Is there is any truth ?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: lats55

don't you think, their thinking will be influenced by their upbringing?

Originally posted by: lats55

valid points.. but do guys thinks this way about a girl whom they are going to marry?? do they really think so bad?

I think boys have double faces. girls who are gud girlfrenz and girls who will be good wifes, in small towns ..

But still i think infact sagai se pehle milna is more badnaami than after saagai..afterall u r meeting u r wouldbe..but as each family situation and surroundings are different so..in my case my parents never let me meet my hubby though he insisted so much , he was even ready to fly across Atlantic but no ways....and when they finally did as my hubby was really adamant at that time.. it was a week before marriage ,that too ,two bodyguards my sis and his sis were sent along..🤣And ya we had rishtedars in house and my family made excuses that she has gone to the parlour etc etc..so i kinda identify with this family

It depends on the guy in question....sum guys do think tht way...and sum dont...

Originally posted by: lats55

Could any one explain whether there is any truth in what Shaurya's talk to Varsha in relation with Akshara's meeting with Naitik.. do you think guy's really think that way.. esp when they are from cultured family?? it sound like uncultured thinking...

its both ways if u think abut it.. i mean as for unculutred thinking yah but for boys in cultured families they've been taught one girl and that too after marriage.. no looking at anyone before that.. so when they're engaged they see that ONE GURL as theirs. i mean they're boys, GROWING BOYS at least naitik is if akshara just graduated!!! but yah majority of boys in my experiences think like that(and i mean by obseveing my surroundings)

Originally posted by: _charu_

Lata, aisa sochne ki unki himmat nahi ho sakti..kehna door ki baat hai..they know they'll get a good amount of bashing if they say so ! 😆😆😛 If a girl OR a boy thinks this way abt their partner "ye itni aasani se maan gayi" , it's as good as saying "i'm doubting ur character" ..tht means therez no trust in a relationship..but i'm gonna ask my husband abt this..def. wud like to know a boy's point of view..

thanks.. bec characters drawn up in this serial is cultured.. how come cultured boy like shaurya got low thinking.. he sounds like a low class family boy .. and which is not suiting to his character.. rather thinking such a low level, he could have advised varsha to be with akshara whenever they meet..

Originally posted by: brainychild92

its both ways if u think abut it.. i mean as for unculutred thinking yah but for boys in cultured families they've been taught one girl and that too after marriage.. no looking at anyone before that.. so when they're engaged they see that ONE GURL as theirs. i mean they're boys, GROWING BOYS at least naitik is if akshara just graduated!!! but yah majority of boys in my experiences think like that(and i mean by obseveing my surroundings)

am surprised.. how can they think so low, esp when you are engaged and meeting your would be.. shows they don't trust their would be's and why they agreed to marry then?

Originally posted by: sks7

I think boys have double faces. girls who are gud girlfrenz and girls who will be good wifes, in small towns ..

But still i think infact sagai se pehle milna is more badnaami than after saagai..afterall u r meeting u r wouldbe..but as each family situation and surroundings are different so..in my case my parents never let me meet my hubby though he insisted so much , he was even ready to fly across Atlantic but no ways....and when they finally did as my hubby was really adamant at that time.. it was a week before marriage ,that too ,two bodyguards my sis and his sis were sent along..🤣And ya we had rishtedars in house and my family made excuses that she has gone to the parlour etc etc..so i kinda identify with this family

what can be reason for them doing so?

Originally posted by: sks7

I think boys have double faces. girls who are gud girlfrenz and girls who will be good wifes, in small towns ..

But still i think infact sagai se pehle milna is more badnaami than after saagai..afterall u r meeting u r wouldbe..but as each family situation and surroundings are different so..in my case my parents never let me meet my hubby though he insisted so much , he was even ready to fly across Atlantic but no ways....and when they finally did as my hubby was really adamant at that time.. it was a week before marriage ,that too ,two bodyguards my sis and his sis were sent along..🤣And ya we had rishtedars in house and my family made excuses that she has gone to the parlour etc etc..so i kinda identify with this family

Originally posted by: lats55

what can be reason for them doing so?