Naksh's Perception of Love.....

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.

Kahlil Gibran

It just suits Naksh rite now :)

Well, Naitik is very supportiuve husband plus a dutiful beta but now he feels cheated. Trust me, it only takes one lie .......how unintentional to turn a loving heart away. Here the sensitivity is higher as it involves a loving couple, a best friend and a dutiful didi. According to me both are at fault..... tali tho dono hatho se he bajti hai na......but then to err is human :) .

Naitik's best friend falling in love with his di is one shock & he is shattered beyond belief
as his love, support, life & confidante Aksh has hid such a big thing from him. And only because of his King-size ego, which is bruised & hurt very badly is not permitting his senses to just go and speak to the lady in question herself and clarify all his doubts. Naitik has surely committed a huge blunder by unwittingly putting Akshara through hell, by accusing her in front of all his dino family members.Naitik is surely an immature, impulsive, peppery, intractable, impervious and tremendously egoistical individual. But he nevertheless still loves her as before.That is where the difference in a man & a woman's perception of love lies. Love for man is one part of his life and Love for a woman is her whole life. Naitik is ready to burn in his personal hell, hating and yet pining for Aksh (rewind wedding days), but he is not ready to face upto the fact that Aksh has actually betrayed his trust and that he should ask for an explanation from her.

Instead if it would have been Aksh who would have been in Naitik's situation, she would have cried her heart-out in front of Naitik, accused him, screamed on him'..but would have come out and asked HIM directly why did he hide such a big thing from her and not go round-about the whole issue (rewind suhagraat).

But all said and done, I still feel Aksh leaving the house at the middle of the night was plain stupidity and that somewhere Naitik deserves a second chance. Only because, he has also loved Aksh as much as she has loved him. Alright, he has caused her a lifetime of hurt and resentment (by asking her to go to her parents), but that is because he truly and intensely loved her. He is as much in pain as she is. And his torture and anguish is going to increase enormously when she won't be next to him''.he will be totally shattered & broken.

I sincerely believe that Happy Endings are a must, be it on the Silver Screen, be it on the Idiot Box or in Real Life. Human failings are as old as civilizations itself and if everyone did get what they deserve, life would be a very different proposition altogether. It doesn't matter how much Naitik has hurt Aksh how he has thrown her dignity in tatters, in front of his family , how he has given her mental anguish''.the point is that he is going through all of this himself .

Love will ricochet & reverberate even amongst the most recriminatory emotions'..that is the captivation, enchantment and power of Love.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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well dear i would only say that partly i agree with u but what naitik did to akshara is really painful.think like tthis a girl left her house nd came to new house just on the basis of trust that whenever she is in trouble there will be someone to take out from that situation my point is towards naitik. .just keep urself in that situation just think if u were in place of akshara how would u feel when everyone tries to avoid u nd make u feel like a stranger.for naitik her mother is there but for akshara whose there??? u just answer this
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Love will ricochet & reverberate even amongst the most recriminatory emotions'..that is the captivation, enchantment and power of Love. 😍

dont know about naitik and akshara but loved these lines...


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although i like your style of writing, tina......😆....but i am sorry....but i don't agree with u........😆
...... there is no justification for not wanting to have a mature convo on naitik's part with akshi.....😲
...even the court of law allows a statement......even in a hideous crime like murder.....😆...
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i agree with renu di.... 😆 😆
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Tina, I agree with u in part...yes, Naitik deserves a second chance because I do think deep down he does love Aksh, but I can't help but ask, what does this second chance really mean? The problem with Naitik is that he has little faith/trust in his own wife. He jumps to conclusions at every turn when it comes to her... for one act of stallionism, there r 10 acts of doubt. He expects all his mistakes to be forgiven once he winks & holds his ears...but if Akshara pleads & tries to reason, there is hardly any understanding on his part. Even on SG1, I am not convinced he would have believed Akshara had it not been for Rituraj & her directly addressing both of them. Fast forward a few days later when Akshara was trying to console Nandini by talking to her about the joys of being married...Gulabo added mirch masala to what she said & Naitik believed her over his own wife. It was only until Nandini stated that Akshara did not do anything, that Naitik asked for forgiveness...This is a tiresome pattern with this guy, yaar...He needs people, letters, & not his own feelings to remind him what this woman really means to him. And in my opinion, until he himself learns to believe in his own feeling & trust Aksh, the second chance does not amount to anything...the misunderstandings will continue to manifest...
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Hun, don't you think that Aksh shd have been truthful with Naitik fr the word go. First she is Naitik's wife then Nandini's SIL. And she herself hails fr a very orthodox family so how could she think that this relationship will be accepted........ok even if I give her benefit of doubt since Mohit is her hubby's best buddy so she shd have consulted him or run it through him......that I think Nandini didi is falling for mohit. Naitik would have blown his top or yelled at her but that would have been solved b/w the couple only.

Aksh knew abt his altruistic-ness and bad temper .......she had witnessed that before too ........so she shd have been all the more careful in dealing with him. The communication b/w couple shd be like a open book. He did not change over night......he has always been very straight forward. He thinks deep and acts deep, he has a serious view of life (though it is highly flawed in many aspects) The mark of a true man 😎. Aksh has broken Naitik's strength......his strength which lies in his family…..takes him to roaring heights........has been broken to bits & pieces and that is why he has fallen to abysmal depths....just my 5cents 😈
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Originally posted by: 5cents

Hun, don't you think that Aksh shd have been truthful with Naitik fr the word go. First she is Naitik's wife then Nandini's SIL. And she herself hails fr a very orthodox family so how could she think that this relationship will be accepted........ok even if I give her benefit of doubt since Mohit is her hubby's best buddy so she shd have consulted him or run it through him......that I think Nandini didi is falling for mohit. Naitik would have blown his top or yelled at her but that would have been solved b/w the couple only.

Aksh knew abt his altruistic-ness and bad temper .......she had witnessed that before too ........so she shd have been all the more careful in dealing with him. The communication b/w couple shd be like a open book. He did not change over night......he has always been very straight forward. He thinks deep and acts deep, he has a serious view of life (though it is highly flawed in many aspects) The mark of a true man 😎. Aksh has broken Naitik's strength......his strength which lies in his family'..takes him to roaring heights........has been broken to bits & pieces and that is why he has fallen to abysmal depths....just my 5cents 😈

🤣 🤣 ....i am actualy wondering tina....does naitik think at all?????????
n acc to u....a man who throws his wife out of his house....is a true man ???? 😲 😲
🤣 🤣.....i'm sorry....but i strongly disagree.........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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totally agreed with u tina diiiiiiiiii

But all said and done, I still feel Aksh leaving the house at the middle of the night was plain stupidity and that somewhere Naitik deserves a second chance. Only because, he has also loved Aksh as much as she has loved him. Alright, he has caused her a lifetime of hurt and resentment (by asking her to go to her parents), but that is because he truly and intensely loved her. He is as much in pain as she is. And his torture and anguish is going to increase enormously when she won't be next to him''.he will be totally shattered & broken.

I sincerely believe that Happy Endings are a must, be it on the Silver Screen, be it on the Idiot Box or in Real Life. Human failings are as old as civilizations itself and if everyone did get what they deserve, life would be a very different proposition altogether. It doesn't matter how much Naitik has hurt Aksh how he has thrown her dignity in tatters, in front of his family , how he has given her mental anguish''.the point is that he is going through all of this himself .

Love will ricochet & reverberate even amongst the most recriminatory emotions'..that is the captivation, enchantment and power of Love.

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Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-



🤣 🤣 ....i am actualy wondering tina....does naitik <FONT color=#cc00cc size=4>think </FONT>at all?????????


n acc to u....a man who throws his wife out of his house....<FONT color=#cc0000 size=4>is a true man </FONT>???? 😲😲


🤣🤣.....i'm sorry....but i strongly disagree.........



you are right.. a man who throws his wife out of his house, is he really thinks?? 😆

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