Depth was missing - Page 5

Originally posted by: _charu_

i know what u mean by "something was missing" in Naitik speaking up.....i'm not sure about u, but i was expecting him to get a little bit worked up and give G a piece of mind...i thot he'll leave the dinner table without eating nything..thoda sa sabko gussa aata hai na bec. G is assuming everything n not listening to their side of the story....nevertheless he spoke and that's what matters...tht came from his heart..that's what naitik is all about.....in future also he wud not want to talk to G & Daddaji that way...he loves his family very much and he wud never want to go against them...everybody here says that he must support Akshara, fight with his family, live seperately, but i dun see that happening soon (and i dun wanna see tht either) bec. firstly Aksh never expressed her displeasure about ANYTHING to him and secondly both of them want to make an honest effort to live upto their parents expectations and carry forward the parampara (in Dino's words) ...now the elders have to understand that these children also have the right to CONTRIBUTE to it if they are a part of it....

i think they're showing it very beautifully & strategically the importance of a FAMILY.....there will always be a difference of opinion but their strength lies in overcoming all obstacles and living like a family....

i agree with you charu but seriously i didn't expect him to leave the dining table . whatever he explained to daddaji is ok but i want him to give one dialogue to gayatri like why are you not understanding me maa with serious tone.

Originally posted by: lathika4u

missing part is that he is very kiddish and talking about reputation, when he already spoiled it by sending askshara to her maayka without thinking, and defending his act thru a well 👏👏 talks by the forum members which i find it very foolish.. defending for akshara and bridging the gap, i doubt his that talk will bridge any GAPS there rather gaya3 will feel that naitik's loves akshara more than her, as this lady's thinking is very narrow, and he needed to work on it to widen the thinking.. defending akshara is not going to help.. but then naitik is immatured to understand, if he is matured how CV's can get all those hai hai naitik scenes..?? so they made him to act foolish and defend his foolishness.. well done👏

nobody is giving the importance to akshara in her sasural....everyone is degrading akshara including naithik,yesterday i didn't find him defending for akshara in fact he is defending for himself and he just clear the misunderstanding..after naithik talk sab ko patha chala that akshara is not responsible for this after that did they say sorry to her or at least naithik said to akshara "aapko itna sab kuch sunna pada just because of me" like that.in which way he is building the bridge between aksh and gayatri.did gayatri's expressions changed towards akshara?

Lathika, we can clearly agree to disagree on Naitik and what he said yesterday. I do not deny that Naitik has been mollycoddled (thus, the childish tendencies) by his family. I also agree that there should have been a phone call to his mom about his plan to send Aksh to her maayka. BUT, where I disagree is that what happened yesterday was FOOLISH. What would you have expected him to say? NOTHING? And for him to give a more "serious, in-depth" explanation to DJ and G ma? Is the dinner table after a puja the place for it? He could sense the tension amongst his family members and he wanted to dissipate it, and he was able to accomplish this brilliantly. A more "serious" conversation at that point would have made the matters worse...There is a place and time for everything, and in my opinion, Naitik realized this and acted upon it yesterday.

As for Bma and her scenes yesterday, we are on two sides of the same coin. I thought it was nonsensical but saw the humor it, and you thought it was just foolish... 😃

Originally posted by: lacchu21

<br>nobody is giving the importance to akshara in her sasural....everyone is degrading akshara including naithik,yesterday i didn't find him defending for akshara in fact he is defending for himself and he just clear the misunderstanding..after naithik talk sab ko patha chala that akshara is not responsible for this after that did they say sorry to her or at least naithik said to akshara "aapko itna sab kuch sunna pada just because of me" like that.in which way he is building the bridge between aksh and gayatri.did gayatri's expressions changed towards akshara?<br><br><br>

well i agree wid wat u just said... even i dont think naitik defended his wife. and i just hated gay3's attitude towards akshara. its just that she thinks ke she is perfect and no1 can be like her. according 2 me gay3 wants 2 grab all the attention frm her son(n i dunno wats the logic behind it). gay3 is a gud mother but indeed is a very bad MIL... i hated her 4 not understanding akshara. well those singhanias shuld have said sorry 2 naksh yest... i felt like kicking them... i dont want akshara 2 go thru this 3rd degree torture.. i want her 2 speak up n fight 4 her rights (which will never happen)... n honestly i dont want mohit n nandini 2 pair up... i dunno y i cant digest the fact that they r a couple. neways i cant do nething... this was wat i had 2 say... 😃 😛

Originally posted by: 2112ization

well i agree wid wat u just said... even i dont think naitik defended his wife. and i just hated gay3's attitude towards akshara. its just that she thinks ke she is perfect and no1 can be like her. according 2 me gay3 wants 2 grab all the attention frm her son(n i dunno wats the logic behind it). gay3 is a gud mother but indeed is a very bad MIL... i hated her 4 not understanding akshara. well those singhanias shuld have said sorry 2 naksh yest... i felt like kicking them... i dont want akshara 2 go thru this 3rd degree torture.. i want her 2 speak up n fight 4 her rights (which will never happen)... n honestly i dont want mohit n nandini 2 pair up... i dunno y i cant digest the fact that they r a couple. neways i cant do nething... this was wat i had 2 say... 😃 😛

hmmmm i agree wid all of u
n ayesha ur right singhanias should have atleast apologized naksh they shuld have said sorry for their foolishness !!!!!
nandini-mohit being a pair is nice poor nandini will be happy
but yes in yesterdays episode something was missing
u know there was not the charm as it was used to b before
n i remeber old days n feel sad tht yrkkh has changed so much
i donno what is the significance of showing akshara being torchured so much ?
she is so grown up n she is responsible enough
not just make her cry always n then no girl would like to marry !
its being married or sent into jail or what?

Originally posted by: lacchu21

nobody is giving the importance to akshara in her sasural....everyone is degrading akshara including naithik,yesterday i didn't find him defending for akshara in fact he is defending for himself and he just clear the misunderstanding.."after naithik talk sab ko patha chala that akshara is not responsible for this" after that did they say sorry to her or at least naithik said to akshara "aapko itna sab kuch sunna pada just because of me" like that.in which way he is building the bridge between aksh and gayatri.did gayatri's expressions changed towards akshara?

Dear Ritvi,

As u rightly said, "after naithik talk sab ko patha chala that akshara is not responsible for this"....n this is the "bridge" i'm talking about.......but then....Rome wasn't built in a day, u know.....

....this is precisely the point that i'm trying to make.......... he did this in a very diplomatic manner.....without offending ANYONE.......on the contrary, everyone settled down for a nice, happy family meal.............

FOR THE FIRST TIME, since his marriage........he tried to see G3'S POINT OF VIEW ALSO....WHICH HELPED HIM to behave in a correct manner........ 👍🏼

YES.....I definitely think akshi is leading a highly DEGRADING life amidst the Singhanias..........and obviously.......they should have been apologetic to akshara.........but alas!....the precap suggested just the contrary........... 😭

Originally posted by: rsk2fan-renu-

nobody is giving the importance to akshara in her sasural....everyone is degrading akshara including naithik,yesterday i didn't find him defending for akshara in fact he is defending for himself and he just clear the misunderstanding.."after naithik talk sab ko patha chala that akshara is not responsible for this" after that did they say sorry to her or at least naithik said to akshara "aapko itna sab kuch sunna pada just because of me" like that.in which way he is building the bridge between aksh and gayatri.did gayatri's expressions changed towards akshara?

Dear Ritvi,

As u rightly said, "after naithik talk sab ko patha chala that akshara is not responsible for this"....n this is the "bridge" i'm talking about.......but then....Rome wasn't built in a day, u know.....

....this is precisely the point that i'm trying to make.......... he did this in a very diplomatic manner.....without offending ANYONE.......on the contrary, everyone settled down for a nice, happy family meal.............

FOR THE FIRST TIME, since his marriage........he tried to see G3'S POINT OF VIEW ALSO....WHICH HELPED HIM to behave in a correct manner........ 👍🏼

YES.....I definitely think akshi is leading a highly DEGRADING life amidst the Singhanias..........and obviously.......they should have been apologetic to akshara.........but alas!....the precap suggested just the contrary........... 😭
i agreed with you renu but when will he try to see in akshara's point of view.

Originally posted by: lacchu21

<br><br>i agree with you charu but seriously i didn't expect him to leave the dining table . whatever he explained to daddaji is ok but i want him to give one dialogue to gayatri like why are you not understanding me maa with serious tone.<br>

Ritvi (right?) 😊 if somebody tells you that your mother is a bad lady will you believe him/her? we can never hear/think ill of our loved ones...For Naitik, it's not ONLY Akshara (and i want it to be tht way) , he loves his family ALSO..he can never think from your point of view tht Aksh is being tortured, in reality she isn't...these r small small issues which settle down with time..the biggest proof of this is Aksh herself who never made Naitik or Gayitri or his family feel that she felt bad for something

Originally posted by: Nandalala

Lathika, we can clearly agree to disagree on Naitik and what he said yesterday. I do not deny that Naitik has been mollycoddled (thus, the childish tendencies) by his family. I also agree that there should have been a phone call to his mom about his plan to send Aksh to her maayka. BUT, where I disagree is that what happened yesterday was FOOLISH. What would you have expected him to say? NOTHING? And for him to give a more "serious, in-depth" explanation to DJ and G ma? Is the dinner table after a puja the place for it? He could sense the tension amongst his family members and he wanted to dissipate it, and he was able to accomplish this brilliantly. A more "serious" conversation at that point would have made the matters worse...There is a place and time for everything, and in my opinion, Naitik realized this and acted upon it yesterday.

As for Bma and her scenes yesterday, we are on two sides of the same coin. I thought it was nonsensical but saw the humor it, and you thought it was just foolish... 😃

Anjali,

i agree that naitik, most of the times behaves in an immature manner.........highly pampered, blah blah blah........i have seen many of my marwari male relatives behave in this childish, immature manner.......he is largely responsible for the soup that akshi is in at the moment......👎🏼

and acc to me, ONLY HE can be the antidote to the poison that has fast spread thru G3's veins........unknowingly, he has POSED AKSHI AS THE GREATEST THREAT TO G3.......of dismantling G3's position in Naitik's life......which was right on top.....

and YESTERDAY, for the first time, i could see signs of Naitik finally trying to understand the complexities of relationships.........n he was diplomacy personified.............👍🏼

and yes.......u cannot turn the dining table into Kurkshetra..........there is a time n place for everything.......

as for Bma's scene.........i, too was having a hearty laugh......at the cvs........ N U KNOW WHY... 🤣

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ritvi (right?) 😊 if somebody tells you that your mother is a bad lady will you believe him/her? we can never hear/think ill of our loved ones...For Naitik, it's not ONLY Akshara (and i want it to be tht way) , he loves his family ALSO..he can never think from your point of view tht Aksh is being tortured, in reality she isn't...these r small small issues which settle down with time..the biggest proof of this is Aksh herself who never made Naitik or Gayitri or his family feel that she felt bad for something

here gayatri directly attack naithik on this issue no need to tell anyone to naithik about his mom.the way she talked and the way she interrupts in between the conversation.why can't he express his displeasure to his mom..if my mom points out me in all these matters like this ,i definately unse naraaj hojaoonge...
yeah you are right my name is ritvi.