Poor baby! of the moment - Naitik - Page 24

Originally posted by: sanw

I very much agree with you latika

he didnt think of whether she liked it or not,

he did it for his own pleasure, becoz he liked it

Marriage fixed now both of them have to love & live....Maybe he did it for himself😲 coz....Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty😃.......just my5cents

Originally posted by: 5cents

Marriage fixed now both of them have to love & live....Maybe he did it for himself😲 coz....Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty😃.......just my5cents

Originally posted by: lats55

Rewind the video charu... 1st occasion when she reciprocated his hug SR2.. he asked her to go to sleep..

2nd occasion, when blanket shared, that scene she was ever ready and he asked her to sleep..stage issue arised afterwards...

Lata, according to u she was ready to confess her love but munna was not ready to listen....ok accepted this is a logical statement😃

But she is not sure of her love for him.....whatever Naitik did was for his own pleasure....ok accepted but this is a illogical statement Anyway, she agreed to marry him & now they are man& wife .......Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.....inshallah they'll have enuff love in sometime......every dark cloud has a silver lining.

Then u say... she'll confess when he matures .......now this is a confusing statement😕 Maybe she has not yet accepted Naitik as her hubby fr her mind but dear dil mai tho Naitik he hai.....mano ya na mano.....
Love is what your mind can't think of and your heart makes routine......this is highly dil-logical stuff dear😳

There is no fixed solution for this love-marriage problem, like chemistry everyone has to find their own solutions.Everyone has to understand on their own, what they want & how they are going to handle it. Now I leave it to Naksh to figure it out 😆
want to add.....
Just remembered .....the mandir sc......Munna looking at munni's eyes.... mai saab bhool gaya😳 ...Naitik's true love dear......Love is when there are a million things you want to say to someone, but when they look you in the eyes and hold you in their arms nothing in life matters other than being with that person at that moment.😳

Originally posted by: _charu_

oh yes , i just saw the promo....Akshara will have a problem with each and every habit of Naitik (tht's what i said before their marriage)...actually i was surprised howcome they didn't show any of these till date...for eg. he's a cleanliness freak and Akshara doesn't bother too much, he likes his coffee burning hot, he's very fussy about his food (it should be the way he likes..doesn't tolerate a but of moderation) and so on and so forth...now if Akshara starts crying every minute and say that why did you marry me, sorry it's not gonna work this way for her.....OKAY a husband and wife quarrel for these things but what's the point in crying? i just HATE this ...

Originally posted by: sanw

Does it mean that even he thinks that its a competition between his mom & his wife? mom se chipa ke take wife to meet her parents & when U find your wife has cheated on U by not telling the truth, U rush to your mom

Originally posted by: 5cents

Well,I agree that going to mom's lap was highly objectionable according to some but it is fine by me. Naitik & his kiss fest with mom was fine for u all ......I guess it is a persons temperament or nature......me & my bro are very momcentric. I remember in 2007..... when I was in US.... the recession hit era......my company was downsizing & I was afraid of loosing my job. Everyday I use to bother my hubby with all this & his pep talk did help .....finally tired of my whinnying .....took me to my mom's place .....which was 6 hours drive fr where Ilived. There I saw my newly married bro also heartbroken (I don't know how my bhabhi felt) but then by evening we were all fine. But my husband does not believe in the lap therapy.....he says he is very practical not touchy-feeley like us. His parents blessing are good enuff for him. I'm not complaining😆

I guess,it is matter of time when Aksh will declare her love as she has given him her heart but just needs to open it now😉 ......as she can't forget .....he has climed pipes for her, covered for her, comforted her, cried for her, laughed with her, tugged at her hair and now her day starts and ends with him filling all the moments in between.😳

Hope I don't invite anymore flames😉......

Tina... aah felt so good to read this. This is exactly what I wanted to say yesterday but was not able to write my thoughts. My family is just like yours.

I am speechless! I just don know what to make of all this childish stuff! its really eating my brain!

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>Rewind the video charu... 1st occasion when she reciprocated his hug SR2.. he asked her to go to sleep.. <br><br>2nd occasion, when blanket shared, that scene she was ever ready and he asked her to sleep..stage issue arised afterwards...<br><br>

ok fine so what changed the 3rd time? dadi's pravachan ? the first 2 times Akshara was ready to sleep with Naitik?

Originally posted by: _charu_

yeah, i never tried, my umblical cord was automatically tied to my love....if i cud break tht cord with my mom (she meant the world to me), it was only bec. of my love..

i dun know what's so annoying abt Naitik sharing his grief with his mom...whether he does it in front of Mohit or Akshara or Gayitri, it doesn't make him a weak person....everybody needs emotional support .....

oh Tina, u know the answers.....forget abt love , I have doubt whether Akshara really likes him or no ! or she's accepted whatever is happening in her life as a never ending compromise & duty which she has to fulfill for her parents and society sake ! she's looking for compatibility in Naitik (which she might never find) , she's expecting him to change for her because people change in love.....i'll stick to what i said last week...that there aren't any stages in love.......love is selfless & unconditional .......what dadi told them are the stages of married life.....one does find true love after going through these stages..but can cross these stages with the help of love only...

Originally posted by: lats55

br><br>as far as i am concerned, she was totally a stranger to his actions, whether she needed it or not can't say.. i am sure being a cultured girl, she won't be entertaining anything of that sort , she accepted it because their marriage was almost fixed that stage.. <br><br>only one occasion she shown her care for him was the college hug.. that was because he made her wait whole day, she was so scared that something might have happened to him, and that action from her was so natural, that too esp after the day before kiss..<br>

what do u mean cultured girl?? 😲 which century are u talking about Lata? even school going children are advanced than they were in their courtship ! doesn't mean we all r uncultured because we did much more in our courtship days ! their marriage was not "almost fixed" , it was fixed at that stage.....

and now can you tell me one occassion where Akshara showed any affection for Naitik? what else does a girl want except for love ? and he didn't want to take her to bed before marriage ke we're raising objections on his behavior ! WHY she won't be entertaining anything like THAT? C'MON ! Everytime she was waiting to see him , meet him WHAT WAS THAT? she was meeting him behind her parents back..did Naitik forced her to do so? didn't she want to meet Naitik? 😲