Akshara caught without pallu - Page 9

Originally posted by: Tafseer

chalo u guys enjoy n do the tak taking....n damn tired n frustrated to discuss anything..waise kuch tha bhi nahi discuss karne ko.....
ba byee n gud day/ gud nite n sweet dreams to evryone....😃

Ok GN Taffs. Rest well...... I think we'll see munna day after....he is busy preparing for NOC's b'day😆 It is on the 18th😭 we share the day thankfully not the month

when i watch this serial i feel i am back to the age of my grandmoms because no educated and modern family lives like this today!!!!what a stupid creative team this serial has...instead of making these oldiees a bit modernised they always show akshara crying!!!

sounds like a backwass episode, and all of you guys seem to have logged offf..well i am not gonna bother watching. ab i'll only watch naksh milan 😍

Originally posted by: _charu_

i can tell u the reason but you will understand it only when you get married...It happens with everybody....i'm not taking Gayitri's side but i went through the same..the first factor is tht aksh is newly married...she must not try to do those things initially which her in laws are totally against ...there will be a lot of times where she will be misunderstood (like it happened tdy..she asked G and then Rajshri called Gayitri n said the same thing..perfect recepie for disaster) ...During this time, when Naitik is out of town, Aksh must have stayed back in her sasural and wait for Naitik to come back if she wanted to go to maayka....that's bec. if she wants to go to her maayka at THIS time then her in laws will think that she likes only her husband, the rest of the family is not important for her.......this fondness for in laws grows with time only, yes, bahut mann karta hai maayke jaane ka but Aksh chose the wrong day and time....and Rajshri also...she being a mom, saas and bahu should have understood...

Gayitri is by nature not a bad lady..All of us blow up when things start getting out of control....and there was enuf provocation for G.....I like her character very much bec. she's somewhat like my own MIL...these situations remind me of the mistakes I did when i was young n newly married...i kept wondering most of the time what am i doing ke my MIL is reacting tht way..it's difficult to understand but now when i see yrkkh , i understand HER perspective better, and of course after our communication improved........i was worse than Aksh..i'm very selfish...i dun accept any person in my life so easily..i can't open up with everybody, what was expected of me.......I misunderstood her all these years bec. i couldn't see anybody beyond my husband and parents....but now things have changed....i'm sure with time G and Aksh will understand each other better......okay Aksh will make mistakes and learn from them..tht's how all of us learn the lessons of life....Aksh must be extra careful of her conduct specially in public places...she's not a kiddo anymore...


there r only 2 solutions for Akshara..to accept their parampara or not to accept..beech ka raasta is closed for her at this point of time.....if she wants to accept, she must do it with her heart and soul..if she doesn't wanna accept then she must learn to get what she wants.....she can't have best of both worlds.....right now her husband doesn't have a say in the family then how will she have hers?

well said points charu.. infact i was thinking about this issue.. pallu is just a example of parampara .. but in reality, akshara has to accept husband's family first , as you mentioned she could have stayed back instead of going to maayka.. it is not easy for her.. if she is getting support from gaya3 like rajshri's support to varsha, things would have been better.. but here she is facing a competition from her, which i don't understand, what is making a 'female' to react that way ? gaya3 showing a double side or what? infront of munna she is different, in his presence she is showing more concern and love for akshara..

thinking about making changes to this parampara, my grandparents were of this parampara type, what changed them was their exposure to the city life, reading, and part of it i can say SILs and BILs.. . my family no one eat non veg, neither onions , and all my SIL/BIL eat .. so i can understand the struggle they might have gone thru, but they made the change .. they didn't oppose it but , they made my grandparents realise that there is a world outside too.. so the progression happened slowly and steadily.. now there is no parampara only existing..😆 as far as non-veg is concerned my bros/sis changed SIL/BIL ...😃

Originally posted by: 5cents

my biggest gripe with our society is that the ones who spout out the edict that ....."a girls true family are her in-laws" are usually the biggest tyrants of all. 😡

They spout all that hypocritical shiite, sasural think its their God-given right to persecute their DILs, good so called "sanskari" bahus will keep trying to placate and please these tyrants, until they either explode and break off or self-immolate.😡

Lats see how Aksh is freed fr the shekels of all this old traditions......Aks ko mukti kayese milegi? million doller qs. .....till the time she get liberated we'll be dead 🤢

i just posted some comments.. she has to take initiative to show them.. first and foremost here is she should continue with her studies, and show the progression of the world outside.. when a educated woman speaks, uneducated sit and listen... she should do that.. this will make gaya3 look at her with respect.. it is a slow process but it can be done.. akshara can educate them about the world outside.. she should invite gaya3 to go for shopping and movies... let the change start from gaya3.. as akshara can get permission from her FIL .. find out what gaya3's likes and dislikes apart from grihasti.. and work on those points..

there is an easy way, walk out of the house with your husband..😉 all of them will come running after her. as there will not be any domination, no pallu, no food issues.. best and fast way to teach them a lesson is this😆
daddaji can be changed thru his daughter..
gaya 3 can be changed thru rashmi

if they don't show the progress no point in watching the torture ..

Yawn!! Thank God i didnt see the epi.

thanks for the update
hate gayatri😡😡😡

Thanx Charu.. I agree with you to some extent.. until Naitik is finally has his position secure, she should try not to rock the boat.. there is too much expectation from inlaws.. they want to her to their carbon copy without understanding that she comes from a different background... if there is no true balance between the two.. everyone will be unhappy..

Wow, what a depressing episode. I can't watch it anymore. Charu , thanks for the updates.

it was crap!!gayatri is so mean n rude 2 akshara n especially 2 rajshri...i didnt like her tone ..it luked mre of an accusation...!