was all there deep inside and it came out ...

Akshara was also wrong...she shld have taken all those rude glances and remarks seriously...😡 She shld have considered varsha's feelings when she wore ananya the dress of her choice... She shld have told varsha before taking the baby at home...

I do understand Varsha's concern and insecurities over her baby... but the way she was speaking rather I would say shouting to akshara was completely wrong...😡 She did not kidnap her baby to be treated like that...😭
Edited by Asawari_naksh - 14 years ago
598558 thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#25
gr8 discussion going on...nice post sari...but at the end im happy akshi will realise and stop ananya jaap...and thnk god naitik was thr too...if varsha has said these things in alone then akshi will never come to know anyone...y dont singhania understand to send naksh on holiday...
sdhg thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: --Nishita--



Aisa hoga kya? I am sure Varsha will realise her mistake and apologise to Aksh and will make up for what she said... Aksh will be overwhelmed and will start will her baby jaap again. CVs should stop this now...its getting too much. They are dragging it so much

i think even after apologising akshi will maintain
distance.
466726 thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#27
I don't know why but I have this feeling and I never wanted it to happen...😔
This unfortunate incident has happened in the presence of all the family members...🤢 Akshara is not only best frnd of Varsha but she is her Nanand too. Akshara and Varsha might forget and move on...but it would not be same with the families involved. Naitik will not openly say it but akshara's hurt will hurt him more...😭 Rajshri is too much attached to akshara (the way varsha is behaving now) it would be difficult for her to forgive the person who has hurt her daughter esp.. when the person is her D-I-L...🤢 Gay3 ko chadhane ke liye there is bandariya and her mom...😡 They would brainwash her and gay3 will stop akshara's maayka indefinitely ...
It would take lot of time for things to heal and become normal ...😕
Edited by Asawari_naksh - 14 years ago
saman.17 thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Asawari_naksh

I don't know why but I have this feeling and I never wanted it to happen...😔

This unfortunate incident has happened in the presence of all the family members...🤢 Akshara is not only best frnd of Varsha but she is her Nanand too. Akshara and Varsha might forget and move on...but it would not be same with the families involved. Naitik will not openly say it but akshara's hurt will hurt him more...😭 Rajshri is too much attached to akshara (the way varsha is behaving now) it would be difficult for her to forgive the person who has hurt her daughter esp.. when the person is her D-I-L...🤢 Gay3 ko chadhane ke liye there is bandariya and her mom...😡 They would brainwash her and gay3 will stop akshara's maayka visit on immediate basis ...
It would take lot of time for things to become normal...😕

the way varsha snatched ananya from akshara & the way she was staring her😲feeling soo bad for akshara...😭 naitik bhi varsha ka exp dekhke ekdam shocked ho gaya tha just waiting for mon to c his reaction now he ll definitly tel akshara to stay away from ananya hope akshara naitik ki baat maanle jitna dur rahenge utna unki dosti ke liye accha hoga yeh cv's naksh ko kahi baahar kyun nhi bhej rahe hai...😡
466726 thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: saman.17

the way varsha snatched ananya from akshara & the way she was staring her😲feeling soo bad for akshara...😭 naitik bhi varsha ka exp dekhke ekdam shocked ho gaya tha just waiting for mon to c his reaction now he ll definitly tel akshara to stay away from ananya hope akshara naitik ki baat maanle jitna dur rahenge utna unki dosti ke liye accha hoga yeh cv's naksh ko kahi baahar kyun nhi bhej rahe hai...😡


Yeah Me too waiting for monday's epi...I want to know where varsha's ranting would stop... I also think its better for their frndship if they dont step on each others toes...😕 they both should maintain distance... and its better for us too...😆 as we wl see akshara with naitik rather than varsha...😆
.aastha. thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#30
1st of all,,,nyc post as usual👏 n very nyc discussion by all...👍🏼

nw cumin 2 da topic of watever is happening think lyk neither varsha nor akshara r in fault,,,both r reasonable in their places...bt the way varsha treated akshi is really very bad,,,,c shld nt had been so mch harsh with her...
cumin 2 da frenship of both varsha is not that mch loyal 2 it lyk that of akshara,,,akshi shared her pregnany news with her @ 1st(that was nt gud obviously...) bt varsha did nt bother 2 reveal that c was in luv with her brother😡...i know many tym has been 2 it bec its the 1st thing of which i m nt gettin in of their frenship n followin with dis all the stupid n foolish ideas which varsha used givin 2 her🤢🤢🤢,,,,,nw this incident will be definately playin a adverse effect on their relation n also rajshree n varshas relation...loosin a fren lyk akshi is worst part of varshas lyf,,,bec gettin a fren lyk her is a gods gift..😊

bt the main question is-is akshi definately goin 2 be strong after this incident?????😕😕 ya c may come out of ananya jaap,,,bt nt more than that...bec the people around her will never give 2 be her strong...🤢..every day a new outsider is there 2 remind her that she is nt on the race😡😡...wat will they get if akshi is pregnant or c gives birth 2 a child????? its all upto a couple n their famly so let them handle it why 2 boather that mch?????i cant denie frm the fact that this all happens in reality also bt dont think 2 dis extent,,akshi is gettin tauntin every moment...

n wat alll rubbish that babli was chatterin yest,,,,that akshi dont want baby or what😡😡...having baby in jst within 9 mths of marriage dont prove that u r fond of babies,,,,c cld c infront of her eyes that hw mch akshi is lovin n carin 2wards ananya,,,,then also c is tellin that🤢🤢
hw can akshi forget all things within all this circumstances??may be c may act she is ok infront of naitik n family bt the wound which is inside her will nt be healing so soon...
Edited by aditi7 - 14 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".