Written update-22nd jan. - Page 7

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

I don't know how some of you here are saying Akshara did the wrong thing by leaving home that night.

Imagine for a second that Akshara's sasural was a happy and beautiful home, something like the Maheshwari's. Everyone loved and doted on her and trusted her like they all should. But then Mr. Naitik-stupid-Singhania has a misunderstanding and does jhagra with his wife. And then he tells her, I don't love you anymore...you better leave the house coz I really don't care. Akshara runs after her and asks if he meant it, but he only shoves her aside. So then what? Akshara should still live in that house?

When you're not wanted, or hated, by the person you love...you don't care about other things/people. Akshara did not leave because she was acting according to his 'wish' like some of you said, she left because Naitik said (in different words) I don't want you here. I think she did the right thing. Totally. And now if the Singhanias still don't understand her, and still blame her, I will just say that they don't deserve her as bahu.

Nu, are u married? Do u have a boy fr ? U ans these then I'll answer all your qs dear. Today it is kind of late for me but surely I'll answer u over the weekend. 😃

For now.....Getting married brings an entire network of protections and responsibilities, both tangible and intangible, that affect you and your loved ones in every area of life, literally from birth to death, with taxes in between 😆

Originally posted by: Tafseer

ab TRP kaise nahi hogi........use toh hona hi hai.......coz we by 9:30 are found near our TVs....ab khush hokar dekhe ya gaali de dekar........the thing is that we r watching it.........n so resulting the show to be in charts........2day also, abbu was calling me 4 dinner but i ignored him n tortured myself.......n Dimri ko man bhar ke gaali de rahe the.........so m contributing to the TRP na...... 😡 😡

they partly have an advantage with that time slot...everyone is winding down and have nothing better than TV at that time...maybe there is also no other good serial at that time...or some ppl like us just can stop watching 🤣

Nobody seems to be angry with nandini now...they treat her properly. Why couldnt they do the same with Akshara? Didnt they ever think of her as their own? Didnt she mean anything to them...None of them asked Akshara why she took such a step...what made her take Nandini's side...nothing of that sort happened. Yes, Akshara could have still told others why she took such a step but none were willing to even listen to her. DJ, being the eldest should have handled the situation more maturely. Fine, he was angry but ask her why she did that? She was ignored, humiliated etc. She wasnt given any love and she went around begging for forgiveness yet she didnt get it....now they are angry with her for leaving the house. What do they expect her to do? Akshara never thought of leaving the house...that thought never occurred to her. Naitik was the one who made her feel unwanted and asked her to leave. She told Varsha that today...mera dil toot gaya us waqt. Akshara is only 19 years old...her whole world came crashing down in those few minutes. If she had waited till morning anf then told Naitik that she was leaving...his reaction wouldnt have been any different. Gayatri would have probably black mailed her and stopped her but she would have still been ignored and hated by all 💔.

Akshara has been shown to argue only with Naitik...not in front of anybody else. It will be totally out of sync with her character had she shouted from the roof top justifying her actions.

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

they partly have an advantage with that time slot...everyone is winding down and have nothing better than TV at that time...maybe there is also no other good serial at that time...or some ppl like us just can stop watching 🤣

I will go for the last option....people cant stop watching. I tune in every single day with the hope that they will show something good...lets see kab tak chalega 😃

thanks for the update ...gave todays episode a miss🥱

such a boring episode.......but cheers for the update

This is one of the most appropriate and correct posts I've read in this forum (and I've read quite a lot!). Very well said.

And in reply to 5cents, I am engaged to be married. :)
And let me just add to that, that I am a very traditional girl and I love upholding my family values. I will do anything for my (future) in-laws and will happily give them love in the unfortunate event of them hating/insulting me. When I love someone I love without conditions. It's not that I will only care as long as you care for me! BUT, the moment I realize my husband doesn't want me anymore or has stopped loving me or doubts me or doesn't trust me, I will give up. That's how love works. If Naitik had understood her and supported her through thick and thin (and it's not even as if Akshara had done something WRONG, she only wanted the Singhania daughter to have a happy, normal life unlike everyone else who treat Nandini like a handicap), she could've definitely fought every problem in life. That's how it is. And I fully support Akshara's leaving the house the way she did! I mean, what would've she told Gayatri and the others?
"Ma, your son doesn't love me anymore and I can't handle that because I need him more than anyone else??" Lol...how many people talk so openly about their feelings, especially to someone who have NEVER understood them?

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

Nobody seems to be angry with nandini now...they treat her properly. Why couldnt they do the same with Akshara? Didnt they ever think of her as their own? Didnt she mean anything to them...None of them asked Akshara why she took such a step...what made her take Nandini's side...nothing of that sort happened. Yes, Akshara could have still told others why she took such a step but none were willing to even listen to her. DJ, being the eldest should have handled the situation more maturely. Fine, he was angry but ask her why she did that? She was ignored, humiliated etc. She wasnt given any love and she went around begging for forgiveness yet she didnt get it....now they are angry with her for leaving the house. What do they expect her to do? Akshara never thought of leaving the house...that thought never occurred to her. Naitik was the one who made her feel unwanted and asked her to leave. She told Varsha that today...mera dil toot gaya us waqt. Akshara is only 19 years old...her whole world came crashing down in those few minutes. If she had waited till morning anf then told Naitik that she was leaving...his reaction wouldnt have been any different. Gayatri would have probably black mailed her and stopped her but she would have still been ignored and hated by all 💔.

Akshara has been shown to argue only with Naitik...not in front of anybody else. It will be totally out of sync with her character had she shouted from the roof top justifying her actions.

Originally posted by: 5cents

Good Job Pinky :). I was on a call so was saved fr the torture. <font size="3" face="Times New Roman"><br>Mata G & Munna? Kaun si washing-machine mein phenkoo in do broom-sticks ko?</font>

i'm surprised nobody like yest. episode..i liked the last 3 episodes very much..

Tina, I'm pissed off with this mother-son pair now...in reality, i don't think any girl will be able to survive where there r mother son like these 2..i really hate to say this bec. i always liked gayitri's character but yest. i lost all my affection for her...i dun understand SHE is like this bec. of Naitik or HE is like this, bec. of Gayitri 😡 she's become Lady Dhritrashtra ! she's totally blinded in her son's love tht she cannot see right or wrong....she's forgotten that she's a woman first, then a bahu, a wife , a mother and a mother in law !!!!!!!


Just bec. it's Naitik's marzi, she doesn't want to take Aksh back..knowing tht he's wrong, he's behaving arrogant, rude and childish, she's still supporting him , for PURE selfish reasons tht SHE has zero affection for Aksh and she cud never develop tht bond with Aksh, never accept her with open heart bec. she had to share her son with Akshara She's teaching Aksh the duties of bahu? 🤢 HER duty as a mom was to bring Akshara back EVEN if Naitik didn't wanted bec. Akshara a member of the family & his wife..it was her duty to save her son's marriage from breaking and his relationship with his wife deteriorating ! it was HER duty to ensure that the differences are resolved & misunderstandings are cleared, at least LET THEM TALK ONCE..at least make 1 effort to talk to Akshara and ask her calmly what all happened....Her duty as a Singhania BAHU was to bring Akshara back and save Aksh's parents and her own family from further humiliation and explain both of them tht husband and wife should resolve their differences in their bedrooms and not in front of the society !



If yest. she'd said na ke husband and wife must solve their problems on their own, we must not interfere, it was more logical..the way she behaved, it was clear tht she wants Akshara back in the house just to show "pados ki aurtein" ke their bahu is still with them..so that THEIR OWN mistakes don't come out in open, so that others don't know how THEY behaved with Akshara..how Naitik behaved with Akshara....Aksh should be happy tht she didn't go..

I'm surprised all the fools are saying "kuch karo bahu ko wapas lao" and none of them are doing anything to bring her back..at least talk to her once and try to explain her if they cannot explain their moron son ! it's disheartening that all of them want Aksh back for their family izzat and none of them have any affection towards Akshara or care abt her parent's feelings 😭 in this scenario , it's better aksh stays back at her home & forget abt these thankless ppl..try to move on with her life..

in this respect, Bidai is much better..Sadhna's maamaji at least slammed her in laws and took out his frustration on them..and now Sadi will be working ..at least it's going in the right direction..girls stepping out of their houses n becoming independent..it's better than watching saas bahu & family misunderstandings crap 🤢

Originally posted by: Nishitah512

Nobody seems to be angry with nandini now...they treat her properly. Why couldnt they do the same with Akshara? Didnt they ever think of her as their own? Didnt she mean anything to them...None of them asked Akshara why she took such a step...what made her take Nandini's side...nothing of that sort happened. Yes, Akshara could have still told others why she took such a step but none were willing to even listen to her. DJ, being the eldest should have handled the situation more maturely. Fine, he was angry but ask her why she did that? She was ignored, humiliated etc. She wasnt given any love and she went around begging for forgiveness yet she didnt get it....now they are angry with her for leaving the house. What do they expect her to do? Akshara never thought of leaving the house...that thought never occurred to her. Naitik was the one who made her feel unwanted and asked her to leave. She told Varsha that today...mera dil toot gaya us waqt. Akshara is only 19 years old...her whole world came crashing down in those few minutes. If she had waited till morning anf then told Naitik that she was leaving...his reaction wouldnt have been any different. Gayatri would have probably black mailed her and stopped her but she would have still been ignored and hated by all 💔.

Akshara has been shown to argue only with Naitik...not in front of anybody else. It will be totally out of sync with her character had she shouted from the roof top justifying her actions.

I completely agree with u Nishi but I still stick to my opinion tht Aksh shouldn't have left that way...bec. SHE DID NOT WANT TO ! if Aksh wants na, i'll give her a pat on her back for asking divorce also ! now what's the use of her leaving when she's crying remembering them and wants them to take her back? If she didn't wanna leave then she wud have stayed there n tried to sort out the differences ..now her parents will face the humiliation whether aksh was right or wrong, she will be wronged ! 😭

again Aksh did the same mistake of not telling anything at the appropriate time...she still doesn't understand baat ka matlab badal jaata hai in the way it's told and when !