rashmi....... - Page 2

Originally posted by: rani712

Ok I respect everyone's opinions... but I dont think the boy and rashmi woudl ever click.

This is because.. i feel that he just wants a wife because the family said so.. someone that owuld stay at home.. not interfere with his sceduled life and just for the sake of the family. Like for godsake.. its your life partner.. he said yes W/o talking to her?? I though he was modern since he handles the entire family business works so hard. Also I know the financial situation matters and how educated you are does matter too.. BUT you have to click with the person. These people are soo different.. atleast in Naksh's case.. they talked... though their 1st meeting was a huge failure with teh argument about who is a better actor.. they had something common to talk about... With this guy... OMG so lonely... just cares for work... and thats it!!!
Its odd.. I dunno maybe thats the 1st impression he made... maybe he is actually different in real life.. I guess yes rashmi is making a decision too quickly.. maybe they should wait a bit.. meet again or whatever.

Originally posted by: moonlight08

yeah.. wat u r saying is rite.. the first question suraj asked rashmi was.. "wat was her favourite subject".. c'mon now.. u can't talk about this very first tym u meet.. yes.. studies is a nyc topic to start of with a conversation.. but.. favourite subject.?? rashmi actually got pissed of rite after dis.. the first impression was not very impressing.. wat happened during naitik-akshara.. naitik was highly impressed with the quite.. shy akshara.. akshara too was impressed by naitik wen he called her to noe her views on this marriage.. but.. rashmi n suraj.?? dnt think both of them are impressed by each other.. i agree with @rani on this.. suraj.. ebing educated.. shud hav at least talked to rashmi before saying yes for it.. it was rashmi who took the initiative.. n i dnt think dis is rite.. suraj shud hav at least tried to talk to her once.. restaurant mein baithne ko bhi rashmi ne bola.. kya vo lega vo bhi usi ne bola.. or suraj ne apna muh khola.. to favourite subject ke bare mein pooch lia..

the guy doesn't lyk socialising much.. but.. if he really wanted to be with rashmi.. he wud hav told her.. i can change myself a lil bit for u.. but.. by his conversations.. he looked lyk a workaholic.. biwi to sirf tym pass ke lie rakhni hai..

Originally posted by: _charu_

kamudi, after watching monday's episode i'm totally convinced that rashmi is very immature...and her maha intelligent bhabhi is supporting her instead of explaining her..her stupid mom wants to break the rishta without giving a 2nd try 🤢 I'd like to know Sooraj's pov..he's totally sidelined..doesn't he have a view or choice ??

before marriage the prospective grooms and brides can never understand what it needs for a happy & contended life...they have their list of demands..boy should be smart handsome rich , , he should have good sense of humor , his interests must match mine..same with the boy..the girl should be beautiful intelligent educated homely etc. etc. but you hardly meet someone who matches to ur expectation perfectly...even if you think he/she does, after marriage u realize this is not what i asked for...bec. therez a flip side of everything...only when you live with that person you can figure out..in a way marriage is a gamble...at the end of the day it all depends on how much adjustment the girl and boy can make...this i'm talking in normal circumstances..when girls like rashmi talk this way toh obviously everyone will think "look whoz talking" !! what about her own family? how much freedom did they give to her bhabhi? her bhabhi and dada both like to watch movies but r they allowed to socialize or holiday ?? how much freedom was she given? her mom has a view that bahus must work in the kitchen and son must go out to earn..and it's not in our culture ke they watch movies or go on honeymoon! and here she's crying that the boy doesn't watch movies toh he's rejected ! 🤢

with this logic, naitik should have rejected akshara long back ! bec. she always opposes him. they r 2 very very different individuals...and even if they r compatible in some respects, the family angle spoils everything n they r at loggerheads every 2nd day....