Naksh's Perception of Love..... - Page 3

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

The whole show started off with one message :

Akshara is DUMB, Varsha is SMART.

And from this basic info the story of YRKKH unfolds. All Akshara's 'mistakes' at the Singhania Zoo were because of that...she was never taught how to deal with messy situations. But all Naitik supporters have forgotten - AKSHARA ALWAYS MEANT WELL!

Now compare this with everything Naitik has so beautifully done - broadcasted the news on BBC, broke off the engagement in the worst possible way, accused and screamed at Akshara without ever trying to understand that she has always wished well for his family and there must be a reason she did all this, made sure everyone in the house HATES her, and finally throwing her out of the house and then pretending like Akshara left because SHE WAS MAD!

Unless someone enjoys being molested, hated, neglected, abused, misunderstood and yelled at like an animal, I see NO REASON why any word supporting Naitik should be uttered. 😃

Hi Nu.....welcome to the forum! Which one of us doesn't want Naitik and Aksh to get back together? None I am sure. Why? Cos there is true love between them...or so we believe. And it is such a rare commodity. At the end of the day if you can't let go just lock your ego & walk hand in hand towards the sunrise. Yesterday, both were pining for one another.

Naitik is responsible for all her tears, and he has broken her heart, but she knew what she has signed up for from the very beginning. Rewind college days .....the unknown guy's kissa & the wedding days (fr mehendi to shaadi) RR's kissa......so Aksh very well knows abt his ego, anger & stubbornness. Aksh is quite aware abt his intensity too. Yes,this is something on which all of you will concur. Naitik is intense. Period. And he is intense about everything which touches his life. Be it his love for G ma, his affection for his friend or his disdain for RR or his extreme love & now hatred for Aksh. He is highly opinioned. I think that when these types of character fall in love they always love deeper and are very passionate. In real life i don't think i can work well with this type of character because i would be faced to deal with his hurt and anger and setting myself up for a heartache.

What exactly is going on in Naitik's mind…..it is a jumble right now. He is in rage, angst, shock and disillusionment. The one & only person he loved, betrayed him totally….kept him in dark. Naitik venting fire & fury on the hapless and unfortunate Akshara was heart breaking. Well, now that Aksh has left he has realized it was futile to try to keep hurting her, because it boomeranged on him. He is getting suffocated with his own angst against her, but he is not getting any respite, because he has lost trust in her, thus in himself. The day Naitik will realize the simple fact that he has to trust his wife coz he loves her, his sanity and happiness, his peace of mind and his home, truly lies with her, he'll be the most peaceful man on the planet! Till then, his demons will continue to tear him apart.

Everybody's got good and bad sides to them, and that's why Naitik is so fascinating. Most, and I mean most indian tele serials characters are soooo unrealistic. Either totally white, or totally black. Naitik bucks that trend😎.……..just my 5cents

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

U HAD WRITTEN A BEAUTIFUL PASSAGE, n I agree with every word u said..........<FONT size=3>except </FONT>your LAST comment.....which i think is way off -line.....n uncalled for........

WE ARE ALL TRYING TO PUT FORTH OUR VIEWPOINTS regarding fictitious people.......not trying to attack each other's personal lives.......

....anyways....all are entitled to their own opinions , i guess, so r u...... ( i mean no offence ) ....

......cheers.....😃

renu , seriously i cannot understand this mentality,.....if xyz likes someone, kisi ko kya problem ho sakti hai..plz go on and prove to the world otherwise but still nobody can change my opinion coz it's mine. nor am i trying to change anybody else's ! or i have a problem..thanks. i cannot be a part of this discussion...going on a break this week...

Originally posted by: sanw

I dont understan what naitik is upto.

naitiks actions cant be justified

Well, you say Naitik's action can't be justified agreed but then Aksh actions also can't be rationalized.......why did she leave at the middle of the night ......she could have told G ma & left in the morning ......your son has asked me to leave......."auf wiedersehen" 😛 Calling it quits is no solution ......but heck all the drama lies in all these silly misunderstandings

As you all said that Aksh left as Naitik asked her to......then why was she so impatiently waiting for his phone call.......what was she thinking 6 hours of separations & munna will come down on his knees & take her back huh.....even after she saw his ruthlessness, unreasonable, ego-centric side............she continued loving him, because she wanted to love him and wanted him to love her. And she will continue doing so............because as I said before she doesn't know anything apart from loving him & vice versa! Aksh is the only one who can stand upto Naitik, scream and yelled at him, made him see counterpoints to every point she had. And after all the drama Ms.Dimri will make munna understand all this. He got attracted to her in the first sight, and fell in love with her. And he can hurt her but will never destroy her, may rubbish her but will never tear her apart or mutilate her soul coz both of them love each other...their love is insane!! Pyar tho pyar he hai dear 😳

Women like Aksh might exist in real life.........but I personally do not know of any of them.....and if I did know, I wouldn't relate to them one bit! Love is but a matter of choice, how much one is willing to give himself, how much one is willing to lose himself and how much one is willing to destruct himself for it..............the intensity differs, but the sentiment is the same.

Lets see what MS. Dimri has in store for us 😉

Originally posted by: 5cents

<br>Well, you say Naitik's action can't be justified agreed but then Aksh actions also can't be rationalized.......why did she leave at the middle of the night ......she could have told G ma & left in the morning ......your son has asked me to leave......."auf wiedersehen" 😛 Calling it quits is no solution ......but heck all the drama lies in all these silly misunderstandings<br><br><font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">As you all said that Aksh left as Naitik asked her to......then why was she so impatiently waiting for his phone call.......what was she thinking 6 hours of seperations & munna will come down on his knees & take her back huh.....even after she
saw his ruthlessness, unreasonable, ego-centric side............she continued loving him, because she
wanted to love him and wanted him to love her.</font><font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif"> And she will
continue doing so............because as I said before she
doesn't know anything apart from loving him & vice versa! </font><font size="3" face="Times New Roman"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">Aksh is the only one who can stand upto Naitik, scream and yelled at him, made him see counterpoints to everypoint she had. And after all the drama Ms.Dimri will make munna undrstand all this.
He got attracted to her in the first sight, and fell in love with
her. </font></font><font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">And he can hurt her but will never destroy her, may rubbish her but will never tear her apart or mutilate her soul coz both of them love each other...their love is insane!! Pyar tho pyar he hai dear😳</font>

<font size="3" face="Times New Roman">Women like Aksh might exist
in real life.........but I personally do not know of any of
them.....and if I did know, I wouldn't relate to them one bit! Love is
but a matter of choice, how much one is willing to give himself, how
much one is willing to lose himself and how much one is willing to
destruct himself for it..............the intensity differs, but the
sentiment is the same. <br></font>

<font size="3" face="Times New Roman">Lets see what MS. Dimri has in store for us 😉<br></font>

yeps..turn her letter into a musical piece and sing it instead of the regular ramcharitmanas 🤣

Originally posted by: _charu_

renu , seriously i cannot understand this mentality,.....if xyz likes someone, kisi ko kya problem ho sakti hai..plz go on and prove to the world otherwise but still nobody can change my opinion coz it's mine. nor am i trying to change anybody else's ! or i have a problem..thanks. i cannot be a part of this discussion...going on a break this week...

Renu & Charu, thx for the support hun😃. Yup, I'm just trying to have a discussion here without taking sides. I have learn't to block off the non essentials 😉 Babes, to err or attack is human to forgive feels great😃. There is indeed deep hole in Creatives creative cauldron hence the characters are getting so jumbled & situation so messy. All the drama lies in Aksh's tears & Naitik's broken heart.....😭🤢

I get all your points supporting Aksh 😃. The basis for any successful relationship is not just true love, its respect , sharing and understanding too. How much of it do we see in Naitik & Aksh?😕 Both are immature & insane & creatives are making them illogical😡😡 All this is good to read, to see in serials, or watch in movies. Fiction always hits on our emotional nerve, it converts our fantasies to real images, hence we fall for that. But real life is different ......sp we married people here know that😃. A woman wont live without her self respect. Living without self respect is like living without a soul. You can do without love, but not without your own honor. But then I feel nobody can ruin my self respect it is all in ones hand😃

I've said this in the past and will say it again that even though Naitik went too far with his reactions, the bottom line is that Akshara is more at fault for handling the situation the way she did with Naitik...I dont care wht she does with the dinos but she let the MUs develop and grow with the lies between the 2 of them and that grew into this monster between them...he is sad & angry & said wht he said but wht she did was unpardonable....no 1 walks out of the house unless u r sure to break the relationship...and here she expects a call from them the very next day!!!! if there is love, then forgive and continue to love...time is the best healer in these situations but by walking away she crossed that thin line of trust..

Originally posted by: 5cents

<br><br>Renu & Charu, thx for the support hun😃. Yup, I'm just trying to have a discussion here without taking sides. I have learn't to block off the non essentials 😉 Babes, to err or attack is human to forgive feels great😃. There
is indeed deep hole in Creatives creative cauldron hence the characters
are getting so jumbled & situation so messy. All the drama lies in Aksh's tears & Naitik's broken heart.....😭🤢<br><font size="3" face="Times New Roman"><font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><br>I get all your points supporting Aksh 😃. The
basis for any successful relationship is not just true love, its
respect , sharing and understanding too. How much of it do we see in Naitik & Aksh?😕</font></font></font><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> Both are immature & insane & creatives are making them illogical😡😡 All
this is good to read, to see in serials, or watch in movies. Fiction
always hits on our emotional nerve, it converts our fantasies to real
images, hence we fall for that. But real life is different ......sp we married people here know that😃. A woman wont
live without her self respect. Living without self respect is like
living without a soul. You can do without love, but not without your
own honor.</font><font size="2" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">
But then I feel nobody can ruin my self respect it is all in ones hand</font>😃<br><br>

tina, it's so sad tht nobody understands 😭 😃 ke i want to watch a transformed & a stronger Akshara , what cud possibly be wrong with this "sanyasin Mother Teresa" 🤣 she's a saint..she can never be wrong ! she can only act dumb & foolish..

Tina aaj again i saw tht something in naitik's eyes..whats with this guy 😕 😕 😛 you and me will be again proved right 👍🏼 i think his family needs to grow up more than him..if they act like elders, a lot will change in Singhania house..

our volcano is silent now..after 2 weeks or eruption, finally...i hope it become dormant and extinct now 🤢

Nice Topic and some good discussion going on.....
Sad to see where the serial is now....
kahan hum honeymoon dekhne ki wait kar rahe the aur yahan judaai aa gaayi....
Both of them handled the situation with immaturity and i hope after all this they'll learn something from this and come out as GROWN UP'S and stop behaving as kids

Originally posted by: _charu_

tina, it's so sad tht nobody understands 😭 😃 ke i want to watch a transformed & a stronger Akshara , what cud possibly be wrong with this "sanyasin Mother Teresa" 🤣 she's a saint..she can never be wrong ! she can only act dumb & foolish..

Tina aaj again i saw tht something in naitik's eyes..whats with this guy 😕 😕 😛 you and me will be again proved right 👍🏼 i think his family needs to grow up more than him..if they act like elders, a lot will change in Singhania house..

our volcano is silent now..after 2 weeks or eruption, finally...i hope it become dormant and extinct now 🤢

Originally posted by: sks7

Nice Topic and some good discussion going on.....
Sad to see where the serial is now....
kahan hum honeymoon dekhne ki wait kar rahe the aur yahan judaai aa gaayi....
Both of them handled the situation with immaturity and i hope after all this they'll learn something from this and come out as GROWN UP'S and stop behaving as kids