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Posted: 14 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: FLGators


@bold - If our parents never pushed us, how many of us would have been educated? School hi nahi jaate...😆 Naithik being an MBA should instill that in her, padai kitni jaroori hoti hai for your personal betterment. Haan, they are rich so they don't need bahu to work. But is not just about kaam karna; it opens your horizon, your thinking expands beyond rasoi.


Chalo, kam se kam uska passion hi follow karthi. Go for music classes; DJ ke liye naya bhajan...🤣 Yeh khana pakana bahut ho gaya. Google/Sanjeev Kapoor shows ke zamane mein koyi cooking classes jatha hai?😲 All cooking classes may be going out of business but Akshara ko mushkil se admission...🤣


I totally agree about the education part. Education It is not just for looking for job. Somehow, I feel education (in any form) should be a part of one's life through out. That way we become better year by year. It may be difficult when the kids are small. But, not difficult for Akshara or for mothers who have grown up children. Yes, during our initial years our parents were pushing us to study. But in higher education, we have the choice of subjects and we can pursue our interest.

Even I found the cooking class part very hilarious. 😆 There are 1000 cookery shows on TV. By the way we havent seen TV in Singhania/Maheshwari mansions.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: smrth

@ FlGators,

Well put all along,👏 especially hard hitting just as habitual mediocrity creeps in along with habitual overstretches😃...though must say, in this round, overstretching itself is not so out of place...a lingering knot and attending tribulations or its tackling are still in route, but manufactured Bindiya pregnancy or engineered Varsha are not. In this context your hilarious parody is analyzing the scenario most aptly👏...Butting in late and possibly repeating some already observed points...just indulge...😊


  • Cvs are deliberately positioning Varsha in an offensive rudeness mode, Just as Dj was showed too mean and stingy (with excusable injuries) ' almost as inconsistent-so is now Varsha. The character is stretched to buttress the vulnerability of the Leads- a kind of pushed at receiving end of insensitivity.
  • That said, objectively, from what has been showed, Varsha does come across inconsiderate. And rude to BOTH. For first time, she completely disregards Naitik's presence in her fit- almost co accusing him. This is very unusual, for she had always been showed deferential to SIL of the house. Her insensitivity has extra edge of incredulity, for it was she, who'd first adduced Ananya as a healing touch.
  • So far, she'd been irritating many a times, with almost condescending attitude to her husband, sometimes making one wonder, were Nani's pragmatic observations had some grain w.r.t. her?😆...though of course over done. But to akshi, she'd been always redeeming positive- all the more inconsistent today.😕
  • Looks like, their primary goal is to further emphasize an irreplaceable interdependence of a couple, outlasting even those who are nearest or dearest. How intensely close will they meld ahead?😳 Till a point of singularity?!😆
  • There is a slightest chance- a BTish twist😲 (and hence almost unlikely here- thank god😃). Is Varsha deliberately rude to her closest friend? A shock therapy- to jolt her into a lasting mettle. If so, a very unusual jolt.😕 But then built in Bindiya conversation or unprepared Anaya would have been too circumstantial (or red Herring) to consider such twist. So better, dropping it from outset.
  • In the end, your suggestion, 'Radhe 'Krishna Varsha Bhabi', Akshara and Naitik simultaneously, would be a high point of this Varsha ruckus⭐️...But then how would they prolong!?...😆

Once again, it was treat to read the post...


Thank you @smrth... Your feedback is always valuable, der se hi sahi👏 Much has been made of Varsha's insecurities. I just don't get it, like there was a talk about adoption or like Akshara was a surrogate mother? It barely has been 2 or 3 days YR time & Akshara has met the girl on 3 different occasions; a mother feels insecure w/just 3 days of attention from her bua?😲

  • People in Udaipur really need to get out more often, at least the M's & S's😆 Parents leave their kids in daycare, babysitters, etc where there is a possibility of neglect/abuse. Here Varsha is complaining about Akshara showering her child w/love😕
  • Yes, Akshara was wrong, a little too intrusive with all the Ananya rut. Varsha tried showing her displeasure but by now Varsha knows, Akshara never gets hints. College dropout, Varsha's notes were her lifeline...
  • Can Varsha not step in & stop her, have a little chat? Nahi Akshara mujhe yeh dress zyaada pasand hai or I got this specially for this occasion, end of story. Why would Akshara take offense? Knowing Akshara, she would simply say sorry to both Anaya & Varsha😆 They talk about their personal lives, husband ki burai/acchai on a daily basis; how would this conversation any different?😕
  • Varsha needs to be mindful of the fact that this may affect the family relations. This is her s-i-l's sasural who are very traditional & maintained their ladkewaale status. Varsha was screaming at her with a total disregard for Naithik. He was also an accomplice in the whole Ananya saga...😆Wasn't it Varsha's & subsequently Naithik's idea to begin with?
  • Where is the respect for Jamaisa? Shaurya although older than Naithik always treated him w/great respect & he was very subtle when he accused Naithik during the Shivratri incident. Naithik chose to hide it from his parents to avoid conflicts.
  • I hope she doesn't utter anything stupid today Whether it was intentional, only CV's have the answer but I believe what is in your subconscious always comes to the surface when you are angry or you're drunk😆

Naithik has been showing great maturity in the last few months; & I expect a classy Naithik to surface here. He needs to show his badapan in all of this & Varsha rightly needs to feel embarrassed. Akshara needs to distance herself from both the mother & daughter & concentrate on her future.

Edited by FLGators - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: _charu_

kuch time nahi milta 😆 i have to look after the house, kitchen, 2 kids, IF all at the same time 😭after 2nd baby i've become very weak, kaam nahi hota... hats off to u guys, u do everything w/o a support system...i've become a prisoner...i can't go out for little things which i want...i have to wait for my baby to sleep..abhi yest. i went out for an hour, uski dadi golgappa ban gayi 😆 krisha was not sleeping, kitchen ka kaam blah blah 🤢 all dadi's r not like rajshri...aajkal ki dadi's say ke apna bacha sambhal ho jaise bhi, don't trouble us..n if u insist, u will hear "ah, my back is paining today" too often 😆 mine says "mujhe toh chakkar aa rahe hai, mujhe toh kuch ho raha hai"🤣 sometimes i get very jealous ke life serial jaisi kyun nahi hoti 😭 sabzi bhi maharajji le aate hai 😭 bana bhi dete hai, khila bhi dete hai 😭 roz bas saaree n jewellery pehen ki baith jao 😆 raat ko hubby sar dabayega ! 😍 mujhe koi badam milk nahi poochta 😭
meri story varsha se milti hai 😲😆 nahi varsha is far better than me...varsha toh shouted at akshara, i dun see whoz in front of me when i'm angry ...

YR mein sab co-incidence hi hota hai🤢 remember the shivratri episode? itna crowded tha ke Singhania's hi nazar nahi aaye 🤣 after a min. all were staring at naksh doing pooja...ananya was abs fine , ekdum se rone lagi when she saw the crowd i just hope EK baar toh maate stops talking to varsha 😆 n complain n complain...




Itna stress muth lo yaar...not good at all for yourself or everyone around you. Kyonki, most likely you if you are like me you will take it out on the kids or the husband. Itna tension lekhe tumhara dhimak bhi kharab & then your health too will be compromised.

Thoda kaam ko kissi aur ko delegate karo, I meant servants not maaji😆 Apne liye thoda time nikhalo, bahut zaroori hai. Haan, humhe sab karna padtha hai but that is because we don't have a choice. Mein tho every day ek ghanta for my workouts, only thing that keeps me sane & cheerful😆 Since I can't hit the gym w/kids; ghar mein hi kar lethi hun. Aisa hi kuch karo; it relieves the stress.

Aaj dekha nahi but hopefully we don't have to see the maate-Varsha bout anymore but Bindiya track aur bhi pakao hai Kya kare, humhara kaun suntha hai? 🤢


Edited by FLGators - 14 years ago

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