taking the plunge! - Page 3

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

But is it totally her fault that the family's reputation is on the line...she tried to stop them from making instinctive decisions..they were making the ph call without even asking what nandu wanted.....It is nandu's fault, that even after akshara put her neck out 2 be slaughtered nandu just left her hanging...the timing of the situation was bad but it was out of her hand by that time....


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Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

🤣🤣🤣🤣 renu i like ur version

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sabi, thinking abt ur happiness is not being selfish....one has to be tactful and diplomatic while dealing with the in laws (if u wanna keep them happy..if u don't, it's ur choice, live seperate)...aksh did everything to keep them happy and in this process she did EVERYTHING which hurted them n in a way went against their tradition and tarnished the honour n reputation of the family.....isn't this foolishness? if she wanted to see them happy then "unki tarah se unhe khush rakhna padega, apni tarah se nahi"

"No1 kno where happiness lies...but mohit understands and see's her through a no-holds-bar, no limitation...no matter what his family does....if he continues 2 be her support she will raise above it...do u think she would really be able to build any type of relationship with this doc who is 2ce her age...and will she share any anspects of her life...happiness or sadness with him...she would never have been happy...and neither would her family....and definately not the doc"

well shanta.....nandini is 28......n the doc is 42....maybe 9-10 yrs older than ideal age for nandini....DEFINITELY NOT ....😆 ...."TWICE" her age....... 😆 😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

yes Shanta, it's entirely her fault tht the family reputation is one the line....lets chk her actions at every stage...first when she knew abt nandini and mohit, mohit was not sure of his feelings for nandu, he had not confessed to her so it was okay if both of them decided not to tell naitik or the family ....second stage was when nandu accepted the proposal....THERE Akshara was 100% wrong...mohit had not confessed n Nandini wanted to give her life a chance , she accepted her fate..yes, bhabhi ma n gayitri were calling ST without asking nandu BUT they are ALSO UNAWARE of NAndu's state of mind..prolly they thot that they must give nandu a chance to meet tht doctor n decide , instead of nandu refusing to meet the boy (like she did earlier)...may be after meeting tht guy, she likes him ..at some point of time, akshara's family also hid it frm her tht naitik will be coming to meet her again..Now, Akshara giving HER opinion at tht time when bhabhi ma was making tht call was not required at all ! the family must have thot of something before saying yes for the poposal n it's not tht they were getting nandu married forcefully...Shanta, is few cases, the age difference doesn't matter much...one of my hubby's cousin who was 21 got married to a guy who was 12 yrs elder to her but he looked the same age as hers....as long as the mental levels match, the age can be ignored...some ppl. look younger than their age..

now the 3rd stage when mohit confessed, AFTER tht point, Aksh encouraging this relation was abs wrong !!! bec. there the family honour was at stake...the boy's family were coming to see nandu and now it was too late for nandu to go back to mohit...and now the 4th stage when nandu decided to follow her parent's decision, Akshara was 500% wrong to ask her to think about mohit ..shit ! and here nandu not wanting to meet mohit, aksh took her to the park ..eekkks ! on the top of it, she's lying to naitik ..wahan in the park it was crystal clear na tht nandu will stay with mohit ?? then why did they lie to naitik? ab toh they had no option but to tell the family so why not NOW?

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

"No1 kno where happiness lies...but mohit understands and see's her through a no-holds-bar, no limitation...no matter what his family does....if he continues 2 be her support she will raise above it...do u think she would really be able to build any type of relationship with this doc who is 2ce her age...and will she share any anspects of her life...happiness or sadness with him...she would never have been happy...and neither would her family....and definately not the doc"

well shanta.....nandini is 28......n the doc is 42....maybe 9-10 yrs older than ideal age for nandini....DEFINITELY NOT ....😆 ...."TWICE" her age....... 😆 😆

...n without meeting the doc....😉....how can we decide....whether or not he would be ideal for her or no?...whether she would be happy with him or no?..........atleast, his family seems to be willing to accept her.....unlike moheeet's 😈 mother ...

......its not easy to live 24X7 with a m-i-l who despises the d-i-l to this extent 😲.........i know of real life cases where the d-i-l almost went into a depression with a m-i-l of this type, even though she had the undying support of her loving husband......😛

....n she wasn't even..."langdi"......😆 😆

Originally posted by: beautiful16

Hey anybody saw SBS??? naksh were ther... juz saw the last clip...zoobi doobi song was goin on... if anybody saw plz update..

Originally posted by: aksharanaitik

😆😆 i didnt know the exact numbers...have been watching in bit and pieces...ok 10 yr gap not a big deal...i thought he was doubled her age🤢

and i get what u guys are saying as well....I am not supporting their actions....i am just saying that akshara is not solely to be blamed 4 all of this....they all contributed to this mess in some way....the biggest one is nandini...then akshara....but they all played a role in this sinking of the titanic...
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