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purvi

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Posted: 15 years ago

I would like ask one question to all the people who are married here.......PLEASE HELP ME IN CLEARING IN ONE DOUBT........

IS THE RESPONSIBLITY GIVEN TO AKSHARA A BURDEN OR IS AKSHAR WHO IS NOT BEING ABLE TO COMPLETE HER RESPONSIBLITY......??????

PLEASE VIEW YOUR OPINIONS......

PURVI

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Janki75

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Posted: 15 years ago

It's a burden!

She is what like 21 years old and newly married

It takes servants, Bhabhi ma and Gayatri to run the house ( and they have experience- know who likes what and where everything is)

Poor Aksh, just thrown in- no explanation- atleast help her get a handle

they just want to burden her with responsibilites so she can not go to visit her maayka, go out with Natik or dress up/relax

My Mother in Law tried this with me- jsut so I would have no time to do the above-

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zarmeeno

@zarmeeno

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Posted: 15 years ago

I'm married for 16 years. I think the responsibilities that are given tioAkshara are not burden but the way they are given and imposed are burden.

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ritvi

@lacchu21

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Posted: 15 years ago

i don't think it's burden to akshara but it's too early to give the whole house responsibility to the newly wedded bahu,let them enjoy their early days of marriage,ghar ki kaam dhekhne ke liye pura zindhagee pada hua hai.

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Bhumika

@Bhumika18

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Posted: 15 years ago

I wouldn't say that they are burden but YES I do have to say that it is too soon to have give everything to here at once.

She needs to learn the ways of the new household and then things can be imposed on her. Like all us married women know that our homes had different ways to doing thing and our husbands families have different way of doing things. I liked how my MIL gave me all the time in the world to learn and pick the ways of their house.

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blueash

@blueash

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Posted: 15 years ago

its not burden at all...she doesnt hav to do any work she just have to take work from servants which is good....she just have to manage work....burden will be like shez doing all thngs alone...

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mahi

@mahi06

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Posted: 15 years ago

i thnk burdern....................she must be given time................

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

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Posted: 15 years ago

they are not a burden exactly bt the prob is tht there is no guidance along wid the responsibility..u cant jst leave her alone wid the work and then expect it to be perfect..tht is where gayatri is being too much..explain things to her,am sure she will handle everything well..

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purvi

@poooohjjjazzzzz

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Posted: 15 years ago

ok.......tahnx for yr opiniona nd all the things are now well cleared.....

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Rose

@rosepaul2110

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Posted: 15 years ago

#10

1. Akshara is always ghabrayee hui see and a bit immature. Look at Varsha, had she been in Akshara's place she would have won everybody's even G ma's favour. She knows how to balance between both.

2. G ma like every other MIL is holding on to her munna. She is out to find reason to shout at Akshara.

3. Menfolk ie Naitik n his father are unaware of what is happening in their house.

4. Gulabo and Maharaj too have joined with G ma for reasons unknown.

Hence it all boils down to attitude and not Work Burden. Running a huge house or mansion as that requires joint effort with an efficient person like Akshi's daddi to supervise. Mistakes have to be corrected pyaar se, there shouldnt be any room for communication gaps. And most of all it takes time to learn new work, some learn fast some r slow. Differences in human personalities need to be respected and accepted. One thing I cant help saying, Rajshri should have taught her daughter a bit of homemaking. Last minute lessons ie after marriage fixing doesnt help. You need to do for little long to master it.

So a bit of mistake from different ends.

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