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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: desertrose21

so guys, i am trying to understand this...sorry if my question is silly...<br><br>is pallu part of culture or religion or both?<br>



i dun know frm where and when it came...but even my saas used to take it in front of her in laws..she told me once tht she couldn't go in front of daadaji without covering her head...so the tradition is not that old...they were asked to wear saarees 24 X 7 ! 🤢

Whenever i go to Delhi, or here in Chandigarh, or a small town or village, i NEVER see any woman covering her head..it's totally out...totally..i think so..haan a few women feel comfortable in saarees only..specially in west and south..but in North India, saarees are also out..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Guyz she look more cuteee without pallu on head.......
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree there will be big drama for this pallu matter and I hope the elders of the fmily being generous in accepting the youngsters decision...if aksh and naitik both dont want the pallu then I think the elders should agree to it..I would atleast be happy if they show aksh without pallu atleast when she is with naitik otherwise the whole romanctic scene essence is spoilt
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hi, new to the forum,
Not only Naitik, but I think everyone in the family loves Akshara... but this show will teach us how new brides need to be patient and how to tackle different situations in order to settle down in new life...As Naitik's father said that Akshara' mind is now like Kora Kagaz, whatever you write will stay there... Coming from such a cultured and loving family, Akshara will win the hearts of all in no time...No one is against her, for everyone she is their own and for Akshara everyone in the family is hers...
This show is highly appreciable
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: desertrose21

its only day 1 right now...she might get tired of it after a few days. you can tell by the way she was getting ready today that she is not too fond of it.

like right before they descended the stairs, bhabi maa had to fix it again..😕
if she lets it slip or doesn't wear it coming out of the bathroom..daddaji or someone might see her and raise hell..
..if that happens then she should request an attached bathroom 😆
i hope she takes it off atleast at pag pheera...oh wait, i forgot about naani

dont worry nani gi to hogi shuti😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

<FONT color=#990033>Hi, new to the forum,

Not only Naitik, butI think everyone in the family loves Akshara... but thisshow will teach us how newbrides need to be patient andhow to tackle different situations in order to settle down in new life...As Naitik's father said that Akshara' mind is now like Kora Kagaz, whatever you write will stay there...Coming from such a cultured and loving family, Akshara will win the hearts of all in no time...No one is against her,for everyone she is their own and for Akshara everyone in the family is hers...

This show is highly appreciable
</FONT>...👏



ur not new to me 😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_



ur not new to me 😊

Yeh, I also recognised the name charu... from Ramayan and KHMK ...right?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I dont think Akshara should show unhappiness in the Pallu stuff. My logic is 1. Once you show respect and be obedient and malleable for some days, you can never imagine how much you get in return from your in-laws. After some days, these same people will be so flexible. 2. If putting Pallu makes older people happy, why cant someone forget ego for sometime and put pallu and slowly try to make them realise that she might be a college-goer and pallu does not suit her. 3. Its not daddaji and all in the family are evil persons, with a little patience and perseverence, Akshara's good nature will win all your hearts in no time. 4. A bahu is said to be the one who binds the family together, a little bit of sacifice can bring loads of happiness and will help her to win the love and respect of her own husband. Its not easy to win a husband by always arguing and objecting to his parents... There are in-laws, I undersatnd, who are not malleable, but I feel many people are atill good in this world and they can be won over if you let lose a little of your ego.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_



of course it's uncomfortable wearing a saaree as well...but she's seen her mom n chachi dressing up tht way throughout their lives so it's nothing new for her..yes dadi gave varsha the permission but aksh knows daddaji will not like it..my point is tht the culture and traditions of the two families are not that different ..it's now tht maheshwari's have become slightly liberal (After varsha's entry) , otherwise dadi never asked rajshri and sunaina not to cover their head....may be they brought about this "liberal" thinking in Maheshwaris to show tht a girl never gets the same atmosphere in her in her sasural what she gets in her parents home..it's impossible..

ya thats exactly what i meant also.... in her mind, akshara will be thinking that.. will take time to her to get adjusted to wearing d pallu all d time...!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think its not that Akshara doesn't like taking pallu or a matter of respect...as Charu pointed above its not new for her she has seen her mom and chachi do that.
But i think its more becoz the new generation doesn't take the pallu ..again pointed above by Charu very well.....Even our parents took it and my mom and mom in law still do it...but my FIL himself asked me when i got married not to cover the head and it is the same with many girls here in North India.....
So why i want her not to take Pallu is just for the reason that waqt ke saath chalna chaiye...but if a girl likes to do it then its her choice...
And in this case since its a soap ...she looks good without pallu so thats why too..
Dadaji might not like it...but Dadaji is good...upar se sakht hai for traditions....but he allowed Naitik to go for interview...he allowed Akshara to give exams.....so might allow her that too...you never know...

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