Poor baby! of the moment - Naitik - Page 29

Originally posted by: lats55

she need time to speak, before she says anything he walked off.. and it become habbit for him to walk off.. which he doing every now and then leaving her alone.. main reason for all the MU is his walk off..

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

really...the main reason for the MU is his walk off and not her khamoshi??? if she needs time to process what she wants to say, can she indicate to him to wait rather than give a blank crying look.....will he just stand there indefinitly thinking that she will speak up sooner than later???.....

just see how she is going to handle him and her married life... whatever is going on now is only an initial adjustment problems... things will be alright, and she will set everything right..

Originally posted by: ritu_iluvyrkkh

really...the main reason for the MU is his walk off and not her khamoshi??? if she needs time to process what she wants to say, can she indicate to him to wait rather than givea blank crying look.....will he just stand there indefinitly thinking that she will speak up sooner than later???.....

exactly ! usko sapna aayega ke aksharaji ke dimag mein processing chal rahi hai and he must wait till she speaks up ! on the day of her mehandi, she needed time to think whether or not she loves Rituraj !

Originally posted by: sks7

<br><br>Exactly...she is damn lucky.....<br>The kind of love that she wants to reach before consummation will atleast take a year or so.....<br>I still remember my husband tolerated all my nakhra's without even letting me know that he didn't like it for more than a year...because he wanted to give me time to adjust...and same way i also ignored a lot of his habits which i didn't like...........But that doesn't mean you remain brahamchari ... it is also a form of love which helps you reach the level of love which Akshara is looking for.......or for that matter the creatives are looking for....You have to learn to adjust and compromise a bit for love....here both
of them are hell bent on changing the other person acc. to their
likings.....

Sonu, the kind of love she wants to achieve might take years ! and what does she think? even after crossing all the 4-5 stages, samarpan and true love happening, will these small fights and disagreements vanish? Naitik will change according to her? life changes every moment and so do our priorities ! she's can crib about one thing all her life....the next issue will come up very soon....after the child, the equation b/w husband wife completely changes ! this love which she's asking for doesn't stay forever..it changes it's form which is very difficult to accept ....we have to change accordingly

Originally posted by: _charu_

Sonu, the kind of love she wants to achieve might take years ! and what does she think? even after crossing all the 4-5 stages, samarpan and true love happening, will these small fights and disagreements vanish? Naitik will change according to her? life changes every moment and so do our priorities ! she's can crib about one thing all her life....the next issue will come up very soon....after the child, the equation b/w husband wife completely changes ! this love which she's asking for doesn't stay forever..it changes it's form which is very difficult to accept ....we have to change accordingly

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>how can a girl who not even completed her degree can understand the value of job in comparison with a man who holds MBA ?? <br>

zero ! for her the value of his job might be zero..now what does this have to do with his MBA ? she knows how to throw out RR from her life by her shallow talks about pati and patni (she was his patni for that day only) but she can't understand the importance of a career choice bec. she's 19? 😕 this is not the excuse....she knows and understands everything but she can't speak or she doesn't want to speak, she just want Naitik to understand her inside out without her doing any effort frm her side

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>this story is based not on the present century charu.....olden times you can never think of all these.. look at the way she is been brought up.. bec of one guy from the college she is been forced into a married life.. they are stopping her studies.. is it happening this century in india??? <br><br>all those situation you stated above is created by naitik.. i dont think she is the one who takes initiative for all what you said above.. one phone call, two meeting, will not make a person to fall in love .. at least not me.. then the phase of attraction, you will feel like meeting the other, it happens.. not that she is totally in love and dying to meet him..<br>

which parent will like it if he sees his daughter holding some boy's hand? my parents will surely ASK me...and Akshara was NEVER forced into marriage..She was given enuf time to decide and complete freedom to see if she's ready for the marriage.....It was after her approval that they started looking for boys for her....what culture tradition and upbrining? if Naitik had not taken that first step to come close to her, know her, Akshara would never be happy abt her marriage, never fallen in love and they wud be like 2 strangers living together under one roof ! till the day of her marriage Akshara wud be thinking whether or not i'm doing the right thing? am i in love with this person or not? now if he loves her, that is also his fault ! he's selfish ! he did it for himself ! which girl will object to her would be husband touching her woh bhi just holding hands or touch her hair ? 😕 ab if Naitik itna bhi nahi karta toh i don't understand what do we expect him to do? bec. everything he does , whether it's for Akshara or himself or his family or Akshara's family, he's in the line of fire? 😲

Originally posted by: _charu_

zero ! for her the value of his job might be zero..now what does this have to do with his MBA ? she knows how to throw out RR from her life by her shallow talks about pati and patni (she was his patni for that day only) but she can't understand the importance of a career choice bec. she's 19? 😕 this is not the excuse....she knows and understands everything but she can't speak or she doesn't want to speak, she just want Naitik to understand her inside out without her doing any effort frm her side

charu education is totally different from natural feelings.. so she know how important naitik in her life... MBA is of course a professional course, and importance of job comes with the course itself.. as they were discussing about the difference betn boy and girl, boys are always been brought up with job intention in india (old days) and girls with grihasthi.. wise people uses silence as a good medicine .. she is wise.. and due to that reason she can understand him, better than he understands her, just wait and see how the story is going to develop..

Originally posted by: _charu_

which parent will like it if he sees his daughter holding some boy's hand? my parents will surely ASK me...and Akshara was NEVER forced into marriage..She was given enuf time to decide and complete freedom to see if she's ready for the marriage.....It was after her approval that they started looking for boys for her....what culture tradition and upbrining? if Naitik had not taken that first step to come close to her, know her, Akshara would never be happy abt her marriage, never fallen in love and they wud be like 2 strangers living together under one roof ! till the day of her marriage Akshara wud be thinking whether or not i'm doing the right thing? am i in love with this person or not? now if he loves her, that is also his fault ! he's selfish ! he did it for himself ! which girl will object to her would be husband touching her woh bhi just holding hands or touch her hair ? 😕 ab if Naitik itna bhi nahi karta toh i don't understand what do we expect him to do? bec. everything he does , whether it's for Akshara or himself or his family or Akshara's family, he's in the line of fire? 😲

that is what is the concept of arranged marriages isn't it?? give her time to adjust, first with herself, then with her husband, then surroundings etc.. time please...

Well, I'm in Gurgaon today for a meeting ......took the early morning flight to be here at sharp 9 am & guess what......The guy I was to meet did not show up till 10am..... then called me saying..... his MIL is very sick & will not be able to make it.......I just could not contain my laughter......real life story......now coming to reel..... naitik did not let Aksh stay back to nurse her ailing mom......what illness......loniliness . Seriously she needs to see a shrink......paging dr. frued😈 will be a better option. I have not watched yesterday's episode & now will not bother.

U la la this discussion has gotten very hot... I feel like adding some icy statements😈 to balance & drop the mercury. Ok will do that if my next meeting also gets cancelled lol