04/26 Adda Annex: Deny thy father,refuse thy name? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

Sanju, Honey, the way we are....the educated urban lot, dont think so any father-in-law or bf/husband's dadi can behave so ruthlessly with us or with our family. In fact they will fear us, instead of we fearing them. 😆 Yes by all means, we would respect them, but wont let them walk all over us. And I am sure we would have proper communication with our bf about how to deal with family, before jumping to any conclusions. Dont know what muharat Lehar was waiting for. Lekin yeh to serial hain, drama toh banta hain na boss. In reality, we would handle it much more efficiently.

I agree Anvi....but well it mabbe a lil more different but again depends on the family u go into!!

@anvi...i agree with u...but sudha's character is really volatile u know...she might take a long time to come around...as u said, her life revolves around her husband, mom-in-law and kids...and the engagement is really seeming a li'l out of place...and with abeer cornering omi along with shadab and gaurav (😆😆😆) is making it more intruiging....though have to admit...had i been omi i would laugh my heart out at the vision of shadab and gaurav threatening me 🤣

@anvi...walk all over us? 😲 carpet thodi na hai? 😆...yeah and agree with u on that....may be our perspectives are biased coz we also would in most cases be financially independent.....

in case of abeer and leher that is a little distant as of now...which again is bad...especially given that abeer's family is not normal 😆

Honey yaar, how can you enjoy any serial if you see it with full-on practicality. The most unreal stuff happens in such serials.

To tell you the truth, I did not mind TN's outburst, Abeer's answers, or anything else for that matter. I am just happy that since past 2 episodes they have stuck to the family drama. I wanted Brij-Lehar and Sudha-Abeer private scenes today and I got it, so me all happy. Sudha's reaction, I am just over-analyzing. The humiliation she went through at the hands of her dear hubby and saasu maa, the fact that she could talk at all in front of Abeer, was good enough. I dont mind she blabbering on and on right now. Once things settle down, she will understand Abeer's feelings for Lehar.

And I dont think so love can only happen once you stand on your feet and are independent. Love can happen with anyone at anytime at any age. In Abeer's case, he fell in love with Lehar at her very first sight, its a different thing that he realized this much later. Some times people mature and then fall in love, sometimes people fall in love and then mature. Each case is different. But to experience the feeling of love, there is never a pre-requisite. Its a different thing if love materializes into a relationship, thats where practicality comes in.

Sanju, I so wished Abeer had concentrated on his studies and done apprenticeship with his dad when he had all the time in his life, when situation was normal. Atleast, if thrown outside the house or if pocket money is cut permanently, he could have worked in a law office and supported himself. But nahin, our Abeer was busy flying kites when he was free, ab khaak naukri milengi.

And I am so hoping that Abeer does not go with Shaadab and Gaurav alone to fight with Omi. Those 2 are pretty much useless, like Ankur. Omi ek phoonk marenga aur yeh dono ud jaayenge. 😆 I hope Abeer makes a full-proof plan before attacking an enemy like Omi. Abeer better not make a fool out of himself/his family/Lehar/Lehar's family when he is dealing with Omi. Omi still has a lot of weapons in his hands to attack Mathurs. Abeer better be cautious.

This engagement news has surprised me. I hope they are not rushing with things once again. I shall wait for tomorrow's episode to see how things turn out. We still havent seen TN's and Boodha's reactions properly. These 2 are definitely not going to sit quietly and in shock for long. Once they recover from this initial shock, pata nahin kya karenge Specially Boodha, jisko koi sharam nahin hain, she can go to any length to protect her fake image and unche kul ki maan-maryaada and all.

anvi..it'd be the second one for abeer and leher here....good thing that despite they being young, they still respect and understand their commitment....the family angle will infuse all the worldly sense into their love story too soon...but then it was inevitable..the sooner the better...their expectations will be grounded almost at its inception

an i am not surprised they did not "learn" from the madhav-rashmi fiasco...u never understand the intensity of things unless u face it urself...afterall when had abeer expected that the father he idolized can actually talk rubbish about his love interest as did his daadi and madhav's mother !! and ironically it was this dad of his who asked him to stay away from kitchen politics of the house...reality indeed has a cloudy face !!

@anvi i have an uncanny feeling that abeer's family might agree to the engagement just to shut the mohallawaley up...i frankly do not see them warming up to the mathurs...i mean, given their history of disenchantment with the same....the abeer-leher thing should worsen things if anything at all !! and daadi and TN firmly believes that non-brahmins use the brahmins to climb up the caste ladder....however idiotic and futile that might sound

so i dont see any good intention behind this engagement...it looks more like an eye-wash...will calm abeer down...give him a fake sense of assurance which then can be used to pack him off somewhere

and i dont belive omi will give up so easily..i mean he is a ranked hooligan..he is used to deal with things far more evil an difficult than brreaking up two lovers

abeer and leher sure have a long way to go

and frankly i dont mind....i see no reason for leher to be happy with abeer's family anyways 🤢

Originally posted by: Anvi2009

Honey yaar, how can you enjoy any serial if you see it with full-on practicality. The most unreal stuff happens in such serials.

To tell you the truth, I did not mind TN's outburst, Abeer's answers, or anything else for that matter. I am just happy that since past 2 episodes they have stuck to the family drama. I wanted Brij-Lehar and Sudha-Abeer private scenes today and I got it, so me all happy. Sudha's reaction, I am just over-analyzing. The humiliation she went through at the hands of her dear hubby and saasu maa, the fact that she could talk at all in front of Abeer, was good enough. I dont mind she blabbering on and on right now. Once things settle down, she will understand Abeer's feelings for Lehar.

And I dont think so love can only happen once you stand on your feet and are independent. Love can happen with anyone at anytime at any age. In Abeer's case, he fell in love with Lehar at her very first sight, its a different thing that he realized this much later. Some times people mature and then fall in love, sometimes people fall in love and then mature. Each case is different. But to experience the feeling of love, there is never a pre-requisite. Its a different thing if love materializes into a relationship, thats where practicality comes in.

anvi...I am not viewing this serial with practicality but can't close my mind na.... n have my views!!

Well sure Sudha will understand n all n yea true Love can happen anytime....but the definition of love is different at every stage😊....n that's my POV....mabbe u won't agree.....but when u r independent or mabbe a lil settled it's easier to fight for it n thats what I meant by Abeer standing on his own!!

Love ek taraaf aur zindagi ek taraf......but again "aag ka dariya hai aur doob ke jaana hai"....i am sorry but honestly I don't have a rosy picture for love!!

On that note....GN gals!!

good night honey 🤗.. i shd also hit the sack now...

good night girls 🤗🤗

From M-R fiasco, Abeer realized 1 important thing, which will help him immensely while dealing with his love story, and that is that Boodha can go to any length to stop a wedding. Abeer saw the true face of his grandmother during M-R fiasco, which is good enough. And plus, it gave him the much needed lessons to balance family and love. In past 2 episodes, he has been doing a fab job in dealing with his parents respectfully, and at the same time making sure no one insults Lehar. And we also saw that Abeer may be a kid at heart, but when the situation demands, he can behave maturely and most rationally too.

Now as he goes forward with his love story, he will actually see the true/second side of all the people he is surrounded by, and specially the society. It will be exciting to see how AbHer face all the problems together, and inevitably grow, as individuals and together in their relationship, in the process.