ditto ! she's very childish...firstly you must never judge a person by meeting him once..to know someone it may take a lifetime...for a marriage, thoughts and nature must match, not habits interests and hobies..wh bhi nature doesn't match 100%...50% is enuf......everybody's habits r different//what u must see is that he gives you the freedom to do what u like or no.......did rashmi ask him if she can continue her studies? isn't that important? did she ask him what r his expectations from her? yes, from all that she can make a proper decision....
just bec. he doesn't like to watch movies & socialize, he's rejected? the first and foremost thing is that you're getting a secure future for urself and ur children ..if u get love from your husband then you don't want anything else in life.......the husband is out the whole day..stupid female watch as many movies as u want and chat with ur friends....why is rashmi complaining? what about her family? are they so liberal ? did they ever allow her to do all this stuff? trust me, when u meet that person na who does all that u like, you start asking for all the other things..specially discipline and seriousness..even that is very very imp. to lead a good life....like if rashmi married mohit (whoz her type) , she wud still be cribbing that there r no servants in the house, no luxery, travel by auto rickshaw , no future for kids ! phir kya karegi movie dekhkar saath mein or discussing ur fav. hero or heroine? teenagers never think abt the practicalities of marriage which their parents do..they r more experienced so it's safe to invest our trust in them (not in singhania's case bec. they didn't check the boy properly, even if he's good..they're liking shadi honi chahiye, kisi se bhi ho..just like rajshri)
tell me, naksh ke hobbies , interests, nature is similar? all their habits n thinking r same? therez so much ego problem b/w the two..moreover, everything changes after marriage and akshara became an amma and naitik remained that rangeela grumpy naitik..
Edited by _charu_ - 14 years ago
