Is there is any truth ?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: lats55

am surprised.. how can they think so low, esp when you are engaged and meeting your would be.. shows they don't trust their would be's and why they agreed to marry then?

Originally posted by: lats55

thanks.. bec characters drawn up in this serial is cultured.. how come cultured boy like shaurya got low thinking.. he sounds like a low class family boy .. and which is not suiting to his character.. rather thinking such a low level, he could have advised varsha to be with akshara whenever they meet..

Originally posted by: _charu_

Lata , the reason for this is that nowdays boys and girls have a lot of freedom ..when they get engaged or when their marriage is fixed, they think they've got the licence to do whatever they feel like (it applies for the girls too) and parents are scared bec. God forbid if something wrong happens, if the marriage is called off, then ladki ki bahut badnaami hogi....and the girl will feel all the more hurt...when u emotionally & physically connect yourself to someone, it's difficult to let it go easily.....i've seen cases where the marriage was called off at the last moment due to some unavoidable circumstances ...it's heart breaking for that girl..

i understand.. but will those things happens in cultured arragnged marriages also is the question? here Naksh is from cultured family and they know their limits.. and i doubt whether they cross that limit, considering their background..

Originally posted by: lats55

i understand.. but will those things happens in cultured arragnged marriages also is the question? here Naksh is from cultured family and they know their limits.. and i doubt whether they cross that limit, considering their background..

Originally posted by: _charu_

tht's exactly where Shaurya is wrong...He should trust his family's choice...His jamaisa is a gem..

even in cultured arranged marriages, the girl and boy want to meet before their marriage..😛 every person has to set a limit for himself..

But how can you be sure it is cultured...werent Rituraj's family cultured thats why they went for the rishta, it's only when the time comes you know how cultured one is....Like Naitik is indeed cultured thats why even thouhg he had many chances but never done anything obejectionable with Akshi..and thats why Akshara trusts him and went with him inspite of Varsha telling her not to go.But all her family don't know Naitik well so they don't approve of her meeting him alone.

But in real situations people might not know the other persons intentions(unless you have seen that family since past many yrs.) well and thats what all the families are worried about...and at this age and courtship period one can carried away easily...and God forbid something happens then it can be very bad....i don't know if u all follow Balika Vadhu but in it they are showing this very aspect, although the girl was married but Gauna wasn't done and she is now pregnant. but her husband is no more...so it is problem for them now...
Thats the fear i guess...

Originally posted by: sks7

But how can you be sure it is cultured...werent Rituraj's family cultured thats why they went for the rishta, it's only when the time comes you know how cultured one is....Like Naitik is indeed cultured thats why even thouhg he had many chances but never done anything obejectionable with Akshi..and thats why Akshara trusts him and went with him inspite of Varsha telling her not to go.But all her family don't know Naitik well so they don't approve of her meeting him alone.

But in real situations people might not know the other persons intentions(unless you have seen that family since past many yrs.) well and thats what all the families are worried about...and at this age and courtship period one can carried away easily...and God forbid something happens then it can be very bad....i don't know if u all follow Balika Vadhu but in it they are showing this very aspect, although the girl was married but Gauna wasn't done and she is now pregnant. but her husband is no more...so it is problem for them now...
Thats the fear i guess...

i doubt Naitik would do anythind but Shaurya was just being the older brother

Originally posted by: sks7

But how can you be sure it is cultured...werent Rituraj's family cultured thats why they went for the rishta, it's only when the time comes you know how cultured one is....Like Naitik is indeed cultured thats why even thouhg he had many chances but never done anything obejectionable with Akshi..and thats why Akshara trusts him and went with him inspite of Varsha telling her not to go.But all her family don't know Naitik well so they don't approve of her meeting him alone.

But in real situations people might not know the other persons intentions(unless you have seen that family since past many yrs.) well and thats what all the families are worried about...and at this age and courtship period one can carried away easily...and God forbid something happens then it can be very bad....i don't know if u all follow Balika Vadhu but in it they are showing this very aspect, although the girl was married but Gauna wasn't done and she is now pregnant. but her husband is no more...so it is problem for them now...
Thats the fear i guess...

any cultured girl will never allow emotions to take an upper hand.. they are so sure of themselfs and will not spoil their family name.. shaurya is not trusting his own nature that is why this type of thinking comes into his mind.. if he trusted his own culure and sister, this unwanted thinking would have never arised.. leave what naitik wants.. trust your own sister that is important..